Njengoko kukhankanyiwe izihlandlo ezininzi kwamanye amanqaku am, ukuzithanda kungumthombo wamandla obomi osetyenziswa ngabantu abambalwa namhlanje. Kulo mongo, ngenxa yenkqubo yenkohliso kunye nokusebenza ngokugqithisileyo kweyethu ingqondo ye-EGO, ngokudityaniswa nemeko ye-diharmonious ehambelanayo, sihlala sikwenza njalo. Amava eemeko zobomi, nto leyo ebonakalisa ukungazithandi.

Ukubonakalisa ukungazithandi

Ngokusisiseko, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, inani elikhulu kakhulu labantu abanakuzithanda, nto leyo edla ngokukhatshwa kukungazithembi, ukungamkeleki kwengqondo/umzimba/inkqubo yomoya, ukungazicingeli. -ukuzithemba kwaye kunjalo nezinye iingxaki. Ewe, njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, ngenxa yeendlela ezisezantsi zokujikeleza, le nkqubo iyilwe ngendlela yokuba sizigcine sincinci kwaye sonwabele ukuphila kwimeko yengqondo ehambelanayo. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yam / iimeko zobomi bam, ndikwafumana imvakalelo yokungazithandi. Amaxesha amaninzi, ezi mvakalelo zide zenzeke (ndikwazi ukuzithetha kuphela okanye oku kuhambelana namava am obuqu) xa ndisenza ngokuchasene neminqweno yentliziyo yam, iinjongo kunye nolwazi lwangaphakathi, o.k.t. Ndivumela ukukhokelwa. kwaye ndikhokelwa zezam iingcinga zokulutha, umzekelo ukutya okungekho ngokwemvelo kangangeentsuku, ngamanye amaxesha nokuba ziiveki ezimbalwa, nangona ndiyazi ukuba oku kutya kuyingozi kangakanani kweyam ingqondo/umzimba/inkqubo yomoya (nayo yonke into edityaniswe kuyo) , ukuze ikwazi nokuxhasa imizi-mveliso, ongafuniyo ukuyixhasa. Ewe, mna ngokwam ndinokujongana nenyaniso yokuba ndenza nje ngaphandle kweengcinga ezikhobokisayo (ngokuqhelekileyo sidla ukutya okungekho kwendalo ubukhulu becala ngenxa yeengcinga eziluthayo, kungenjalo ngekhe sitye iilekese, umzekelo-ewe, zikho nezinye izizathu, kodwa umlutha. ukongamela), kunzima ukujongana nayo kwaye ngenxa yoko ndiziva ndiziva ndingazithandi, ngenxa yokuba ndingenako ukuyamkela indlela endiziphethe ngayo (lungquzulwano lwam lwangaphakathi olo).

Ndithe ndakuqala ukuzithanda ngokwenene, ndazikhulula kuyo yonke into eyayingekho mpilweni kum, ekutyeni, ebantwini, kwizinto, kwiimeko nakuyo yonke into eyayimana inditsalela phantsi, kude nesiqu sam. , kodwa ngoku ndiyazi ukuba oku “kukuzithanda”. -uCharlie Chaplin ..!!

Kwelinye icala, kukho izizathu ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuba thina bantu siziphathe ngendlela yokungazithandi, nto leyo ekwayanyaniswa nokungabi namvakalelo yonxibelelwano olungokobuthixo. Ngendlela efanayo, iimeko zokuphila ezingavisisaniyo zidla ngokubonisa ukunqongophala okuthile kokuzithanda. Kulo mba, ihlabathi elibonakalayo elingaphandle lisisipili sendawo yethu yangaphakathi / imeko.

Ukuzithanda kunye nokuziphilisa

Ukusebenzelana kwethu okanye ukusebenzisana kwethu nehlabathi langaphandle ke ngoko kuhlala kubonisa imeko yethu yangaphakathi, imeko yethu yangoku yokuqonda. Umntu onentiyo kakhulu, okanye endaweni yokubathiya abanye abantu, ubonakalisa ukungazithandi kwakhe ngenxa yoko. Oku kusenokusebenza nakubantu abaxhalabileyo okanye abanomona. Umntu ohambelanayo ubambelela kuthando lwangaphandle (kule meko uthando olucingelwayo lweqabane) ngamandla akhe onke, ekubeni yena ngokwakhe engekho kumandla othando lwakhe, kungenjalo uya kunika iqabane lakhe inkululeko epheleleyo kunye nokugqibelela. zithembe. Kwaye oku akuthethi ukuthembela kwiqabane elifanelekileyo, kodwa uthembele kuwe, kwintetho yakhe yokudala. Awuyoyiki ilahleko, unoxolo nawe kwaye uyabamkela ubomi njengoko bunjalo. Endaweni yokuhlala kulwakhiwo lwengqondo (ukulahlekelwa kwikamva lengqondo, kodwa uphoswa bubomi ngalo mzuzu wangoku), uhlala uziva unethemba kwaye ngenxa yoko uziva uziva uzithanda. Ekugqibeleni, le mvakalelo yokuzithanda nayo inempembelelo yokuphilisa kumzimba wethu wonke. Umoya ulawula phezu kwezinto kunye neengcinga zethu okanye iimvakalelo zethu (iingcamango ezivuselelwe ngeemvakalelo - amandla okucinga ahlala engathathi hlangothi ngokwawo) ahlala ebangela iinkqubo eziphathekayo ngenxa yoko. Okukhona singenangxaki, kokukhona sinoxinzelelo kuyo yonke imisebenzi yomzimba. Iimvakalelo zeHarmonic nazo zondla umzimba wethu ngamandla athomalalisayo. Ukuma kumandla okuzithanda kwethu, ke ngoko, kudala imeko enefuthe lokuphilisa kuyo yonke ingqondo / umzimba / inkqubo yomoya. Kakade ke, akulula ngabantu abaninzi ukuba bamkele ngokupheleleyo kwaye bazithande kwakhona, bazithembe ngokupheleleyo.

Xa uzithanda, uyabathanda abo bakungqongileyo. Xa uzithiyile, ubathiyile abo bakungqongileyo. Ubudlelwane bakho nabanye yimbonakalo yakho kuphela – Osho..!!

Nangona kunjalo, le yinto ebonakeleyo ngakumbi ngenxa yenguquko yangoku ukuya kwinqanaba lesi-5 (imo ehlala ihleli kwaye ihambelanayo yokuqonda), oko kukuthi, thina bantu sisendleleni yokungakwazi ukufumana imeko enjalo. , kodwa ngokusisigxina ukuba ube namava. Ewe, okokugqibela kodwa okungakuncinananga, kufanele kutshiwo ukuba ukuzithanda okumsulwa ngokupheleleyo (kungadityaniswa ne-narcissism, ikratshi okanye i-egoism) ayinayo nje impembelelo eyinzuzo kumzimba wethu, kodwa ikwaseta ikhosi yokuhambelana ngakumbi phakathi kwabantu. Ubudlelwane kunanini na ngaphambili Okukhona singenalungquzulwano kwaye kokukhona sima kumandla okuzithanda kwethu, kokukhona siphumla ngakumbi kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, kuya kuhambelana ngakumbi kwiindlela esisebenzisana ngazo nehlabathi langaphandle. Imo yethu yangaphakathi, ukuphiliswa kunye nokuzithanda kuthi emva koko idluliselwe kwihlabathi langaphandle kwaye iqinisekise ukudibana okuvuyisayo. Uhlala ukwixesha elifanelekileyo, kwindawo elungileyo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo. 🙂

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