Wonke umntu omnye ngumdali wenyaniso yakhe. Ngenxa yeengcamango zethu, siyakwazi ukudala ubomi ngokweengcamango zethu. Ingcinga sisiseko sobukho bethu kunye nazo zonke izenzo. Yonke into eyenzeka, yonke into eyenziwayo, yaqala yakhawulwa phambi kokuba iphunyezwe. Ingqondo/ingqiqo ilawula phezu kwento kwaye yingqondo kuphela ekwaziyo ukutshintsha ubunyani bomntu. Asiphembeleli kuphela kwaye sitshintshe ubunyani bethu ngeengcinga zethu, sikwaphembelela inyaniso edibeneyo. Kuba siqhagamshelwe kuyo yonke into ekwinqanaba elinamandla (yonke into ekhoyo iqulathe kuphela indawo engaphelelwa lixesha, amazwe anamandla angcangcazelayo ngamaxesha amaninzi), ukwazi kwethu kukwayinxalenye yengqondo ehlangeneyo, inyaniso edibeneyo.

Ukuphembelela inyaniso edibeneyo

Wonke umntu udala eyakhe inyani. Ngokudibeneyo, uluntu ludala inyani edibeneyo. Le nyaniso edibeneyo ibonisa inqanaba langoku lokuqonda koluntu. Yonke into abantu abakholelwa kuyo, apho wonke umntu eqiniseka ngokupheleleyo, uhlala ezibonakalisa njengenyaniso kwinyani edibeneyo. Ngokomzekelo, abantu abaninzi babekholelwa ukuba umhlaba usicaba. Ngenxa yale nkolelo edibeneyo, olu lwazi lwaba yinxalenye yengqondo ehlangeneyo. Ngaxa lithile kwafunyaniswa ukuba umhlaba ungqukuva.

Oku kuqonda ngokukhawuleza kwatshintsha ubunyani obukhoyo obukhoyo. Bayanda abantu abakholelwa kule ngcamango. Oku kudala into entsha okanye etshintshileyo edibeneyo. Iqela ngoku laliqinisekile ukuba umhlaba ungqukuva. Ngaloo ndlela ingcamango yomhlaba osicaba yapheliswa. Kuhlala kukho abantu abanempembelelo enkulu kwinyani yentlanganisela ngenxa yemibono emitsha kunye nezimo zengqondo. Oko ucinga kwaye uziva, izimo zakho zengqondo kunye neepateni zenkolelo zigeleza ngokuthe ngqo kwinyani edibeneyo, ekubeni wena ngokwakho uyingxenye yenyaniso edibeneyo kwaye ngokuphambene. Ukuqonda komntu ngamnye ke ngoko kuqukuqela kwingqondo edibeneyo kwaye iyitshintshe. Ulwazi lwakho luthi ke ludluliselwe kwinyani okanye kwizinto eziyinyani zabanye abantu. Amaxesha amaninzi ngabantu abakwinqanaba elifanayo lengqondo.

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu uyaqonda ukuba ungumdali wenyaniso yakhe, ngoko oku kucinga kuya kufikelela kubantu abaye bajongana nesi sihloko ngokwabo okanye, ngokuchanekileyo, bajongene nalo mzuzu. Mhlawumbi nabantu abaziva betsalelekile kwimibandela enjalo. Okukhona abantu befumana olu lwazi, kokukhona oku kucinga kuzibonakalisa ngamandla ngokwenyani edibeneyo. Yonke loo nto ke ibangela ukusabela kwetsheyini. Bayanda abantu abamkela esi simo sengqondo baze ngaloo ndlela baphembelele ukwazi kwabanye abantu. Ukuqonda nje ukuba ukucinga komntu kuphembelela inyaniso edibeneyo eneneni kuphembelela inyaniso edibeneyo. Ngaphandle koko, lo mba usenza sibe ngabantu abanamandla kakhulu kuba bubuchule obukhethekileyo bokukwazi ukutshintsha imbumba ngoncedo lweengqondo zethu kuphela.

Amandla okucinga: Eyona nto ikhawulezayo kwindalo iphela

Le nkqubo ibangel’ umdla yenzeka ngenxa yeengcamango zethu. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba iingcamango zethu zidibene nayo yonke into. Oku kuvumela ukuba iingcamango zethu zifikelele kuyo yonke into kunye nomntu wonke. Yethu Iingcinga zihamba ngokukhawuleza kunokukhanya. Oku kungenxa yokuba iingcinga zethu azikhawulelwanga sisithuba okanye ixesha. Unokucinga nantoni na nangaliphi na ixesha nakweyiphi na indawo.

Ixesha lasemajukujukwini alinampembelelo ingumda kwiingcamango zethu. Kuba ingcinga ifikelela kuyo yonke into kwaye wonke umntu kwangoko kwaye ifumaneka kwindawo yonke ngenxa yesakhiwo sayo esingaphelelwa lixesha, ikwayeyona nto ikhawulezayo kwindalo iphela. Akukho nto ihamba ngokukhawuleza kunengcinga. Ngenxa yale nyaniso, iingcinga zethu zifikelela kwiinyani zabanye abantu ngaphandle kokuphambuka. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kukwacetyiswa ukuba ubeke ingqalelo kwimeko yakho yengqondo. Ukuba ucinga ngokungaguquguqukiyo ngokungalunganga nangokuzinzileyo, ke oku kunefuthe elibi kwindlela yokucinga yabanye abantu.

Yiyo loo nto kufuneka uqiniseke kangangoko ukuba ubeka ngokusemthethweni iingcinga ezakhayo engqondweni yakho. Oku akuphuculi nje umgaqo-siseko wakho wengqondo kunye nomzimba, kodwa kunempembelelo entle kwingqondo ehlangeneyo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.