Ukukhanya kunye nothando ziimbonakaliso ezi-2 zendalo ezinesantya esiphezulu sokungcangcazela. Ukukhanya kunye nothando zibalulekile ukuze umntu achume. Ngaphezu kwako konke, imvakalelo yothando ibalulekile ukuze ubani aphile. Umntu ongenalo naluphi na uthando kwaye ukhulele kwindawo ebanda ngokupheleleyo okanye enentiyo uva ubunzima obukhulu engqondweni nasemzimbeni ngenxa yoko. Kulo mongo bekukho ulingo olukhohlakeleyo lweKaspar Hauser apho iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zahlulwa koomama bazo kwaye emva koko zahlukaniswa ngokupheleleyo. Injongo yayikukufumanisa enoba lwalukho na ulwimi lwantlandlolo olwaluza kufundwa ngabantu ngokwemvelo. Ekugqibeleni, kwafunyaniswa ukuba umntu okanye umntwana osanda kuzalwa akanakuphila ngaphandle kothando, kuba zonke iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zafa emva kwexesha elifutshane.

UkuKhanya kunye nothando-Impazamo enkulu…!

Kwizangqa ezininzi zomoya uluvo luhlala lubonakaliswa ukuba ukukhanya kunye nothando NguThixo ukumela okanye ukuba ukukhanya kunye nothando ziimeko ezi-2 eziphezulu zokudala, kodwa akunjalo ngokupheleleyo. Ngokusisiseko, le mbono isoloko ibutyeshela ubukho bokuqonda komntu. Owona mzekelo uphezulu wobukho kukwazi.Zonke iimeko eziphathekayo nezingaphathekiyo ekugqibeleni yimbonakalo/imveliso yokuqonda kwaye zinokubakho kuphela ngenxa yengqondo. Kuyafana nokukhanya kunye nothando. Ukukhanya kunye noThando ngokusisiseko zezona zizwe zi-2 ziphakamileyo zokungcangcazela ezinokuthi zibe namava kwaye zidalwe kukuqonda. Umntu usenokuthetha nangeembonakalo ezimbini zokuqala zendalo. Ukukhanya luhlobo lokuthetha oluphenjelelwe yindoda kwaye ndiyayithanda njengeyona ndlela yokuqala yokubonakalisa impembelelo yabasetyhini. Kulo mxholo, zombini iindlela zokuthetha zinezona ntshukumo ziphezulu zokungcangcazela zikhona. Nangona kunjalo, zombini ziindlela zokuthetha ezinokubakho kuphela kwaye zidalwe kukuqonda. Ngaphandle kokuqonda bekungeke kwenzeke ukufumana uthando, umzekelo. Ukuqonda kubonisa isiseko sobomi bethu, umoya wokudala wokuqonda, ozibonakalisa kuwo onke amazwe akhoyo kwaye uhlala unamava ngendlela yobukho bonke ngokwawo. Ukukhanya kunye nothando zezona ndawo ziphakamileyo zingcangcazelayo apho umthombo okrelekrele unokuba namava ngokuqhubekayo. Bonke ubomi ekugqibeleni yimbonakaliso yento enye ukuqonda okungaphezulu, nto leyo eyenza umntu ngamnye abe ngumntu kwaye emele imvelaphi yobukho bethu. Wonke umntu ophilayo unenxalenye yolu lwazi kwaye usebenzisa esi sixhobo ukuhlola ubomi babo kunye nokulawula phezu kwemizimba yabo ngoncedo lwala mandla angenasiphelo.

Ukukhanya kunye nothando zezona ndawo zi-2 ziphakamileyo zokungcangcazela ezinokuqondwa .. !!

Nokuba uyindoda okanye ungumfazi, kumbindi wabo bobabini banento enye kunye nesakhiwo esingaphelelwa lixesha, solwazi. Ukuba uqwalasela ulwakhiwo luphela kwaye uqonde ukuba umntu ngamnye ngokusisiseko yimbonakaliso yengqondo yomntu ngamnye, ngoko uyaqaphela ukuba uThixo okanye ukwazi kungenxa yobukho bandawo zonke kubo bonke ubukho. Ndaweni ithile kwindalo iphela kuya kubakho uhlobo lobomi okanye intetho ekhoyo ngoku ebonisa olu qhuqhuva luphezulu lokungcangcazela. “Inxalenye eyohluliweyo” yengqondo eye yaguquka yada yafikelela kwinqanaba lokuba ilubonakalise ngokupheleleyo uthando.

Uthando lunokufunyanwa ngokusekelwe kwiingcinga zethu !!!

Ngenxa yokuba yonke into ekhoyo iyimbonakaliso yolwazi oluphangaleleyo, yonke into ekhoyo idityaniswe ngokungabonakaliyo enye kwenye. Ukuqonda kunye neenkqubo zokucinga ezibangelwayo zibonakalisa yonke indalo, imele imvelaphi yayo kwaye inoxanduva lokuba yonke indalo iyindalo ehambelanayo kunye nokudibanisa (yonke into enye kwaye enye yinto yonke). Kulo mongo, iingcinga, njengokwazi kwethu, azinaxesha kwaye zinepropathi enomdla yokukwazi ukuphiliswa ngeemvakalelo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani ebomini bakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi intshukumo oye wayenza ekugqibeleni, oku kuya kwenzeka kuphela kuwe ngenxa yengcinga yakho yengqondo, oya kuthi uyiqonde kumgangatho wezinto ezibonakalayo ngokwenza isenzo. Ngenxa ye iimeko ezimbini, apho abantu bazibambe khona (okubangelwa yi-ego yethu), amava okanye iziganeko zohlulwe zibe zilungileyo okanye ezimbi. Yile ndlela kanye okwazi ngayo ukuzalisa ingcamango ngothando. Wonke umntu ungumdali wenyani yakhe kwaye unokuluqinisekisa uthando kwingqondo yakhe nangaliphi na ixesha. Ngenxa yesantya esiphezulu sokungcangcazela, uthando longeza isiseko sakho esinamandla kwaye lwenza lube khaphukhaphu. Nangona kunjalo, le meko yenzeka kuphela ngenxa yeengcamango zethu. Ukuba ubungenangcinga, ubungenakukwazi ukuphila, awungekhe ukwazi ukuvelisa uthando okanye ukuphinda uluqonde kwakhona. Ngokusisiseko, uthando lusoloko lukho, kodwa ngaphandle kolwazi kunye neenkqubo zokucinga ezivela kulo, bekungayi kwenzeka ukuba uluqonde okanye uluve.

Ngendlela, ukukhanya yinto engaphaya kwendawo (indawo ye-ether / i-Dirac yolwandle), enye yezona ndawo ziphakamileyo zokungcangcazela ezichaphazela umhlaba wethu wezinto ezibonakalayo.. !!

Ngenxa yale nyaniso, ukwazi ukwamela elona gunya liphakamileyo elikhoyo kwaye ke ngoko ikakhulu linoxanduva lokudalwa kweemeko. Uthando ngokwemvelo lungena kwingqondo kwaye lunokuqinisekisa ukuba thina bantu sidala indawo ephilileyo, ehambelanayo kunye noxolo. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhanya kunye nothando zimele kuphela iimbonakaliso zokuqonda kwaye ke ngoko ayizizo iimeko eziphezulu zobukho, kodwa njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, i-2 iphakamileyo yokungcangcazela ichaza ukuba umoya wengqondo wokudala uhlala unamava kwaye unokuba namava. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.