Umhlaba wonke wangaphandle uyimveliso yengqondo yakho. Yonke into oyibonayo, into oyibonayo, into ozivayo, into oyibonayo ke yintelekelelo engabonakaliyo yemeko yakho yokuqonda. Ungumdali wobomi bakho, ubunyani bakho kwaye udale obakho ubomi usebenzisa eyakho intelekelelo yengqondo. Ihlabathi langaphandle lisebenza njengesipili esigcina imeko yethu yengqondo neyokomoya phambi kwamehlo ethu. Lo mgaqo wesipili ekugqibeleni usebenzela ukukhula kwethu ngokwasemoyeni kwaye ujolise ekusigcineni sinolwazi lokunqongophala kwethu kokomoya / unxibelelwano lobuthixo, ngakumbi ngamaxesha anzima. Ukuba sinolungelelwaniso olubi lwemeko yethu yokuqonda kwaye sijonge ubomi ngokwembono engalunganga, umzekelo xa sinomsindo, sinentiyo okanye singanelisekanga ngokunzulu, ke oku kungavisisani kwangaphakathi kubonisa nje ukungazithandi kwethu.

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Ngenxa yesi sizathu, izigwebo zidla ngokuba kukuzigweba. Kuba umhlaba wonke uyimveliso yengqondo yakho kwaye yonke into ivela kwiingcinga zakho, ubunyani bakho, ubomi bakho, nokuba ekupheleni kosuku, bumalunga nokukhula kwakho ngokwasemoyeni nangokomoya (akubhekiselwanga kwi-narcissistic okanye egoistic sense). ), Izigwebo zibonisa ngendlela elula ukugatywa kukabani iinkalo zobuntu bakhe. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uthi into enje: "Ndiyalithiya ihlabathi" okanye "Ndibathiyile bonke abanye abantu", oku kuthetha ukuba ngezo zihlandlo uzithiyile kwaye ungazithandi. Enye ayisebenzi nje ngaphandle komnye. Umntu ozithanda ngokupheleleyo, wonwabile, wanelisekile yisiqu sakhe kwaye ulungelelene ngokwasengqondweni ebengayi kuba nenzondo ngabanye abantu okanye nehlabathi.Ngokuchasene noko, umntu ebeya kufumana ubomi kunye nehlabathi. isimo sengqondo esilungileyo kwaye uhlala ebona okulungileyo ngokubanzi. Ubungayi kuba nenzondo kwabanye abantu, kodwa kunokuba ube nokuqonda kunye novelwano kubomi babanye abantu. Njengangaphakathi, nangaphandle, njengakwincinci, enkulu, njengakwi-microcosm, ngokunjalo kwi-macrocosm. Imeko yakho yengqondo ihlala idluliselwa kwihlabathi langaphandle. Ukuba awunelisekanga kwaye ungazamkeli, ngoko uya kuhlala udlulisela le mvakalelo kwihlabathi langaphandle kwaye uya kujonga ihlabathi kule mvakalelo. Ngenxa yoko, uya kufumana kuphela "ihlabathi elibi" okanye kunokuba iimeko zokuphila ezimbi. Uhlala utsala into oyiyo kwaye ukhanyise ebomini bakho. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, awuboni ihlabathi njengoko linjalo, kodwa njengoko unjalo.

Isimo sangaphakathi somntu sihlala sidluliselwa kwihlabathi langaphandle kwaye ngokuphambene noko, umthetho ongenakunqandwa, umgaqo wendalo yonke osebenza njengesibuko kuthi .. !!

Ukuba uyazithiya, uyabazonda abo bakungqongileyo, ukuba uzithanda wena, uyabathanda abo bakungqongileyo, umgaqo olula. Intiyo ubani ayidlulisela kwabanye abantu ivela kwimo yakhe yangaphakathi kwaye ekugqibeleni sisikhalo sothando okanye isikhalo sokucela uncedo ngokuzithanda kwakhe. Ngendlela efanayo, iimeko zokuhlala ezimaxongo okanye indawo yakho engacocekanga kunye nokungalingani kwangaphakathi kuyabonakala. Eyakho isiphithiphithi esizenzileyo esingaphakathi sidluliselwe kwihlabathi langaphandle.

Zonke iimvakalelo zakho zangaphakathi zihlala zigqithisela kwihlabathi langaphandle. Uhlala utsala ebomini bakho into oyiyo kunye nento oyikhuphayo. Ingqondo ephilileyo itsala iimeko ezintle, ingqondo engalunganga itsalela iimeko ezimbi..!!

Ulungelelwaniso lwangaphakathi, inkqubo yomzimba/yengqondo/yomoya ehambelanayo, iya kukhokelela ekugcineni ubomi bomntu bulungelelene. Isiphithiphithi sasingayi kuvela, ngokuchaseneyo, iimeko zokuhlala eziziphithizelayo ziya kupheliswa ngokuthe ngqo kwaye umntu uya kuqinisekisa ngokuthe ngqo ukuba imeko-bume ekufuphi kabani ilungile. Emva koko ibhalansi yakho yangaphakathi iya kudluliselwa kwihlabathi langaphandle ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kuyacetyiswa ukuba unike ingqalelo kwiimeko zakho zobomi bemihla ngemihla, kuba yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe, yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into oyifumanayo ekugqibeleni isebenza njengesipili kwaye igcina imeko yakho yangaphakathi engqondweni. . Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, umxholo kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.