Ukuzithanda, isihloko abantu abaninzi ngakumbi abajongene naso ngoku. Umntu akufunekanga athelekise ukuzithanda ngokuzigwagwisa, ukuzigwagwisa okanye nokuba nenkani, okuchasene noko kunjalo. Ukuzithanda kubalulekile ukuze ubani aphumelele, ekuqondeni imeko yokuqonda apho kuvela khona inyaniso eqinisekileyo. Abantu abangazithandiyo, abanokuzithemba okuncinci, bathwalisa umthwalo wabo wenyama yonke imihla, benze ingqondo engalunganga kwaye, ngenxa yoko, batsale kuphela izinto kubomi babo ezithi ekugqibeleni zibe zibi ngokwendalo.

Imiphumo eyingozi yokungazithandi

Isithandi sobulumko esidumileyo saseIndiya uOsho sathi: Xa uzithanda, uyabathanda abo bakungqongileyo. Ukuba uyazithiya, ubathiyile abo bakungqongileyo. Ubudlelwane bakho nabanye yimbonakalo nje yakho. U-Osho wayenyanisile ngokupheleleyo kweso sicatshulwa. Abantu abangazithandiyo, okanye endaweni yokuzithanda kancinci, badla ngokubonisa ukunganeliseki kwabo kwabanye abantu. Ukukhungatheka kuvela, umntu ekugqibeleni akubone kuwo onke amazwe angaphandle. Kulo mongo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umhlaba wangaphandle ubonisa nje isimo sakho sangaphakathi. Umzekelo, xa uzele inzondo, udlulisela eso simo sengqondo sangaphakathi, loo ntiyo yangaphakathi, kwilizwe lakho langaphandle. Uqala ukujonga ubomi ngembono engalunganga kwaye ukhulise intiyo yezinto ezingenakubalwa, nokuba nenzondo yobomi uqobo. ngokwakho, ube nokuzithanda okuncinci kwaye mhlawumbi ube nesazisi esisezantsi kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo. Umntu akanelisekanga yisiqu sakhe, ubona kuphela ububi kwizinto ezininzi kwaye ngaloo ndlela uzigcina ebanjwe kukungcangcazela okuphantsi. Oku kubeka uxinezeleko kwingqondo yomntu kwaye ukukhula kwakhe ngokwasemoyeni kuye kume ngxi. Ewe, uhlala ukhula ngokwasengqondweni nangokomoya, kodwa le nkqubo yophuhliso olongezelelweyo inokuma. Abantu abangazithandiyo bavele bathintele ukukhula kwabo ngokweemvakalelo, baziva bebi yonke imihla kwaye ngenxa yoko babonakalisa oku kunganeliseki kwangaphakathi.

Into oyiyo, into oyicingayo, into oziva ngayo, into ehambelana neenkolelo zakho kunye neenkolelo zakho, uyakhazimla kwaye utsale umdla ..!!

Amehlo aba buthuntu, ukuqaqamba kukabani kuyanyamalala kwaye abanye abantu babone ukunqongophala kokuzithanda. Ekugqibeleni, uhlala ukhupha into oyicingayo, into oziva ngayo kunye nento oyiyo. Le yindlela kanye oku kungabikho kokuzithanda kudla ngokukhokelela ekubek’ ityala. Usenokugxeka abanye abantu ngokungoneliseki kwakho, usilele ukujonga ngaphakathi, kwaye ujonge iingxaki zakho kuphela kwabanye abantu.

Khulula amandla akho kwaye uphelise ukubandezeleka kwakho ozenzele kona. Ingqondo yakho idale ezi ntlukwano kwaye yingqondo yakho kuphela enokuphelisa ezi zintlukwano..!!

Kuvela izigwebo kwaye umphefumlo womntu uya ujongelwa phantsi. Ekupheleni kosuku, uhlala unoxanduva lobomi bakho. Akakho omnye umntu onoxanduva ngemeko yakhe, akakho omnye umntu onoxanduva lokubandezeleka kwakhe. Kule nkalo, ubomi bubonke buyimveliso yengqondo kabani, intelekelelo yengqondo yakhe. Yonke into owakhe wayiqonda, zonke izenzo, zonke iimeko zobomi, zonke iimvakalelo, zivele ngokukodwa kwimeko yakho yokuqonda. Ngenxa yesi sizathu kubalulekile ukuqaphela oku kwakhona. Qonda ukuba nguwe kuphela onoxanduva kwimeko yakho yobomi kwaye nguwe kuphela, ngoncedo lwengqondo yakho, unokutshintsha le meko kwakhona. Kuxhomekeke kuphela kuwe kunye namandla eengcamango zakho. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, umxholo kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.