Ukuzithanda okuqinileyo kwenza isiseko sobomi apho singafumani nje ubuninzi, uxolo kunye nolonwabo, kodwa siphinde sitsale iimeko ebomini bethu ezingasekelwanga ekusweleni, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo okuhambelana nokuzithanda kwethu. Nangona kunjalo, kwihlabathi lanamhlanje eliqhutywa yinkqubo, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abaziva bezithanda kakhulu.Ukunqongophala konxibelelwano nendalo, phantse naluphi na ulwazi lwemvelaphi yomntu - engayazi into eyodwa kunye nokukhethekileyo komntu), ngaphandle kwento yokuba sihamba kwiinkqubo zokufunda ezisisiseko ngaphakathi kwiincarnations ezingenakubalwa, apho sithi sibe nakho ukufikelela kumandla okwenene wokuzithanda kwethu kwakhona emva kwexesha elithile (inkqubo yokuba siphelele).

Ukuphelisa iintsilelo - zintywilisele ngobuninzi

Ukuba abantu abaninzi ngakumbi bayayilawula indlela yabo yokuzalwa ngenxa yotshintsho olukhulu oludibeneyo (njengoko kunokuba nzima kwabanye abantu ukucinga) kunye nokusondela kwindalo yakho yokwenyani esekelwe ekuzithandeni, kodwa ayiyi kuba yinto ephambili kweli nqaku. Ndingathanda ukugxila ngakumbi kubuntu bethu bokwenyani, ngokusekwe kubuninzi, kwaye ndikwalathe ukubaluleka okwethutyana kolwakhiwo lwethu lwe-EGO. Kulo mongo, ngenxa yobuntu obuhlukeneyo be-EGO, thina bantu sityekele ekudaleni into eyinyani (apho sintywila khona ngenxa yezizathu zokuzikhusela), nto leyo evela kwimeko yokuqonda apho ukungabikho kokuzithanda kukho. . Ngenxa yoko, emva koko sitsala iimeko ebomini bethu ezingasekelwanga kubuninzi, kodwa ngokuswela. Ekugqibeleni, oku kubhekiselele kwezona meko zininzi zohlukeneyo zobomi esizifumanayo kwaye zihlala zibhidaniswa ngempazamo nobuninzi bokwenyani. Umzekelo, singakwazi ukutsala amaqabane asuka kwisimo sokunqongophala, kodwa ke ngamahlakani obudlelwane athi afumane ulwakhiwo oluhambelanayo lwentlupheko kwaye kulo mba sisebenzela impumelelo yethu ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo ngendlela ekhethekileyo. Kuyavunywa ukuba, iingxabano ezingasonjululwanga kunye nezinye izakhiwo zihlala zivela ngaphakathi kubudlelwane, kodwa oku kunomgangatho owahluke ngokupheleleyo xa sitsala iqabane ngelixa sisondele kakhulu kwindalo yethu yokwenyani (nokuba kukho iimeko apho sobabini sihamba kunye ukuzala, ukulandela / inkosi, - kodwa njengoko sonke siyazi, ngaphandle uqinisekisa umthetho).

Ndithe ndakuqala ukuzithanda ngokwenene, ndazikhulula kuyo yonke into eyayingekho mpilweni kum, ekutyeni, ebantwini, kwizinto, kwiimeko nakuyo yonke into eyayimana inditsalela phantsi, kude nesiqu sam. , kodwa ngoku ndiyazi ukuba oku “kukuzithanda”. -uCharlie Chaplin ..!!

Umntu ngokuzenzekelayo uhlala etsala ebomini bakhe into abayiyo kunye nento abayikhuphayo, yintoni ehambelana nobuninzi babo. Umthetho osisiseko ongenakuguqulwa, ewe, osichaphazela ngokusisigxina ngenxa yokukwazi kwethu ukuvakala (Yonke into ingamandla, amaza, ukungcangcazela → umoya).

Ukusondela kwindalo yethu yokwenyani

Njengoko sihamba indlela eya ekuzithandeni kwethu okanye kwindlela eya kubuntu bethu bokwenyani, sikwanxibelelana nabantu abahlukeneyo kunye neemeko, ukuwela ukuzalwa. Kodwa ekubeni sihamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zobuntu be-EGO endleleni eya ekubeni siphelele, sikwatsala iimeko zobomi ezihambelanayo, oko kukuthi, iimeko ezihambelana nolwakhiwo lwethu lwexeshana lwe-EGO, olungenakubekwa tyala nangayiphi na indlela, ngokuchaseneyo, njengoko kungasentla kuphela. siyakwazi ukuqaphela izakhiwo ezihambelanayo ngendlela ethe ngqo. Iimpawu ezihambelanayo ze-EGO zikwabaluleke kakhulu kulo mongo, kuba zisinika isazisi. Kungenjalo, ekubeni singayazi indalo yethu yokwenyani (ubuninzi, uthando, ubuThixo, indalo, inyaniso, ubulumko, uxolo, njl. njl.), besiya kuziva silahlekile ngaphakathi (besingayi kuba nesazisi sokwenene). Umntu ke ngoko ufumana ubuntu obuhambelanayo, umzekelo umntu ochonga ngamandla kunye nezinto eziphathekayo, ngoko ke ufuna olu lwazi ukuze abe nesakhiwo sexeshana apho angakwazi khona ukutsala amandla (ukuba olu phawu lwanelisekile ngokufunyanwa kwezinto eziphathekayo, oko kuya kuba yimpumelelo. kukhatshwa yimvakalelo eyakhayo okwexeshana). Nangona kunjalo, ubuntu obunjalo be-EGO bukhokelela kwiingxaki ezininzi ekuhambeni kwexesha ngenxa yokuba zisekwe kunqongophalo kunobuninzi obufana nobume bethu bokwenyani.

Uthando novelwano ziziseko zoxolo lwehlabathi - kuwo onke amanqanaba. – Dalai Lama..!!

Kwintsebenziswano, umzekelo, awukwazi ukunika iqabane lakho nayiphi na inkululeko, okanye ubuya kwenza, ngenxa yokungazithembi kwakho (ukuzithemba = ukuzazi ngokwakho - ubuqu bokwenyani, ngokusekelwe kubuninzi / indalo, ubuThixo, njl) kunye nokuqhelaniswa kwezinto (enye ngaphambi kokuhambelana nomzekelo okhankanywe) kuzisa zonke iintlobo zezithintelo kunye neengxaki. Ukunqongophala kolwazi lwamaqabane omabini kuya kukhatshwa ziimvakalelo ezingazalisekanga kwixesha elide. Nokuba bobabini babona ezi patheni kunye, bakhule kunye, bahlukane okanye bahlale ngaphakathi kolu hlobo de kube sisiphelo sokuzalwa kwabo kuxhomekeke kuwe, nokuba iimeko zimi kakuhle ngoku ukuze uphume kubuntu bakho be-EGO okanye uziqonde ezi zinto. iipateni ezizinzileyo.

Imimangaliso iyenzeka

Kuba ngoku sihamba ngesantya esiphezulu Ubudala begolide Njengoko sisiya koku kwaye, ngenxa yoko, abantu abaninzi basondela ngokubonakalayo kwindalo yabo yokwenyani, iimeko ezahluke ngokupheleleyo ziya kubonakala. Nje ukuba usondele kwindalo yakho yokwenyani, ewe, sele ubonile kwaye wacoca uninzi lwezakhiwo zokusilela kwaye usiya ekubeni uphelele, imimangaliso iyenzeka ngokwenene, kuba ke sitsala iimeko zobomi, amaqabane kunye neepateni ebomini bethu. kwakhona, ihambelana nendalo yethu yokwenyani (izihlandlo ezininzi zendalo yokwenyani). Kungoko bubuninzi bendalo esithi ngabo ngokuzenzekelayo, ngokusuka ezintliziyweni zethu, sitsale oko kwakusoloko kujongwe kwindalo yethu yokwenyani. Ukudibana okuhambelanayo ke kukhatshwa bubunzulu obahluke ngokupheleleyo kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ubunzulu ngenxa yokukhula ngokwasengqondweni. Uninzi lwemigulukudu yaphukile kwaye ukungabi namiqathango kunye nenkululeko iza kuqala. Ubudlelwane ke bubonwa ngokwahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ukuchukumisa kunye ne-caress kuvela kwintliziyo evulekileyo / ukuzala kwaye, ngendlela yomlingo, inokukwenza ungcangcazele ngaphakathi. Uqhagamshelo lwengqondo luqaqamba ngakumbi nangakumbi ngamandla, ngenxa yokuba uye waqaphela (utsalela) olu nxibelelwano, oluphuma kolwakho ukuzaliseka. Le ntabalala yendalo ikwahamba kunye nokulolwa kwazo zonke iimvakalelo zethu. Xa ujongana nawe kunye nehlabathi, uye ucinge ngakumbi kwaye ube nombono obukhali ngakumbi, ukuva, ukujoja kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ukuziva.

Indlela eya kubuninzi bendalo yenzeka phezu kokuzalwa kwaye inokuba ngamatye kwaye inzima. Kwangokunjalo, akukho ndlela iphangaleleyo ekufuneka wonke umntu ayithabathe ukuya kwintabalala. Ngenxa yobuntu bethu nangenxa yokuba simele indlela, inyaniso kunye nobomi ngokwabo, kubalulekile apha ukuba sizifumane, sizifundise, sithembe indlela yomntu kunye nemvelaphi yakhe. Singabadali benyani yethu kwaye sisebenza kwizihloko ezizimeleyo ngokupheleleyo. Iindlela zethu ke ngoko zahluke ngokupheleleyo kwaye wonke umntu udinga iimpembelelo zakhe ezizodwa, nokuba, ekupheleni kosuku, zikhokelela kwigunya elifanayo, oko kukuthi kwindalo yobuthixo yokwenyani ..!!

Amandla akho anamandla e-intuitive akuvumela ukuba uqonde ukuba yonke into inentsingiselo yayo kwaye uhlala ukwixesha elifanelekileyo kwaye ukwindawo elungileyo. Kunye noku, sikwasebenza ngakumbi nangakumbi ngokusuka ezintliziyweni zethu kwaye sibe namava obuntu esiye safunda ukumthanda kuzo zonke iinkalo zabo. Ewe, ngenxa yendalo yethu yokwenyani, ngenxa yobuninzi obuza nayo, sikwafumana ukuzithanda okuqinileyo ngaxeshanye. Kwaye ngenxa yamaxesha anamandla akhoyo ngoku, sonke sinokuya ngokuya sisiya kwimeko ehambelanayo. Ngokukodwa xa sivumela iintliziyo zethu ukuba zivuleke kwaye zinikezele ekuvukeni ngokomoya / ngokomoya. Kuya kwandula ke kwenzeke imimangaliso. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo. 🙂

Ndiyavuya ngayo nayiphi na inkxaso 🙂