Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantu abaninzi bayathandabuza ukuzaliseka kwamaphupha abo, bathandabuze amandla abo engqondo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, bathintele ukuphuhliswa kwemeko yokuqonda. Ngenxa yeenkolelo ezichaseneyo ezizenzele zona, ezithi nazo zimiliselwe kwi-subconscious, o.k.e. iinkolelo/iinkolelo zengqondo ezinje: “Andinakuyenza le nto,” “ayizukusebenza kakade,” “ayinakwenzeka loo nto,” "Andifanelanga ukwenza loo nto." ", "Andizukuphumelela", siyazithintela, emva koko sizithintele ekufezekiseni amaphupha ethu, siqinisekise ukuba ukuba sizivumele ukuba silawulwe ngamathandabuzo ethu size ke singasebenzisi amandla ethu okudala apheleleyo.

Ungaze uzithandabuze

Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba siziqaphele kwakhona kwaye singazivumeli ukuba sithintelwe zizakhiwo zethu zengqondo ezimbi. Ubomi benzelwe ukudala izinto ezintle, ukonwaba, ukutyhala imida yethu kwakhona kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ukudala into eyinyani ehambelana ngokupheleleyo neengcamango zethu. Thina bantu singabadali bobomi bethu kwaye sizenzakalise kuphela xa sima ngokusisigxina kwindlela yendalo yokuphumelela, xa sihlala sihlala sibanjwe kwiipatheni zobomi eziqinileyo, ezithi zihamba kunye noloyiko kunye nokungazithembi. Ewe, amava angalunganga, iingcinga kunye nezenzo zinendawo yazo. Ewe, amalungu ethunzi kunye “neemeko zobomi bobumnyama” nazo zinokubaluleka kwazo.” Okokuqala, zisibonisa oko kungahambi kakuhle ngoku ebomini bethu, okwesibini, zisikhonza njengabafundisi abathi ekugqibeleni bafune ukusifundisa isifundo esibalulekileyo, kwaye okwesithathu, basibonisa eyethu ilahlekileyo yobuthixo + uQhagamshelwano lokomoya engqondweni kwaye, okwesine, badla ngokuba ngabaqalisi abanamandla esinokuthi ngabo siqalise inguqu ebalulekileyo kubomi bethu. Umbhali-mbali waseBritani nomdlali wechess uHenry Thomas Buckle wathi: “Abo bangabuvayo ubumnyama abasayi kuze bakhangele ukukhanya.” Ngokukodwa kumaxesha amnyama obomi bethu, sinqwenela ngakumbi ukukhanya, uthando kwaye size nezicwangciso ezikrelekrele zokukwazi ukudala imeko yokuqonda apho ukukhanya nothando lukhona kwakhona. Sinokuthi ke sifumane inzuzo enkulu kweyethu ingxaki, sinokuthi emva koko sibe nobuchule bokuyila kwaye sinokuthi siqalise iinguqu ezibalulekileyo, ngokunokwenzeka senze izigqibo ezisisiseko ebesingenakuzilungiselela ukuzenza.

Imida ihlala iphakama engqondweni yakho, igcinwa kwi-subconscious yakho ngendlela yeenkolelo ezingalunganga kunye neenkolelo kwaye ngenxa yoko bahlala bethwele umthwalo wakho wemihla ngemihla .. !!

Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ungaze uvumele nabani na ukuba akuxelele ukuba awukwazi ukwenza into okanye awukwazi ukwenza okuthile. Ungaze uvumele imida ebekwe ngabanye abantu ithintele izenzo zakho kwaye uqalise ukwenza le nto ubusoloko ufuna ukuyenza. Akukho mida kulo mxholo, kuphela imida esiyibeka kuthi. Konke kuxhomekeke kulwalathiso lwengqondo yethu, kwiinkolelo neenkolelo zethu. Amandla okuqonda onke amaphupha akho angaphakathi ngaphakathi komntu wonke kwaye kuxhomekeke kuwe kuphela ukuba uyasisebenzisa na okanye usishiye singasetyenziswanga.

Ungumdali onamandla wobomi bakho, unokwenza ngokuzimeleyo kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, uzikhethele ukuba zeziphi iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo ozivumayo engqondweni yakho kwaye ezingekhoyo ..!!

Ungumyili wenyani yakho, ungumyili wekamva lakho kwaye yintoni enokwenzeka kwixa elizayo, ikhondo eliqhubekayo lobomi bakho, kuxhomekeke kwinto oyenzayo, ukuziva kunye nokucinga namhlanje. Ke ngoko, zihlengahlengise kwaye uqale ukuzibona ngokupheleleyo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.