Ngenxa yembonakalo yethu yokuyila yomntu ngamnye (imeko yengqondo yomntu ngamnye), apho kuvela ubunyani bethu, thina bantu asingabo nje abaqulunqi bekamva lethu (akufuneki sinikezele kulo naliphi na ikamva elicingelwayo, kodwa sinokulithatha liye kuthi. izandla kwakhona), asingabo nje abadali benyani yethu, kodwa siphinda sidale ngokusekelwe kwiinkolelo zethu, Iinkolelo kunye neembono zehlabathi inyaniso yethu eyodwa ngokupheleleyo.

Intsingiselo yakho yomntu ngamnye yobomi - inyaniso yakho

Ngenxa yesi sizathu, akukho nyaniso yendalo yonke; Ngendlela efanayo, wonke umntu udala eyabo inyaniso kwaye uneenkolelo, iinkolelo kunye neembono zobomi. Ekugqibeleni, unokuwuqhubela phambili lo mgaqo uze uwusebenzise kwindlela ocinga ngayo ukuba ubomi bunenjongo. Ngokusisiseko, akukho ntsingiselo iphangaleleyo okanye ephangaleleyo yobomi, kodwa umntu ngamnye uzenzela isigqibo ngentsingiselo yakhe yobomi. Awunakwenza ngokubanzi intsingiselo yobomi obuyifumene kwakhona, kodwa vele uyinxulumanise nawe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba injongo yobomi yomntu yayikukuba nentsapho aze avelise abantwana, oko bekuya kuba yintsingiselo yakhe yobuqu yobomi (intsingiselo ayinike ubomi bakhe). Ngokuqinisekileyo wayengenakuyichaza ngokubanzi le ntsingiselo kwaye athethele bonke abanye abantu, kuba wonke umntu uneengcamango ezahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo ngobomi kwaye udala intsingiselo yakhe yomntu ngokupheleleyo. Kunjalo kanye ngenyaniso. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ufikelela kwisigqibo sokuba ungumdali wenyaniso yakhe, umdali wemeko yakhe, loo nto yinkolelo yakhe yobuqu, ulweyiseko lwakhe okanye inyaniso yakhe.

Akukho nyaniso yendalo yonke, njengokuba kungekho nyaniso yendalo yonke. Thina bantu sidala inyaniso yethu epheleleyo kwaye ngoko sijonge ubomi kwimbono ekhethekileyo ngokupheleleyo (wonke umntu ubona ihlabathi ngamehlo ahlukeneyo - ihlabathi alikho njengoko linjalo, kodwa njengoko unjalo .!!

Unokuthi ke ayenze ngokubanzi le nkolelo okanye athethele abanye abantu / ayinxulumanise nabanye abantu (kwaye ke nje kancinci ebenokunyanzela umbono wakhe kwabanye abantu). Thina bantu sonke sinezimvo zethu zomntu ngamnye malunga nobomi kwaye senza iinkolelo, iinkolelo kunye nemibono yehlabathi, ethi yona imele kuphela inxalenye yengqondo yethu. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kufuneka sizihloniphe iingcinga/inyaniso zabanye abantu kwaye sibanyamezele endaweni yokubagculela okanye sinyanzele ezethu izimvo kwabanye abantu (phila kwaye uphile).

Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abanye abantu batyekele ekunyanzeliseni iimbono zabo kwabanye abantu, kanye njengokuba abanye abantu bengenakuzihlonela ngokupheleleyo baze bazinyamezele iimbono zabanye abantu okanye iingcamango zabo. Endaweni yoko, uluvo lwakho lubonwa njengenyani epheleleyo, enokuthi ikhokhelele kwiingxabano ezahlukeneyo..!!

Kwelinye icala, akufuneki samkele nje ngokumfamekileyo ezinye iimbono okanye iinyaniso zabanye abantu, endaweni yoko, kufuneka sijongane nayo yonke into kwakhona, sibuze yonke into ngoxolo kwaye, ngesiseko soku, siqhubeke singumntu opheleleyo kwaye sibe ngabantu. iyakwazi ukugcina umbono wehlabathi okhululekileyo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo. 🙂