Yonke into ebomini bomntu ifanele ukuba kanye njengoko isenzeka ngoku. Akukho nto inokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke enye into. Ubungenakufumana nantoni na, ayikho enye into, kuba kungenjalo ubuya kuba namava ahluke ngokupheleleyo, ngoko ubuya kuqaphela isigaba sobomi esahluke ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ngokufuthi asoneliseki bubomi bethu bangoku, sizikhathaza kakhulu ngezinto ezidluleyo, sinokuzisola ngezenzo ezidluleyo yaye ngokufuthi sizive sinetyala. Asonelisekanga ziimeko zangoku, sibambeke kwesi sidubedube sengqondo kwaye sikufumanisa kunzima ukuphuma kulo mjikelo ukhohlakeleyo uzibekela wona.

Ngoku yonke into ilungile - yonke into kufuneka ibe njengoko injalo !!!

Yonke into inocwangco ngoku. Zonke iimeko ojongene nazo ngoku, bonke ubomi bomntu kufuneka bube kanye njengoko bunjalo ngoku, yonke into ichanekile, kwanezona nkcukacha zincinci. Kodwa thina bantu sityekele ekubanjweni kwiipateni zengqondo kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi asikwazi ukwamkela iimeko zethu. Kulo mongo, abantu abaninzi bahlala bexhalabile kakhulu malunga nexesha elidlulileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha uhlala ujikeleze iiyure kwaye uzobe uninzi lokungakhathali kwiimeko ezidlulileyo. Ucinga ngezihlandlo ezininzi ozisolayo ngazo, iimeko obunqwenela ukuba zihambe ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ke kuyenzeka ukuba abantu abathile bachithe ixesha elithile lobomi babo ngokwengqondo kwixesha elidlulileyo. Umntu akasaphili okwangoku, kodwa uzigcina evalelwe kwiimeko ezimbi, ezidlulileyo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha uyivumela ukuba ikutye ngaphakathi kwaye okukhona ucinga ngeemeko ezihambelanayo ezidlulileyo, kokukhona zisiba qatha, uphulukana ngakumbi nangakumbi nokunxibelelana nesiqu sakho sokwenyani (iingcinga okwi-resonance yazo zonyuka ngamandla. - umthetho we-resonance). Kodwa into umntu ahlala eyityeshela yinto yokuba, okokuqala, yonke into ebomini bomntu ifanele ukuba kanye njengoko isenzeka ngoku. Ayikho enye into ebinokwenzeka kwaye awunakufumana enye into ngokwakho, kuba kungenjalo ngewufumene into eyahlukileyo. Akukho meko yasemzimbeni apho bekunokuthi kwenzeke enye into, kungenjalo ubuya kukhetha into eyahlukileyo kwaye uqaphele uloliwe ohlukileyo wokucinga. Ngaloo ndlela, akukho mpazamo yenziweyo. Kwanokuba usenokuba wenze izinto ngokuzingca okanye wenze into eyenzakalisa abanye abantu nawe, bekukho iimeko ebekufanele ukuba zenzeke ngolo hlobo. Iziganeko eziye zanceda kuphela ukuba zikwazi ukuqhubela phambili ebomini, amava apho umntu wayenokufunda kuphela kwaye ezi meko zangaphambili okanye yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bomntu ikwenza ube yiloo nto uyiyo namhlanje.

Ixesha elidlulileyo likhona kuphela engqondweni yakho...!

Okwesibini, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ixesha elidlulileyo kunye nexesha elizayo lulwakhiwo lwengqondo kuphela. Nangona kunjalo, kwinqanaba langoku, omabini amaxesha akakho, ahlala ekhona kwaye aya kuhlala ekho. Ixesha langoku liyinto eninzi umntu ebesoloko ekuyo. Abantu bayakuthanda ukuthetha ngento ebizwa ngoku okanye umzuzwana, umzuzu wokwandisa ngonaphakade oye wahlala ukhona, ukhoyo kwaye uya kuba. Wonke umntu ukho kulo mzuzu ukususela ekuqaleni kobukho bakhe. Yonke into eyenzekayo kwixesha elidlulileyo yayihlala isenzeka ngalo mzuzu kwaye zonke izenzo oza kuzenza kwixesha elizayo ziya kwenzeka ngoku. Nantso ke into ekhethekileyo ngobomi, yonke into ihlala isenzeka ngoku. Kulo mongo, ikamva kunye nexesha elidlulileyo lihlala likhona kuphela kwiingcamango zethu kwaye zigcinwe yingcamango yethu yengqondo. Ingxaki ngale nto kukuba ukuba uzigcina uvaleleke kwiipateni ezizinzileyo, ezidlulileyo, uphoswa ngumzuzu wangoku kwaye awukwazi ukuhlala kuwo. Nje ukuba uchithe iiyure uraqa iingqondo zakho kwiziganeko ezidlulileyo, awusaphili ngokuqonda ngoku kwaye uphulukane noqhagamshelo kubuntu obuphezulu. Emva koko uphulukane neyakho i-zest yesenzo kwaye awukwazi ukuphila ngamandla akho okudala okudala. iminqweno yakho. Wena ke awusakwazi ukulawula ukuba positive okanye wonwabe, ukuthatha ithuba langoku, kuba uvumela ukuba ukhubazeke le negativity ngengqondo.

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Uloyiko lwengqondo lwekamva...!

Kakade ke, okufanayo kuyasebenza nakwixesha elizayo. Ebomini udla ngokuba neengcinga ezimbi ngekamva. Unokoyika oku, ukwesaba okuza kulandela, okanye ukhathazeke ukuba kukho into embi enokwenzeka kwixesha elizayo, isiganeko esinokuthintela ubomi bakho. Kodwa nalapha, yonke le nto yenzeka kuphela kwiingcinga zomntu omnye. Ikamva alikho kwinqanaba langoku, kodwa ligcinwa kuphela yintelekelelo yethu yengqondo ngalo. Ekugqibeleni, njengesiqhelo, uhlala ngoku kuphela kwaye uzivumele ukuba uthintelwe ngokwasengqondweni ngekamva elibi olicingayo. Ingxaki ngayo yonke into kukuba okukhona ucinga ngayo, kokukhona ucinga ngayo, kokukhona usoyika, isiganeko esoyikayo sinokutsala ebomini bakho. Indalo ngokwayo izalisekisa yonke iminqweno onayo ebomini. Noko ke, indalo ayahlukanga ibe yiminqweno emihle nemibi. Umzekelo, ukuba unomona kwaye unoluvo lokuba intombi/isithandwa sakho singakuqhatha, oko kuya kwenzeka. Kule meko, uxanduva lwakho ngokwakho kuba ubanjwe ngumona wakho wengqondo. Ngenxa yomthetho we-resonance, uhlala utsala ebomini bakho into odibana nayo ngengqondo. Okukhona ucinga ngako, kokukhona le mvakalelo iqina ngakumbi kwaye indalo iphela iya kuqinisekisa ukuba lo mnqweno ungathandekiyo uyenzeka. Ngaphandle koko, lo mona udluliselwa kubomi bakho kunye neqabane lakho. Uhlala uthwala iimvakalelo zakho zangaphakathi kunye neengcinga ngaphandle elizweni, emva koko uzibonakalise ngaphandle kwaye abanye abantu bayayiva le nto, bayibona ebusweni bakho, kuba ubonisa oku kungalunganga ngaphandle. Ukongezelela, kungekudala ezi ngcamango ziya kudluliselwa kwihlabathi langaphandle ngamazwi okanye izenzo ezingenangqondo.

Usenokutsalela ingqalelo yeqabane lakho koku, awuphumli kwaye udlulise okukukhathazayo kuye. Okukhona luqina kwaye luqina ngakumbi olu lamlo luba njalo, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba iqabane liya kuqhutywa ukuba lenze isenzo esihambelanayo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kuhlale kucetyiswa ukuba ubeke ingqalelo kwisakhiwo sakho sengqondo, kuba ngoncedo lweengcinga zethu sidala ubomi bethu. Ukuba uyakwazi ukwenza ngokwangoku kwaye wakhe ingcamango egqibeleleyo, eyakhayo, akukho nto imisayo kwindlela yolonwabo lwakho. Kule hlala usempilweni, wonwabile kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.