I-subconscious yeyona ndawo inkulu kwaye ifihlakeleyo yengqondo yethu. Eyethu inkqubo, o.k.t. iinkolelo, iinkolelo kunye nezinye iimbono ezibalulekileyo ngobomi, zimiliselwe kuyo. Ngesi sizathu, i-subconscious ikwayinto ekhethekileyo yomntu kuba inoxanduva lokudala eyethu inyani. Njengoko bendihlala ndikhankanya kwiitekisi zam, ubomi bomntu buphela buyimveliso yengqondo yabo, intelekelelo yengqondo yabo. Apha sithanda ukuthetha ngentelekelelo engabonakaliyo yengqondo yethu. Nangona kunjalo, umoya awubandakanyi nje ukwazi kwethu, kodwa umoya ekugqibeleni uthetha ukusebenzisana okuntsokothileyo kunye ne-subconsciousness apho ubunyani bethu buphela buvela khona.
Hlela kwakhona i-subconscious
Sisebenzisa ingqondo yonke imihla njengesixhobo sokubumba ubomi bethu. Ngenxa yoku, sinokwenza ngendlela yokuzikhethela kwaye sinokuzikhethela ukuba zeziphi iingcamango esizivumela ngokusemthethweni ezingqondweni zethu kwaye singazikhetheli. Singazikhethela ngokwethu ukuba sibumba njani ikamva lethu, yeyiphi indlela esiya kuyithatha kwixesha elizayo, esicinga ukuba siya kuqonda kumgangatho wezinto eziphathekayo, sinokubumba ngokukhululekileyo indlela yethu yekamva ebomini kwaye sidale ubomi obuhambelana ngokupheleleyo nobethu. izimvo. Nangona kunjalo, i-subconscious yethu nayo iyahamba kolu yilo. Enyanisweni, i-subconscious ibalulekile ekudaleni ubunyani obulungileyo ngokupheleleyo kwindalo. Kulo mongo, i-subconscious yethu inokuthelekiswa nekhompyuter entsonkothileyo apho zonke iintlobo zeenkqubo zifakelwe. Ezi nkqubo ke zona zinokulinganiswa neenkolelo, iinkolelo, iimbono malunga nobomi, imeko jikelele kunye noloyiko kunye nezinyanzelo. Olu dweliso lwenkqubo luhlala lufikelela kwingqiqo yethu yemihla ngemihla kwaye luphembelela indlela esiziphatha ngayo.
Ulwalathiso lwengqondo yethu lugqiba ubomi bethu. Ngokukodwa, iinkolelo ezizidalileyo, iinkolelo kunye neembono malunga nobomi zikwamisela indlela eyongezelelweyo yobomi bethu..!!
Ingxaki ngale nto kukuba i-subconscious yabantu abaninzi igcwele inkqubo engalunganga kwaye ke kuyenzeka ukuba thina bantu sidale ubomi obubonakaliswa zizimilo ezingalunganga. Kule nkalo, ngokuqhelekileyo iinkolelo zangaphakathi kunye neenkolelo ezisekelwe kuloyiko, inzondo okanye ukulimala. Ezi nkolelo, izimo zengqondo kunye neenkolelo zihlala zikhangeleka ngolu hlobo:
- andinakuyenza loo nto
- oko akusebenzi
- Andilunganga
- ich bin nicht schon
- I have to do this otherwise lizondehlela ilishwa
- Ndiyayifuna/ndiyidinga lento kungenjalo andizuziva kakuhle/ kungenjalo andinanto
- Khange ndi
- akazi nto
- usisibhanxa
- Andiyikhathalelanga indalo
- ubomi bubi
- Ndiphethwe lishwa
- abanye bayandicaphukela
- Ndiyabacaphukela abanye abantu
Ekugqibeleni, zonke ezi zizimo zengqondo ezingalunganga kunye neenkolelo ezenza inyaniso engalunganga engonakalisi thina kuphela, kodwa inokulimaza abo basingqongileyo. Kule nkalo, kubonakala ngathi ingqondo yethu isebenza njengemagnethi eyomeleleyo, itsalela ebomini bethu yonke into ehambelana nayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uqinisekile ukuba awunanhlanhla kwaye kwenzeka izinto ezimbi kuphela kuwe, oku kuya kuqhubeka kwenzeka. Akunjalo ngenxa yokuba ubomi okanye indalo iphela inesimo sengqondo esibi kuwe, kodwa ngenxa yokuba wena ngokwakho udala ubomi obusekelwe kwisimo sakho sengqondo malunga noku apho amava anjalo angathandekiyo atsalwa ngokuzenzekelayo. Yonke into ixhomekeke ekuziqhelaniseni nemeko yethu yokuqonda kwaye oku kunokutshintsha kuphela ukuba sihlaziya iinkolelo zethu kunye neenkolelo zethu ngobomi kwaye sizitshintshe. Ngokomzekelo, kwiminyaka embalwa edluleyo, ngaphambi kokuba ndiqale ndadibana nezinto zokomoya, ndandingumntu othanda ukugxeka nozijongela phantsi. Esi simo sengqondo sokungaxabiseki kwabanye abantu sasiyinxalenye yobomi bam, yobuqu bam, kwaye ke ngokuzenzekelayo ndagweba yonke into kunye naye wonke umntu ongafanelanga kweyam, imbono yehlabathi. Kodwa ke yafika imini xa, ngenxa yokwanda ngamandla kwengqondo, ndafumanisa ukuba mna ngokwam andinalo ilungelo lokugweba ubomi babanye abantu okanye ihlabathi labo lokucinga. Okwesihlandlo sokuqala ebomini bam ndaye ndazi ukuba isimo sam sengqondo sasingafanelekanga kwaye sasiphosakele kangakanani kwaye ndaqalisa ukwenza imbono entsha kwaye, ngaphezu kwayo yonke, imbono engenasigwebo yobomi.
Ulwazi lwam ngelo xesha lwatshiselwa kwi-subconscious yam kwaye ngenxa yoko ndafumana, okokuqala ngqa, ukuhlengahlengiswa kwe-subconscious yam ..!!
Kwiintsuku ezalandelayo, olu lwazi lutsha lwatshisa kwi-subconscious yam kwaye ngalo lonke ixesha ndigweba mna okanye abanye abantu, ndawuyeka ngokukhawuleza lo mdlalo, ubuncinci ngokwezigwebo zam. Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, ndiye ndaphinda ndacwangcisa i-subconscious yam kangangokuba andizange ndiphinde ndigwebe ubomi babanye abantu okanye iingcinga zabo kwakhona. Ndazilahla izimo zengqondo zam zangaphambili ezingakhiyo ndaza emva koko ndadala ubomi obutsha, ubomi apho ndiye ndayeka ukugweba abanye abantu ndaza ndaqhubeka ndibuhlonela yaye ndibuxabisa ubomi babanye abantu.
Ubomi obulungileyo bunokuvela kuphela kwingqondo ephilileyo, ingqondo engasaphenjelelwa ziinkolelo neenkolelo ezingakhiyo..!!
Ekugqibeleni, oku kusitshixo sokufumana ubomi obulungileyo. Imalunga nokuhlaziya iinkolelo zethu ezingakhiyo, izinto esizikholelwayo kunye neengcinga zethu ngobomi, siziqonde kwaye sidale isiseko apho kuvela inyaniso elungileyo kuphela. Imalunga nokuhlengahlengisa ezethu i-subconscious kwaye nabani na oyincutshe kobu bugcisa anokuthi, ekupheleni kosuku, adale ubomi apho bona kunye nabo babangqongileyo baxhamla kakhulu. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
