Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukufumana ukungafi ngokwasemzimbeni? Phantse wonke umntu uye wajongana nalo mbuzo unika umdla ebomini babo, kodwa akukho mntu ukhe wafumana ulwazi olusisiseko. Ukukwazi ukufezekisa ukungafi komzimba kuya kuba yinjongo ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye ngenxa yesi sizathu abantu abaninzi kwixesha elidlulileyo lembali yoluntu baye bafuna indlela yokubeka le projekthi. Kodwa yintoni kanye kanye ebangela olu sukelo lubonakala lungenakufikelelwa? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ngokwenene ukuba ngumntu ongafiyo ngokwasemzimbeni?

Wonke umntu ophilayo unemiba yokungafi!

Ngokusisiseko, yonke into ephilayo ineenkalo zokungafi. Ukusukela ekugqibeleni, yonke into ekhoyo iqulathe amazwe anamandla athi ajikajike ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ukusuka kule mbono wonke umntu unemiba yokungafi, kuba ekupheleni kosuku wonke umntu uqulathe kanye oku kuhlangana okufihlakeleyo okuhlala kukho. Ubunzulu kulo mbandela, ekugqibeleni omele amandla ajikisiweyo kuphela, kukho iwebhu enamandla angenasiphelo enikwa imo ngomoya okrelekrele. Le mimandla yamandla anamandla ibisoloko ikhona, ikhona kwaye iya kuqhubeka ikhona. Ngokusisiseko, oku kukwanento yokwenza nento yokuba la mazwe angaphathekiyo ahlala ebumba ubukho bethu aquka izixhobo ezingaphelelwa lixesha. Ixesha le-Space alichaphazeli la mazwe; Akukho ndawo okanye ixesha kwiingcinga zethu, imeko ethetha ukuba sinokuthelekelela nantoni na esiyifunayo ngaphandle kokubekelwa imida.

Nangona kunjalo, izakhiwo zethu zomzimba zinokubola ngokuhamba kwexesha, kodwa umphefumlo wethu, ubukho bethu obucacileyo, akunakuze unyamalale. Ubukho bethu obunamandla bukhoyo kwindawo yonke kwaye abunakwahlulwa ngenxa yesithuba esingenaxesha, isakhiwo esine-5-dimensional. Xa sisifa okanye xa umzimba wethu wenyama uqhekeka kwaye thina njengomphefumlo osulungekileyo sifumana olu tshintsho lukhulu, siphulukana nobukho bethu bomzimba, kodwa isiseko sethu sengqondo siyaqhubeka sikhona (ngokusisiseko akukho kufa, utshintsho oluphindaphindiweyo lukhokelela kuthi ukufumana inqanaba elitsha lobomi). Ukuba uthatha lo mbandela entliziyweni ngoko uyaqonda ukuba sele ungafi, nokuba lo mbandela uhambelana kuphela nesiseko esifihlakeleyo somntu. Kodwa kuthekani ngenkalo yomzimba? Umzimba wenyama nawo unokufikelela kwimo yokungafi.

Ukungafi ngokwasenyameni kusisiphumo senyaniso enyulu ngokupheleleyo

Yonke into inokwenzeka. Yonke into onokuyicinga nayo inokwenzeka. Ukuze ufezekise oku, ukuze udale ubunyani obuqinisekileyo ngokupheleleyo, iimeko ezahlukeneyo kufuneka zihlangane. Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe ekuhambeni kwesicatshulwa, umzimba womntu uquka amazwe anamandla.

Ukushukuma okuphezulu/ukungcangcazela okuphezulu/amandla okukhanya kwalo naluphi na uhlobo anyusa inqanaba lethu lokungcangcazela kwaye ukungakhathali/ukungcangcazela okusezantsi amandla/uxinzelelo lwamandla lubeka uxinzelelo kumgaqo-siseko wethu wenyama nowasengqondweni kwaye lurhuqa inqanaba lokungcangcazela lihle, lisenza imeko yethu yamandla ixinene ngakumbi. Ukuze kuphunyezwe ukungafi, kuyimfuneko ukonyusa/ukunciphisa inqanaba lokungcangcazela komntu nge-positivity ukuze umntu athathe imo engabonakaliyo ngokupheleleyo, ekhanyayo kwakhona (umntu ubonakalisa ukungafi komzimba kwinyani yakhe). Kulungile, ndiza kuzama ibinzana ngokwahlukileyo. Okukhona wonwaba, kokukhona ukhawuleza/uphezulu isiseko sakho esinamandla singcangcazela kwaye uziva ukhaphukhaphu. Kuba yonke inyani yakho ekugqibeleni iqulathe amandla kuphela, unokwenza ibango lokuba okukhona wonwabe, kokukhona isiseko sakho esinamandla singcangcazela. Ngaxa lithile ufikelela kwimo eyonakele kangangokuba bonke ubukho bakho buyancipha.

Ubunyani bomntu (wonke umntu ngumdali wenyani yakhe) emva koko ingcangcazele ngesantya esiphezulu kangangokuba isiqu somntu sithatha imeko ekhaphukhaphu/ethereal. Uya kuthi ke uqhubeke uphila ngokugqibeleleyo njengomntu onamandla, ongenaxesha kwaye ufumane izakhono ongenakuze ucinge ngazo kumaphupha akho asendle. Nje ukuba usifezekise esi simo, unokuphinda ubambe umzimba kwaye oku kwenzeka ngokuthoba inqanaba lakho lokungcangcazela kwakhona ngamandla okuqonda kwakho. Ngokombono wam, oku kukwachaza isenzeko sengelosi. Ngokubonwa ngolu hlobo, izithunywa zezulu ngabantu abathe bawufeza lo mgangatho wokungafi ngokuzincama okunyulu (Abantu abaye baphumelela ukuzalwa kwabo). Xa ingelosi emva koko izenza umzimba wenyama kwakhona kwihlabathi lenyama, ichaphazela abantu njengesangqa esikhulu sokukhanya esibonakala sivela ngaphandle kwaye sithatha imo yenyama. Kodwa amaqhinga alula awasekho ngokwaneleyo ukuphumeza imeko enjalo. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezifunekayo ukuze kuphunyezwe ukungafi komzimba.

Ukutya kubalulekile kwinqanaba lakho lokungcangcazela

Okokuqala, kufuneka uphucule ukutya kwakho. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka utye ngokupheleleyo ngokwemvelo. Kuba yonke into inamazwe anamandla, ukutya kwethu kukwaquka amandla kuphela. Kodwa ayikuko konke ukutya okunempilo okanye inqanaba lokungcangcazela elikhanyayo. Ngokuchasene noko, uninzi lokutya okwenziwa kufumaneke kuthi kudla ngokuba nenqanaba eliphantsi kakhulu lokungcangcazela. Kwelinye icala, oku kungenxa yokuba ukutya kwethu kungcoliswe lishishini lokutya. Ukutya okuninzi kutyetyiswe ngezongezo zeekhemikhali ezingenakubalwa, nto leyo echaphazela kakhulu umgangatho wokutya komntu ngamnye. Ukuze ufezekise ukungafi komzimba, kubalulekile ukuba uziphephe zonke ezi zongezo ezenziweyo, kuba zonke ezi zongezo zinciphisa kakhulu inqanaba lethu lokungcangcazela (isiphumo sisisiseko esinamandla esikhokelela kumajoni omzimba abuthathaka, athi nawo akhuthaze ukuguquguquka. izifo).

Ukuze wenze isiseko sakho esinamandla singcangcazele phezulu, kufuneka utye ngokwemvelo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, oko kukuthi, kufuneka usele amanzi amaninzi acocekileyo, ngokukhethekileyo amanzi asentlakohlaza, kufuneka ukuphephe ngokupheleleyo ukutya okutyetyiswe ngezongezo zekhemikhali, kufuneka utye a iziqhamo ezininzi, yitya imifuno emitsha kunye neemveliso eziziinkozo. Iiprotheyini zezilwanyana kunye namafutha kufuneka ziphetshwe kangangoko kunokwenzeka; Ukuba uyakwazi ukutya ngokwemvelo ngokupheleleyo, uya kufumanisa ukuba kunempembelelo entle kakhulu kwimpilo yakho yomzimba kunye nomzimba.

Ingqondo kufuneka ikhululeke kwintandabuzo kunye nesigwebo

Ukuba umntu wayendixelele kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo ukuba umntu unokuzuza ubomi bokungafi, ngendivele ndibahleke ndibagwebe. Kodwa ngelo xesha ingqondo yam yayingekakhululeki kwaye yayimfameke kakhulu ngenxa yengqondo yam yokuzingca. Kodwa ngaxa lithile kwafika ixesha apho ndaqonda ukuba andinalo ilungelo lokugweba ubomi babanye abantu, ukuba andinakukwazi ukuhleka iingcamango zabanye abantu, kuba oku ekugqibeleni kuthintela uphuhliso lwam kuphela. Umzekelo, ufanele ukuzuza njani ukungafi ukuba umbandela sele uhlekwa okanye ujongelwa phantsi kwasekuqaleni? Isimo sengqondo esinjalo esibi sidala into enye kuphela kwaye oko kukuxinana kwamandla.

Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukujongana nayo yonke into ebomini ngokufanelekileyo, endaweni yokugweba ngokungaboniyo iingcamango zabanye abantu. Ukuba uyayifaka ngaphakathi le nto kwaye ukhuphe izigwebo zakho kwi-bud, iya kuba nefuthe elikhulu kubomi bakho. Uvula ingqondo yakho kwaye ngoko unako ukujongana nezihloko ezingabonakaliyo ngaphandle kokubandlulula. Ukholo lukwanxulunyaniswa ngokuthe ngqo nale migwebo. Ukuba ndigxeka into ethile ngoko andinakukholelwa kuyo. Kulo mongo, amathandabuzo adla ngokuvela, kodwa amathandabuzo wona ayayinciphisa kuphela ingqondo yomntu kwaye adale imida azibekele yona engqondweni yakhe.

Ukubuyela kwinkolelo, iipatheni zeenkolelo zomntu zihlala zinoxanduva lokuyila ubunyani bomntu. Into okholelwa kuyo kunye nento oyi-100% uqinisekile ngayo ihlala izibonakalisa njengenyaniso kwinyani yakho. Ngokomzekelo, uqinisekile ukuba ilanga ngokwalo liyabanda kwaye ubushushu buvela kuphela ngenxa yokungqubana nomoya ojikeleze umhlaba, ngoko lo mbono uyinxalenye yokwenyani yakho, ulwazi oye waluqonda njengenyaniso ebomini bakho. Enye into ebalulekileyo ngamandla akho okuthanda ukuba, umzekelo, ndiyeka yonke into eyingozi (umzekelo: ndiyayeka ukutshaya, nditshintshe ukutya kwam, kwaye ndiziyeke ngokupheleleyo zonke izilingo ezithoba inqanaba lam lokungcangcazela). Amandla okuthanda akhula kakhulu.

Inyathelo lokuqala, i Ukucwangcisa ngokutsha i-subconscious Nangona kufuna amandla amaninzi, ekuhambeni kwexesha uya kuqaphela ukuba amandla okuzimisela okusanda kufunyanwa akunika amandla amakhulu kwaye awusafuni kuphulukana nale meko ikhethekileyo. Kuthatha amandla amaninzi ukuphumeza ukungafi kwaye nangona kubonakala kungenakwenzeka kubantu abaninzi, ndingatsho nje ukuba ukholo lunokuhambisa iintaba. Yonke into inokwenzeka, yonke into onokuyicinga inokwenzeka, yonke into onokucinga ngayo inokubonakaliswa. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.

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