Iingcinga zenza isiseko somntu wonke kwaye, njengoko bendisoloko ndikhankanya kwizicatshulwa zam, zinamandla amangalisayo, okudala. Isenzo ngasinye esenziweyo, igama ngalinye elithethiweyo, isivakalisi ngasinye esibhaliweyo kunye nayo yonke into eyenzekayo yaqanjwa phambi kokuba iphunyezwe kumgangatho wezinto eziphathekayo. Yonke into eyenzekayo, eyenzekayo kwaye iya kwenzeka kuqala ibikho kwimo yengcinga ngaphambi kokuba ibonakale ngokwasemzimbeni. Ngamandla eengcamango, sibumba kwaye sitshintshe ubunyani bethu, kuba thina ngokwabo ngabadali bendalo yethu, ubomi bethu.

Ukuziphilisa ngeengcinga, ngaba oko kunokwenzeka?

Umoya ulawula phezu kwento kwaye hayi ngenye indlela. Iingcinga zethu zingumlinganiselo wazo zonke izinto kwaye zinempembelelo kubukho bethu bomzimba ngamaxesha onke. Ngesi sizathu, iingcinga zethu zikwabalulekile kwimpilo yethu. Ukuba isiseko sethu sonke esinamandla sihlala sithwele ngeengcinga ezimbi, ngoko ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva oku kuya kuba nefuthe elingapheliyo kumzimba wethu wenyama. Iingcinga zibandakanya amazwe anamandla kwaye ezi zinamandla okutshintsha ngamandla. Amazwe anamandla anokujiya kwaye anciphise. Ukususwa koxinaniso lwenzeka xa sondla eyethu inyaniso ngokungcangcazela okuphezulu/ukukhanya/iinkqubo zokucinga ezilungileyo. Ngokwenza oko, sonyusa eyethu inqanaba lokungcangcazela, singcangcazela ngesantya esiphezulu kwaye ngaloo ndlela siphucula umgaqo-siseko wethu womzimba nengqondo. Ukujiya okunamandla kwenzeka xa siphinda sinxibelelana ne-negativity/amandla axineneyo. Ukuba umntu uqinisekisa ukungakhathali engqondweni yakhe ixesha elide ngendlela yokucaphuka, umona, umona, ukungoneliseki, umsindo, njl. Umntu usenokuphinda athethe ngokuphazamiseka ngamandla okanye engqondweni. Indawo yakho yengqondo iyancipha ngakumbi kwaye igcwele kakhulu, nto leyo ekhokelela ekwehleni amajoni akho omzimba. Umzimba onamandla emva koko ugqithisela olu susu kumzimba wenyama, nto leyo enokubangela ukugula. Into oyicingayo okanye okholelwa kuyo kunye nento oqiniseke ngayo ngokupheleleyo ihlala ibumba eyakho inyaniso.

Isimo sengqondo somntu sihlala sizibonakalisa njengenyaniso kwisiseko somntu okhoyo. Umzekelo, ukuba ndiqinisekile ukuba ndiyagula okanye ndingagula kwaye ndikholelwe kuyo nge-100%, oku kwandisa amathuba okugula kakhulu. Bekunokuba njalo njani? Ubomi bonke bomntu, yonke into eyinyani yomntu iquka kuphela ingqondo, iingcamango, ezibandakanya amazwe anamandla. Ukuba sihlala sigxile kwingcinga zokugula ngoko ke isiseko sethu esinamandla siya kulufunxa olu lwazi, eyethu indalo iya kuthi emva koko iqinisekise ukuba siyasifumana esi sigulo. Okukhona sigxile kuloliwe ohambelanayo wengcinga, kokukhona le ndlela yokucinga izibonakalisa ngamandla kweyethu inyani. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa yomthetho we-resonance, kuba lo mthetho wendalo yonke uqinisekisa ukuba amandla ahlala ekhanga amandla afanayo.

Into esigxila kuyo koko sikutsalayo ebomini bethu. Kwaye okukhona ugxininisa kwinto ethile, kokukhona iphawula ubukho bakho. Umzekelo, ukuba ndicinga ngeziganeko ezibuhlungu ezidlulileyo kwaye ndiziva ndibuhlungu ngenxa yazo, ngoko ndinethuba lokuyiphelisa kwaye ndikhulule kule ntlungu yengqondo. Okukhona ndicinga ngale meko, kokukhona ndivumela le ntlungu, kokukhona le mvakalelo iya kuphawuleka ebomini bam. Imvakalelo iba namandla ngakumbi kwaye inefuthe elikhulayo kumzimba wakho. Yindlela nje enika umdla ebomini. Into odibana nayo ngokwasengqondweni iya kutsaleleka ngakumbi nangakumbi ebomini bakho. Abo banxibelelana nothando baya kutsala uthando oluninzi ebomini babo. Ukuba uvakalisa umbulelo, uya kuba nombulelo ngakumbi; ukuba uvakalelwa lusizi okanye ukugula, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kutsala ezi mvakalelo ebomini bakho.

Isimo sangaphakathi sibonakala kwihlabathi langaphandle!

Ukongezelela, iingcamango zakho zibonakaliswa kwinyani yangaphandle (umgaqo wembalelwano). Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu udabukile, unomsindo okanye wonwabile, ngoko loo mntu ujonga ihlabathi lakhe langaphandle kwimvakalelo ehambelanayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu uzixelele ukuba akakho mhle, ngaloo ndlela akanjalo. Umzekelo, umntu kufuneka akhazimle njani "ubuhle" ukuba uhlala ezixelela ukuba ayindim? Ngeli xesha umntu uveza ukungoneliseki kwakhe ngenkangeleko yakhe. Udlulisela ezakho iingcinga ezimbi kubukho bakho bezinto eziphathekayo. Abanye abantu ke bakubona ngendlela efanayo, kuba iingcinga zakho zihlala zibonakaliswa kwihlabathi langaphandle lenyani yakho, kwaye emva koko usasaza le mvakalelo kwabanye abantu. Ngokuqinisekileyo akakho umntu ehlabathini ombi okanye ongafanelekanga. Wonke umntu ungumntu owahlukileyo kwaye omangalisayo kwinzaliseko yawo kwaye unobuhle obungenasiphelo obunzulu ngaphakathi obunokubonakaliswa nangaliphi na ixesha.

Wonke umntu ophilayo ngumntu ozimeleyo kwaye omhle kwaye, njengayo yonke into ekhoyo, iqulathe ukudibana okuhlala kukho amandla. Sonke sibanye Umfanekiso kaThixo, imbonakalo engabonakaliyo/yezinto eziphathekayo yokuqonda kunye nokugqabhuka okunokwenzeka okungapheliyo kunye nobuchule. Kwaye ngezi zakhono sinokuziphilisa ngokwethu, siyakwazi ukuphilisa ubukho bethu bonke ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo ngokwethu. Kweli nqanaba kufuneka kuthethwe enye into malunga nenkangeleko yomntu. Abanye abantu basoloko bengacingi ukuba bahle kwaye mhlawumbi boyika ukuba abanye abantu basenokuziva ngendlela efanayo. Into endiyithethayo kukuba akufanele uvumele uloyiko lukukhokele ngalo mzuzu, kuba amadoda nabafazi banomdla omnye komnye kwaye akukho nto iya kuze itshintshe loo nto. Yonke into ilwela ukulungelelana, njengokuba amadoda nabafazi bezama ukulungelelanisa ngokutsala omnye komnye kwaye ngaloo ndlela bamanyane. Amadoda anomtsalane kubufazi kwaye ngokuphambene. Ngoko ke, awufanele uzixelele ukuba umntu wesini esahlukileyo usenokungakuboni unomtsalane; ekugqibeleni, kwiimeko ezininzi, abesini esahlukileyo baziva betsaleleka komnye. Kuphela bubukho obupheleleyo, i-charisma yabasetyhini okanye yamadoda, okufaka isandla kumtsalane okanye umtsalane. Ngelishwa, Andikwazi ukucinga nawuphi na omnye umzekelo ngalo mzuzu, kodwa ungabeka 100 abafazi ze okanye amadoda, lilonke uninzi lwabo wayeza kukutsala, lilonke uya kufumana uninzi lwaloo mntu enomtsalane. Oku akuhambelani kuphela nombandela wezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke into engabonakaliyo. Njengendoda, uziva utsalelekile kwi-charisma yabasetyhini kwaye ngokuphambeneyo, kwaye loo nto ayisoze yatshintsha. Ewe kukho izinto ezikhethekileyo apha, kodwa njengoko sisazi sonke, izinto ezingaphandle zingqina umthetho.

Vuselela owakho ukuziphilisa

Amandla okuziphilisa omzimba awazange aphele, ahlala ekhona kwaye kufuneka aphinde asebenze kwakhona. Oku sinokukuphumeza ngokuguqula isimo sethu sengqondo kwaye sigxininise iingcamango zethu ekuphiliseni. Kufuneka uzikhulule kwiinkqubo zokucinga ezibangela ukugula kwaye uzame ukuphila ngokuvisisana nawe ngokusemandleni akho. Awunakuphinda uzixelele ukuba uyagula okanye uya kugula, kodwa kufuneka uqiniseke ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba usempilweni kwaye izigulo azinakukwenzakalisa, kwaye izigulo zilungile kwaye zibalulekile ukuze uphume kwezi ndlela zisezantsi. ubukho bokufunda. Ukuba uhlala unxibelelana ngokwasengqondweni ngempilo, uvuyo, uthando, uxolo kunye nokuphilisa, ke uqinisekisiwe ukuba ubonakalise le miba ngokwenyani yakho.

Ekubeni umntu ngamnye engumdali wenyaniso yakhe yangoku, umntu ngamnye unoxanduva lwempilo yakhe. Wonke umntu unokuziphilisa kwaye asebenzise amandla akhe okuziphilisa kwaye anciphise inqanaba labo lokungcangcazela ngokucinga kunye nezenzo ezilungileyo. Kuxhomekeke kuthi kuphela. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.