Sihlala sihamba nathi kubomi bemihla ngemihla ngezivuseleli ezahlukeneyo, zonke ezo zonyusa inqanaba lethu lokungcangcazela okunamandla ixesha elide. Okunye koku kutya okutofotofo “kukutya” eside sicinge ukuba kuya kusinika amandla nokomelela kwemini. Yiba ikofu kusasa, isiselo samandla phambi komsebenzi okanye ukutshaya icuba. Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi asiqapheli ukuba izinto ezincinci ezivuselelayo zilawula iingqondo zethu kwaye zilawule iingqondo zethu.

Amandla okutya okuxineneyo ngamandla

Yonke into ekhoyo kuyo yonke indalo okanye yonke indalo iyinto nje enkulu, ingqondo, ingqondo ethi ekugqibeleni, njengayo yonke into ekhoyo, iqulathe kuphela amazwe anamandla. Ngenxa yokulungelelaniswa kweendlela ze-vortex, la mazwe anamandla ayakwazi ukuxinana okanye ukuncipha. I-Negativity yalo naluphi na uhlobo idala ingxinano yamandla, ngelixa ubuhle busenza eyakho impahla efihlakeleyo ibe khaphukhaphu. Okukhona imeko edlamkileyo isondela, kokukhona sibonakala sibona izinto ezininzi, sicinga (Umbandela ke ngoko yinkohliso nje, amandla ajiyileyo akhokelela thina bantu ukuba siwaqonde njengento enzulu). Ngesi sizathu, kukwakho nokutya okuxineneyo ngamandla kunye nokutya okukhanyayo okunamandla. Eyangaphambili ihlala ibhekisa kukutya okungcolisekileyo, ukutya okuneekhemikhali ezahlukeneyo, ezinje ngezibulali zinambuzane, iaspartame, iglutamate kunye nezinye izinto ezingenakubalwa. Kodwa kuthekani ngokutya okuninzi? Ukubona njani ukutya okuxineneyo? Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuchonga ukutya okunjalo, enye yazo ndingathanda ukungena kuyo ngokubanzi apha. Ngokusisiseko, kukho uphawu olunye olunokuthi lusoloko lusetyenziswa ukuchonga ukutya okunjalo kwaye kukukhobokisa. Mandisebenzise ikofu njengomzekelo. Xa kuziwa kwikofu, abantu abaninzi abavumelani malunga nokuba isempilweni okanye hayi. Elinye icala libanga ukuba ikofu ayinabungozi konke konke kwaye esinye isiqingatha sithi ayilunganga kwimpilo yakho. (Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kufuneka uhlukanise phakathi kweembotyi zekofu ezitsha zekofu kunye nekofu ye-industrial pad). Kodwa yintoni elungileyo?

Ukufiphala kwengqondo yomntu

Ngokusisiseko, ikofu ayilunganga engqondweni yakho kuba ikofu kukutya okutofotofo odla ngokusela nje ngaphandle komkhwa. Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wokusela ikofu rhoqo kusasa kwaye emva koko uqonde ekuhambeni kwexesha ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwayo. Ukuba awukwazi ukuqhelana nombono wokungaseli ikofu kusasa. Ukuba oku kunjalo ngoko nangoko uyazi ukuba ikofu ayikulungelanga kuba umlutha uhlala ubeka uxinzelelo engqondweni yakho. Uba nokungaphumli, uvalo kwaye uqaphela nje ukuba iingcinga zakho zijikeleza njani koku kutya kubunewunewu. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokutya okuthile okunethezeka ngokwakho, ke kwiimeko ezininzi unokucinga ukuba oku kutya kubi, kuba awukusebenzisi ngenxa yezizathu zempilo, kodwa ngokuyintloko ngenxa yolonwabo, isiqhelo kunye nezizathu zokulutha. Kodwa umlutha yinto evala ingqondo yakho kakhulu, kuba iziyobisi ziphazamisa ibhalansi yakho yangaphakathi. Uphelelwa kukuphumla kwaye awukwazi ukuphila ngeli xesha kuba iingcinga zakho zijikeleze oku kutya kubunewunewu. Isivuseleli esihambelanayo ke sinakho esandleni sakho, silawula iingcinga zakho kwaye siyakuphazamisa kubomi bakho bangoku. Into eluncedo kwimpilo yakho ayilawuli eyakho ingqondo, Ngokuchasene noko, ukutya okunjalo kunokuba mnandi, kodwa ukutyela ngokuyintloko ukuphucula impilo yakho. Kweli nqanaba kufuneka kwakhona kuthiwe wonke umntu unamava ahlukeneyo okulutha. Ngokomzekelo, umntu omnye unokukhupha umzimba wakhe ngeti eluhlaza kwaye asele kuphela ngenxa yezizathu zempilo, omnye usela kuphela ukuzonwabisa kwaye akakwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwayo, apho i-tea eluhlaza iya kuba noxinzelelo kwiingcamango zomntu, kuba yena. uzimisele kubomi bemihla ngemihla ukuba ukwazi komntu ohambelanayo. Umlutha ke ngoko usoloko ungalunganga kumgaqo-siseko wakho wengqondo kunye nomzimba.

Ukuba likhoboka lam

Ngokomzekelo, ndandilikhoboka lomya ixesha elide. Lo mkhwa wenze kwanzima kakhulu kum ukuhlala ndihlala ngoku kuba ndandicinga ngengca kuphela. Intombi yam yayikhona, ndandingavuyi kuba eyona nto ndandiyicinga yayikukufumana ukhula. Ndifike ndingekaneliseki ndazama ukuyiplana ndabe sendicinga ngengomso le procurement yangomso. Ngokusisiseko, ndiye ndaqhubela kude nentliziyo yam, ukusuka kwimeko yam yokwenyani yengqondo ngoku kwaye ndihlala ndihlala kwimeko yengqondo engalunganga. Ngesi sizathu, sinokucebisa kuphela ukuba wazi iziyobisi zakho. Nokuba uhlala ucinga ukuba ezi azinakwenzakalisa, azikuthwali mthwalo, nditsho neziyobisi ezincinci, ndingatsho nje ukuba le mithwalo uzibophelele yona igubungela ingqondo yakho. Esikhundleni sokunikezela kwi-addiction, kuyacetyiswa ukuba unikezele ekuthandeni, kubantu abasondeleyo entliziyweni yakho kwaye bathetha yonke into kuwe. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.