Ibali lomntu lisisiphumo senkqubo yakhe yokucinga, ingcinga abathe besazi ukuba bazenze zasemthethweni ezingqondweni zabo. Izenzo ezathi zenziwa emva koko zavela kwezi ngcinga. Sonke isenzo athe umntu wasenza kubomi bakhe, sonke isiganeko sobomi okanye onke amava awafumeneyo, ngoko sisiphumo sengqondo yakhe. Okokuqala okunokwenzeka kukho njengengcinga engqondweni yakho, emva koko uyakuqonda ukuba kunokwenzeka okuhambelanayo, ingcinga ehambelanayo ngokwenza isenzo, kwinqanaba lezinto ezibonakalayo. Le yindlela otshintsha ngayo kwaye uyilonge indlela yobomi bakho.
Nguwe umdali, ngoko khetha ngobulumko
Ekugqibeleni, oku kunokwenzeka ukufezekiswa kunokulandwa emva kumandla akho okudala. Kulo mxholo, wonke umntu ungumdali onamandla, umntu onamacala amaninzi onokudala esebenzisa amandla akhe engqondo. Siyakwazi ukutshintsha ibali lethu njengoko sinqwenela. Ngethamsanqa, singazikhethela ingcinga esiyiqondayo, ukuba kufuneka yenzeke njani na enye indlela yobomi bethu. Ngenxa yokwazi kwethu kunye neenkqubo zokucinga ezivela kuyo, sinokwenza ukuzimela, sinokuphuhlisa ngokukhululekileyo amandla ethu okudala okanye sisebenzise ukuguqula ubomi bethu.
Unoxanduva lwekhondo elizayo lobomi bakho!!
Ibali lobomi bakho ke ngoko ayisosiphumo samabona-ndenzile, kodwa sisiphumo sengqondo yakho. Ekugqibeleni, nguwe kuphela onoxanduva kuyo yonke into oye wadibana nayo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ebomini bakho. Ukuba sigcina lo mgaqo wokudala engqondweni, ukuba siphinda siqaphele ukuba ukwazi kungumthombo wobomi bethu, loo mandla akrelekrele ngawona mandla asebenzayo aphakamileyo kwindalo iphela apho kuvela khona zonke izinto ezibonakalayo nezingabonakaliyo, ngoko siyaqonda, ukuba singabi phantsi kwesiphelo, kodwa sibe nokuthabathela isiphelo ezandleni zethu.
Ungazikhethela ukuba ngawaphi amathuba owasebenzisayo ebomini bakho..!!
Ngoko unokuthatha ibali lakho ezandleni zakho ngokusekelwe kwizakhono zakho zengqondo, ngoko ukhethe ngononophelo, kuba ikhondo lobomi bakho oye wagqiba ngalo alinakuguqulwa. Nangona kunjalo, nokuba uye waqaphela iimeko ebomini bakho ezinokuthi azizange zibe yile nto ubuyilindele, kufuneka wazi ukuba yonke into ebomini bakho ifanele ukuba kanye njengoko isenzeka ngoku. Kukho izinto ezinokwenzeka ezingapheliyo, ezifakwe kwidama elikhulu lolwazi lwengqondo, kwaye unokukhetha ukuba yeyiphi kwezi zinto ezinokwenzeka ozibonayo kwaye uziqonde.
Nika ingqalelo umgangatho weengcinga zakho, kuba ikamva lobomi bakho livela kubo..!!
Imeko okanye ingcinga ogqiba kuyo ekugqibeleni yingcinga eqinisekileyo ekufuneka iphunyeziwe, kuba kungenjalo ubuya kwenza isigqibo ngento eyahluke ngokupheleleyo ebomini bakho, ngoko ubuya kuba namava ahluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngesi sizathu, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uthathele ingqalelo iingcinga zakho, kuba zibalulekile kwikhosi eyongezelelweyo yebali lakho lobomi obukhethekileyo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
