Ewe, uthando lungaphezu kwemvakalelo. Yonke into iqulethwe yi-cosmic primal energy ezibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Eyona iphakamileyo kwezi fom ingamandla othando - amandla okudibanisa phakathi kwayo yonke into. Abanye bachaza uthando “njengokugqala isiqu sakho komnye,” luphelisa inkohliso yokwahlukana. Inyaniso yokuba sizibona sahlukene omnye komnye eneneni yinto enye Inkohliso ye-ego, ingcamango yengqondo. Umfanekiso osentlokweni yethu osixelela oku: “Nanku ke, ndim lo. Ndingomnye umntu ngaphandle kwakho.”

Uthando lungaphezu kwemvakalelo

Ukuba sisusa isigqubuthelo umzuzwana kwaye sijonge ngaphaya komphezulu weefom, sibona into enzulu kuyo yonke into. Ubukho bangoku obungaxeshanye ngaphandle nangaphakathi kuthi. Amandla obomi akuyo yonke into. Ukuthanda kukuzintywilisela kula mandla obomi kwaye uqonde ubukho bawo kwindawo yonke. Ilitye lembombo lalo lonke uvelwano.

Uthando ngowona mandla aphezulu

Amandla othando abandakanya zonke iimpawu ezintle ezinjengokonwaba, ubutyebi, impilo, uxolo kunye nemvisiswano. Ngamandla aneyona ntshukumo iphezulu. Ndicinga ukuba inye into ecace ngakumbi kunayo nayiphi na enye into ngoku: ubuntu bukwisiphambuka sendlela. Kufuneka sithathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba sifuna ukuthatha indlela yokubandezeleka kunye nokuzibhubhisa okanye indlela yothando, imvisiswano kunye nophuhliso oluqhubekayo. Umsantsa phakathi kobumnyama nokukhanya awuzange ube mkhulu kangako. Ukuba sifuna ukuyeka ukuzibhubhisa kwaye sihambe umendo wenkululeko, kufuneka kubekho utshintsho kwingqondo. Utshintsho lwengqondo kude nentshabalalo kunye nokuxhaphaza ngokugqithisileyo, ukuya kwingqiqo yothando kunye nobulumko behlabathi. Kwaye qikelela ntoni? Kuxhomekeke kumntu ngamnye kuthi. Akukho mntu wumbi uya kuwenza lo msebenzi ngaphandle kokuba siwenze. Ngamnye wethu unoxanduva namhlanje lokukhulisa ulwazi lothando kunye nendalo elungileyo.

Ihlabathi langaphandle sisipili semeko yethu yokuqonda - kufuneka siphile into esiyifunayo ngaphandle. Kufuneka sibe yiyo. Uthando lwethu aluloxeshana..!!

Igcinwe kwigridi yoMhlaba kwaye inefuthe kuthi nakuyo yonke enye into. Uthando yimeko yokuqonda. Masizintywilisele ngakumbi nangakumbi kule meko yokuqonda-ukudala imvisiswano yethu, kuye wonke umntu kunye nendalo. Yiyo kuphela indlela yokuphuma ekubandezelekeni.

Ungaqala njani ukwenza uthando kuwe kunye nabanye NAMHLANJE.

1. Ukucamngca okulula

Ndidwelisa le "teknoloji" kuqala kuba ifikeleleke kakhulu kwaye inefuthe kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho. Uthando luzibonakalisa kwinqanaba elifihlakeleyo njengokukhanya. Ukukhanya kungumthwali wolwazi onokuhlawuliswa nayiphi na impahla. Ekucamngceni okukhanyayo ubona iifom zokukhanya ozifunxayo kwaye utyebise intsimi yakho yamandla. Amandla okukhanya nawo anokuqikelelwa kwabanye abantu okanye kwiindawo. Kuba inkcazo eneenkcukacha ngakumbi inokuhamba ngaphaya komda, ungayifumana kweyam iwebhusayithi apha inqaku malunga neendlela zokujonga kunye apha kunye nayo yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nokucamngca okukhanyayo. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza kube lula kuwe, unokukhuphela ukucamngca okukhokelwayo simahla kum okuya kukunceda uphumle ngokupheleleyo kwimizuzu eli-10 kwaye ukomeleze ngothando olutsha kunye namandla: https://www.freudedeslebens.de/

2. Wanga umntu ongamlindelanga! 🙂

Ukucinga nje kundenza ndincume. Amadoda ngokukhethekileyo adla ngokuba nengxaki yokubonakalisa iimvakalelo. Amandla anamandla ngakumbi xa isithintelo saphuka ngokukhawuleza. Kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukubukela amadoda amabini "anzima" ngokukhawuleza ayangana! Ngexesha elizayo xa udibana nomntu omthandayo ngokusuka emazantsi entliziyo yakho, mnike nje ihug ethambileyo, ethambileyo. Hayi "nje nje", kufuneka isuke entliziyweni kwaye kufuneka kubekho imvakalelo. Ndiyazi ukuba kungathatha umzamo omkhulu kwimpucuko yethu, ekufuneka eneneni isinike okuninzi ekufuneka sicinge ngako. Kodwa emva koko uya kuziva ukhulu kwaye amandla akho aya kukhanya!

3. Nika umntu isipho esibalulekileyo

Xa kungekho miqathango, izipho zibonakaliswa ukulunga. Umntu ucinga ngawe, umntu wenza umzamo kuwe, umntu utyala ixesha kuwe. Kwiinkcubeko ezininzi, izipho ziluphawu olubalulekileyo. Phakathi kwamaNdiya, izipho zihlala zinikezelwa njengophawu lobuhlobo kwaye ukuze wonke umntu afumane into kuyo. Andithethi kwanto ehleli nje kungekho mntu unokuyisebenzisa. Kufuneka ucinge nyani, uphoswa yintoni ngoku umntu? Yintoni inkanuko yakhe, intliziyo ilele phi? Akufuneki kubekho "izizathu" zokuba unike into. Hayi ukuba "ndikunika oku kuba ufuna ..." kodwa ".. kuba ndifuna uzive ulungile kwaye ufumana into kuyo."

4. Xelela umntu into ayenzayo kakuhle, apho iitalente zakhe zilele kwaye umkhuthaze kumaphupha akhe

Mhlawumbi uye wazibonela ukuba kunjani xa umntu ekunika amandla ngendlela yokhuthazo oluhle. Ezo zipho zomlomo-amandla zinokukunika amandla, inkuthazo kunye nesibindi esitsha sokuphila. Ngamanye amaxesha konke kuthatha i-nudge encinci ukuseta uthotho lweziganeko. Xa ukhuthaza umntu emaphupheni akhe, bafumana inkuthazo entsha yokusebenzisa iitalente zabo, ngokufanelekileyo ukuze kuxhamle wonke umntu. Ngokwenza oku, udala i-karma eninzi entle kuwe nakwabanye. Ngaba ukho umntu omaziyo onokusebenzisa ukhuthazo ngoku? Unokufikelela kuye uze uthi, “Heyi, bendifuna ukukuxelela ukuba wenza kakuhle kakhulu. Unetalente enkulu kwaye kumnandi ukukubona uyisebenzisa. Qhubeka! ndisemva kwakho.

5. Yenza into enhle kuwe kunye nomzimba wakho - yonke into ibuyela kuwe

Uthando alukho nje ngabanye abantu okanye nantoni na yangaphandle. Ukuzithanda kuyinkalo ebalulekileyo yothando. Yitya ukutya okunempilo, phefumla umoya omtsha, sebenzisa indalo kwaye usebenzise izihlunu kunye nee-tendon. Umzimba wakho wenzelwe oku. Kangangoko kunokwenzeka, phila ngendlela odalelwe ukuba uphile ngayo. Thatha ixesha, ixesha lokuba wedwa, ixesha lokuphefumla. Unokunikela kuphela oko unako. Unako kuphela ukuthanda abanye ikhulu leepesenti ukuba nawe uzithanda wena. Qinisekisa ukuba unokulinganisela kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Lahla izinto ezikugulisayo, zitshabalalise i-aura yakho kwaye zigqume ingqondo yakho.

6. Tyala imali yakho kwiiprojekthi zoxolo kunye nophuhliso endaweni yokusetyenziswa okungenangqondo

Imali ingamandla angathathi hlangothi. Kusezandleni zethu ukuba sichitha kwinto engenamsebenzi okanye siyisebenzisela ukusindisa umhlaba. Ndinemibutho embalwa yoncedo apha endinxibelelana nayo ixesha elide kwaye ndingacebisa kuphela kuba imali iya apho ifanele ukuya khona.
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Ukulwa nendlala yehlabathi: https://www.aktiongegendenhunger.de/
Ulondolozo lwendalo kunye nokuhlaziywa kwamahlathi ashinyeneyo: https://www.regenwald.org/

7. Cela uxolo kubantu oye waxabana nabo

Ukuba awukakwenzi. Ndiyazi ukuba oku kusenokuthabatha umgudu omkhulu. Ukuvuma ubutyala, ukwamkela impazamo kunye nokufuna ukwenza ngcono. Kodwa luphawu olukhulu lobulumko, uthando kunye nokuzimisela ukufunda. Intlonipho kuye nabani na owoyisa i-ego yabo kwaye ufuna ukufunda kwiimpazamo zabo. Sihlala siphethe iingxabano zakudala kunye nathi iminyaka, amandla angasonjululwanga abangela iingxaki kunye nemiqobo. Phakama kwaye uzikhulule ukhulule la mandla madala! Ukuxolela nokuyeka iimpazamo kubaluleke ngokufanayo.

8. Ukunyamezelana novelwano ngokuphila – hlonipha iimbono zabanye

Wonke umntu ukwimeko yakhe yokuqonda. Wonke umntu ubona ihlabathi ngokwembono eyahlukileyo. Ukuba sifuna ukudala uthando oluninzi kwihlabathi, kufuneka siphile - oku kubandakanya ukwamkela nokuhlonipha izimvo zabanye. Akusoloko kufuneka siqinisekise wonke umntu - xa ixesha lilungile, ulwazi luza ngokuzenzekelayo. Kufuneka sihloniphe ukhetho lwabanye lokufunda isifundo ngendlela enzima ngakumbi. Sikhululekile xa singasanyanzelekanga ukuba siqinisekise abanye! Abo babaziyo ubukhulu babo mabayeke abanye babe nobabo. Ndiyathemba ngokwenene ukuba ndikwazile ukukukhuthaza ukuba ufake ngakumbi uthando kunye nokuqonda ebomini bakho - kuwe, kwabanye, kwindalo kunye nokuguqula. Enkosi kakhulu nakuYannick, ondenze ndakwazi ukupapasha esi sithuba! Sikunye singenza umahluko!
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