Umba womthetho we-resonance uye wafumana ukuthandwa iminyaka eliqela kwaye emva koko wamkelwa ngabantu abaninzi njengomthetho osebenzayo jikelele. Lo mthetho uthetha ukuba uthanda uhlala utsala ngathi. Thina bantu ke ngoko sitsala i Iimeko kubomi bethu ezihambelana namaxesha ethu. Ubuninzi bemeko yethu yokuqonda ke ngoko buluncedo kwinto esiyitsalelayo kubomi bethu.
Kufuneka siphile into esiyinqwenelayo ngaphandle
Kufuneka kuthiwe eyethu ingqondo isebenza njengemagnethi eyomeleleyo etsala amazwe/iimeko. Nangona kunjalo, lo mthetho uhlala ungaqondwa kwaye abantu bazama ngamandla ukutsala izinto kubomi babo ezikude nemeko yabo. Ke sihlala sisebenza kwimeko yokungabikho zingqondweni, asikho okwangoku, asihlambi ngokuzeleyo kobuntu bethu, kwaye ngenxa yoko sihlala sidala imeko yengqondo engatsali ubuninzi kodwa kunokuba siswele ngakumbi, iimvakalelo ezingalunganga. nezinye iimeko ezihlala zihleli . Indalo ayohluli ibe yiminqweno eyakhayo okanye engalunganga kwaye isinika oko sikukhanyisayo nesikuqukayo ubukhulu becala. Amandla ahlala elandela ingqalelo yethu kwaye into esigxile kuyo kakhulu, okanye endaweni yoko, eyona nto ikhoyo engqondweni yethu, iyabonakala ngakumbi. Umzekelo, ukuba sifuna ukufumana ubomi obuzele luthando, kodwa kwangaxeshanye asikhanyisi naluphi na uthando, ewe, siqinisekisa intlungu, intlungu kunye nokubandezeleka ezingqondweni zethu kwaye sikhanyise ezi mvakalelo, ngoko siya kuqhubeka. ukufumana iimvakalelo ezingalunganga ezihambelanayo (iimvakalelo ziyaqina) . Asitsali ebomini bethu into esiyifunayo, kodwa into esiyiyo kunye nento esiyikhanyisayo, into esiyicingayo kunye nento ehambelana nokuqhelaniswa nemeko yethu yangoku yokuqonda.
Umnqweno ngandlel’ ithile ufana nemeko yokunqongophala, kuba ufuna ukufumana into engekhoyo ngelo xesha. Ukubonakaliswa komnqweno ngoko ngokuqhelekileyo akunakwenzeka ukuba sihlala ngokusisigxina kwingcamango yomnqweno, ngakumbi ukuba oku kwenzeka ngenxa yeemvakalelo ezingathandekiyo. Endaweni yoko, umntu kufuneka abumbe ubomi bakhe ngenkuthalo, kufuneka asebenze ngaphakathi kwezakhiwo ezikhoyo kwaye anganqweneli imeko ehambelana nayo, kodwa endaweni yoko aziphuhlise/azenzele ngokusebenza ngoku..!!
Kufuneka siphile into esiyifunayo ngaphandle, kufuneka siyive, siyifumane kumthombo wethu wangaphakathi kwaye emva koko siyivumele ibonakale. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi obuzimeleyo ngokwezimali okanye udale ukhuseleko lwezemali olusisiseko, oku akuyi kuba yinyani apho sihlala khona emaphupheni yonke imihla kwaye kwangaxeshanye asitshintshi nto kwiimeko zethu. Kubalulekile ke ukuba uphume kwingcinga esisigxina malunga nekamva kwaye usebenze ngokukhutheleyo ekufezekiseni ubomi obutsha ngoku, apho ukhuseleko olusisiseko oluhambelanayo luya kufumaneka. Isitshixo ke ngoko kukusetyenziswa kwamandla ethu okuqonda ngaphakathi kwangoku (isenzo esisebenzayo / umsebenzi) okanye kunoko ukuqondisa amandla ethu ekudaleni imeko entsha yobomi (ukuyisebenzisela oku), endaweni yokucinga ngokusisigxina kunye nomnqweno ohambelana nawo. kwakhona kwimeko yokunqongophala ( Kakade ke, kufuneka kuthiwe ngeli nqanaba ukuba amaphupha anokukhuthaza kakhulu kwaye anike ithemba kwiimeko ezithile ezinobungozi, kodwa amaphupha anokuzaliseka kuphela xa sisebenza ekubonakalisweni kwawo ngesenzo sangoku, esinokuthi siphumelele. emva koko wenze ngentshukumo esebenzayo uzive utshintsho kwaye uqalise ukubandakanya indlela eya kumgomo, eyona njongo ekugqibeleni). Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
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