Umthetho weResonance, owaziwa ngokuba nguMthetho wokutsalwa, ngumthetho wendalo yonke ochaphazela ubomi bethu mihla le. Yonke imeko, sonke isiganeko, zonke izenzo kunye nayo yonke ingcamango ixhomekeke kulo mlingo unamandla. Ngoku, abantu abangakumbi nangakumbi baya beyiqonda le nkalo iqhelekileyo yobomi yaye bafumana ulawulo olungakumbi kubomi babo. Yintoni kanye kanye ebangelwa ngumthetho we-resonance kwaye kangakanani ubomi bethu uya kufumanisa oko kwinqaku elilandelayo.

Njengokutsala umdla

Ukubeka nje, umthetho we-resonance uthi ukuthanda kuhlala kukhanga ngathi. Ukutshintshela olu lwakhiwo kwindalo esebenza ngamandla kuthetha ukuba amandla ahlala etsala amandla okuphindaphindeka okufanayo kunye nokuqina. Ilizwe elidlamkileyo lisoloko litsala imo edlamkileyo yendalo efanayo echuliweyo yesakhiwo. Amazwe anamandla anenqanaba lokungcangcazela elahluke ngokupheleleyo, kwelinye icala, akakwazi ukusebenzisana kakuhle, angqinelane. Wonke umntu, yonke into ephilayo, okanye yonke into ekhoyo, ekugqibeleni iqulathe ubunzulu bamazwe anamandla. Emazantsi eqokobhe lezinto zonke kukho ulwakhiwo olungabonakaliyo, ilaphu elinamandla elingenaxesha elimele isiseko sethu sobomi.

Ngenxa yesi sizathu asikwazi ukuchukumisa iingcamango zethu ngezandla zethu, kuba amandla okucinga anezinga elincinane lokungcangcazela kangangokuba indawo kunye nexesha alisachaphazeli. Yingakho unokucinga yonke into oyifunayo ngaphandle kwesithintelo, kuba iingcamango azikho phantsi kokunciphisa umzimba. Ndinokusebenzisa intelekelelo yam ukudala ihlabathi elintsonkothileyo ngaphandle kokuthintelwa lixesha.

Kodwa yintoni kanye le inento yokwenza nomthetho weresonance? Kakhulu, kuba amandla ahlala etsala amandla alinganayo kwaye sibandakanya amandla kuphela okanye ekupheleni kosuku onke amazwe anamandla angcangcazelayo, sihlala sitsala kubomi bethu into esiyicingayo nesivakalelwa ngayo. Iingcinga zethu kunye neemvakalelo zethu phantse zihlala zenza ulwakhiwo lwethu olufihlakeleyo olusisiseko kwaye oku kuhlala kutshintsha, kuba sihlala sisenza oololiwe abatsha bengcinga kwaye sihlala sisebenza kwezinye iipatheni zokucinga.

Uba yiloo nto ucinga ngayo kwaye uziva ngayo

Into oyicingayo kunye novakalelwa ngayo ihlala izibonakalisa kwinyani yakho (akukho nyani jikelele, kuba wonke umntu udala ubunyani bakhe). Umzekelo, ukuba ndaneliseke ngokusisigxina kwaye ndicinga ukuba yonke into eya kwenzeka iya kundenza ndonwabe ngakumbi, oko kuya kwenzeka kanye kum ebomini bam. Ukuba ndisoloko ndikhangela ingxaki yaye ndiqinisekile ukuba bonke abantu abanabubele kum, ngoko ndiya kudibana nabantu abangenabubele (okanye abantu ababonakala bengenabuhlobo kum) ebomini bam. Emva koko andisayi kujonga ubuhlobo ebantwini, kodwa ndikhangele kwaye ndibone kuphela ukungabi nabuhlobo (iimvakalelo zangaphakathi zihlala zibonakaliswa kwihlabathi langaphandle kwaye ngokuphambene noko). Umntu uhlala ebonakalisa njengenyaniso kwinyani yakhe into akholelwa ngokuqinileyo kuyo kwaye uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ngayo. Ngesi sizathu, i-placebos inokuba nefuthe elihambelanayo. Ngokukholelwa ngokuqinileyo kwisiphumo, umntu udala umphumo ohambelana nawo.

Ilizwe lakho leengcinga lihlala lizibonakalisa kweyakho inyani kwaye kuba ungumdali wenyani yakho, ungazikhethela ukuba yeyiphi na indlela yokucinga oyiqinisekisayo engqondweni yakho, ungazikhethela into oyizobelayo ebomini bakho. kwaye yintoni na. Kodwa sihlala sinciphisa ukuqonda kwethu kwaye ubukhulu becala sizoba amava angalunganga okanye iimeko kubomi bethu. La mathuba axineneyo aphunyezwa yingqondo yomntu yokuzingca. Le ngqondo inoxanduva lokuvelisa naluphi na uxinaniso olunamandla. (Ukuxinana koMmandla = Ukungakhathali, Ukukhanya okuBumandla = Ukulunga). Yiyo loo nto ungafanele uzibeke ityala, ingqondo ye-egoistic igxininiswe ngokunzulu kwingqondo yethu kangangokuba ihlala ithatha ixesha de ungayinyibilikisa ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa ukuba uyaqaphela lo mthetho kwakhona kwaye wenze ngokuqonda kulo mgaqo unamandla wobomi, ngoko ebomini bakho unokutsala umgangatho wobomi, uthando kunye nezinye iimpawu ezintle. Ubani kufuneka aqonde ukuba iipatheni zokucinga ezingalunganga ezifana nentiyo, umona, umona, umsindo, njl. Kwanokuba awukwazi ukusoloko uziphepha, kusemnandi ukuzazi uze uziqonde. Le yindlela engcono kakhulu yokujongana namava angalunganga.

Iinkolelo kunye neminye imithwalo enzima

Ngokufanelekileyo, ikwasebenza neenkolelo, ngethamsanqa kunye namashwa. Kule ngqiqo eneneni akukho nto ifana nethamsanqa okanye ithamsanqa elibi, thina ngokwethu sinoxanduva lokuba sitsale amathamsanqa / ukulunga okanye amathamsanqa / ukungakhathali ebomini bethu. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ubona ikati emnyama kwaye ecinga ukuba ilishwa linokumehlela ngenxa yalo, oko kunokwenzeka, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba ikati elimnyama lishwa, kodwa ngenxa yokuba wena ngokwakho unazo ezi ngcinga kuwe ngokuqiniseka okuqinileyo kunye nokukholelwa. ukukholelwa ngokuqinileyo kuyo kutsalela ubomi, ekubeni umntu emva koko engqondweni yakhe uvakalelwa kukungonwabi. Kwaye lo mgaqo unokusetyenziswa kuyo nayiphi na inkolelo yokwakha.

Ingaba ipleyiti emnyama odla kuyo, isibuko esaphukileyo okanye ikati emnyama, ishwa okanye i-negativity (kule meko, ukwesaba ububi) siya kufumana kuphela ukuba sikholelwa kuyo, siqinisekile ngayo, ukuba siyayivumela. ngokwethu. Umthetho we-resonance ngumthetho onamandla kakhulu kwaye nokuba siya / siyawazi lo mthetho okanye asiyitshintshi into yokuba lo mthetho usichaphazela nanini na, nakweyiphi na indawo, uhlala unje kwaye awusoze wahluke. ngenxa yokuba imithetho yendalo iphela ibisoloko ikho yaye iya kuqhubeka ikho. Unaloo nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, umxholo, kwaye uqhubeke uphila ubomi bakho ngokuhambelana.