Sonke sinengqondo efanayo, izakhono ezizodwa ezifanayo kunye nezinto ezinokwenzeka. Kodwa abantu abaninzi abaqapheli oku kwaye baziva bephantsi okanye bengaphantsi kumntu onomlinganiselo ophezulu we "intelligence quotient", umntu oye wafumana ulwazi oluninzi ebomini bakhe. Kodwa kunokwenzeka njani ukuba umntu okrelekrele ngakumbi kunawe? Sonke sinengqondo, inyani yethu, iingcinga kunye nokuqonda kwethu. Sonke sinazo ezifanayo izakhono kwaye ihlabathi lisicebisa yonke imihla ukuba kukho abantu abakhethekileyo (oosopolitiki, iinkwenkwezi, izazinzulu, njl.njl.) kunye nabantu "abaqhelekileyo".
I-intelligence quotient ayithethi nto ngezakhono zokwenene zomntu
Ukuba sine-IQ yomzekelo. Ukuba besine-120, bekuya kufuneka saneliswe kukuba umntu one-IQ ephezulu uphakame kakhulu kunaye kwaye uya kuhlala ephakamile ngokwezakhono zengqondo. Kodwa le nkqubo yenzelwe kuphela ukugcina izakhono zabantu abaninzi phantsi. Kuba luthini uvavanyo lwe-IQ malunga nobukrelekrele bam, malunga nezakhono zam zokwenyani, malunga nokuqonda kwam kunye nokuqonda kwam okwenyani ngobomi? I-intelligence quotient ihlala ibonakala kum njengesixhobo samandla se-fascist. Kwaye esi sixhobo samandla senzelwe ukuhlelwa kwabantu abangcono kwaye babi okanye abakrelekrele ngakumbi kunye neziyatha. Kodwa ungasivumeli esi sixhobo sokungathembeki sikwehlise ubuncinci. Kaloku inyaniso ikukuba sonke sinobuchule obufanayo obufanayo.
Sisebenzisa kuphela ingqondo yethu kwezinye iimeko zobomi kunye nezinto esinomdla kuzo. Wonke umntu uye waba namava akhethekileyo ebomini bakhe kwaye uyazi izinto ezahlukeneyo ebomini bakhe. Umzekelo, ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba ndingumdali wenyani yam, kodwa ngaba olu lwazi ngoku lundenza ndibe krelekrele ngakumbi kunabanye abantu? Ewe akunjalo, kuba olu lwazi lukhulisa kuphela ukuqonda kwam kwaye ukuba ndixelele umntu malunga neziphumo zam, loo mntu unokuyazi njengoko ndenzayo. Kuxhomekeke nje kwinqanaba lakho lomdla kunye nokuba uthatha oko kuthethiweyo okanye kunoko ulwazi entliziyweni ngaphandle kokubandlulula okanye ukuba uyayigatya ngenxa yengqondo yakho ye-egoistic kunye nokungazi okubangelwayo.
Wonke umntu unamandla okwandisa ukuqonda kwakhe
Wonke umntu unaso esi sipho sikhulisa ingqondo. Umzekelo, xa sifunda esi sicatshulwa, ngokuzenzekelayo sibona lonke ulwazi. Ukuba unomdla kula mazwi, kukho into enkulu eyenzekayo. Asiyiqondi nje into ethethwayo, hayi, siqala ukuqaphela esi sihloko kwakhona.
Sivumela ulwazi okanye iingcinga / amandla ukuba abe yinyani yethu. Ekuqaleni, oku kuzibonakalisa, ngokomzekelo, ukuba nehlombe kakhulu kunye nokwamkela olu lwazi ngovuyo. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko ulwazi lugcinwa kwi-subconscious yethu kwaye ngale meko ke senza into entsha. Kuba emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa okanye iiveki, olu lwazi luya kuba luqhelekileyo kuwe kwaye emva koko unokubuyela kolu lwazi nangaliphi na ixesha. Ukuba umntu ebenokuphololoza nawe malunga neenyani, i-subconscious yakho ingakubonisa ngokuzenzekelayo ulwazi olutsha olufunyenweyo.
Musa ukuzivumela ukuba uncitshiswe kancinci kuba nonke ninezakhono ezifanayo
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ungaze uvumele nabani na ukuba akuxelele ukuba ungaphantsi okanye usisidenge kunabanye. Sonke siyafana kwaye sonke sinengqondo enamandla kwaye sinobuchule obufanayo. Wonke umntu usebenzisa izakhono zakhe kwezinye iindawo zobomi. Ngamnye kuni ukhethekile kwaye unokuphila nje ngokuqonda okanye ngokungazi njengawo wonke umntu. Ke ngoko, ndikucela ukuba ungazenzi mncinci kunokuba unjalo. Nonke ningabantu abomeleleyo nabanamandla, abanesipho esimangalisayo sokwandisa ukuqonda.
Njengabo bonke abanye abantu, unokuziva iimvakalelo kwaye uvelise naliphi na inani leengcamango. Yiyo loo nto unokuyazi ngokuzolileyo le nto, vumela amazwi am angene kwinyani yakho kwaye uqaphele ubomi bakho obunamandla kwakhona. Kuze kube ngoko, hlala usempilweni, wonwabile kwaye uphile ubomi bakho ngokuvisisana.
