Malunga neminyaka emi-3 ndiye ndinamava ngenkqubo yokuvuka ngokomoya kunye nokuhamba kwindlela yam yobuqu. Bendiqhuba iwebhusayithi yam "Yonke into ingaMandla" ngokufana iminyaka emibini kwaye ndineyam phantse unyaka. Isiteshi se Youtube. Ebudeni beli xesha, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ndandifumana amagqabaza angakhiyo azo zonke iintlobo. Umzekelo, omnye umntu wakha wabhala ukuba abantu abafana nam kufuneka batshiswe esibondeni - akukho mnandi! Abanye abakwazi ukuchonga umxholo wam nangayiphi na indlela baze bandihlasele mna ngokobuqu. Ngendlela efanayo, ihlabathi lam leengcinga lihlala lichanabeke ekugculelweni. Kwiintsuku zam zokuqala, ingakumbi emva kokwahlukana kwam, ixesha apho ndandingenalo uthando lwesiqu sam, amagqabaza anjalo ayendicinezela yaye emva koko ndanikel’ ingqalelo kuwo kangangeentsuku. Ndiyivumele ukuba indichaphazele kwaye ngaloo ndlela ndithobe ukuphindaphinda kwemeko yam yengqondo.

Umzekelo onomdla

Kodwa emva kwethuba lahamba ndaza ndafunda ukujamelana nalo. Ndaqonda ukuba ekupheleni kosuku kuxhomekeke kum ngokobuqu ukuba ndijongene nayo ngendlela eyakhayo okanye engalunganga. Ndingazikhethela ngokwam ukuba emva koko ndilungelelanise imeko yam yokuba sezingqondweni kwi-negative okanye kwi-positive. Kulo mongo, abantu bayakuthanda ukuthetha ngamasela amandla, oko kukuthi abantu ebomini bakho abakuhlutha ngokungazi ukuba ugxininise kunye namandla akho afanelekileyo ngesimo sabo sengqondo esibi. Ndabhala nenqaku elinomdla malunga naloUkukhuselwa kumandla angalunganga – amalunga nantoni kanye kanye la mandla). Ewe, ngoku kukhangeleka ngathi andisakwazi kusabela kwizimvo ezingakhiyo kwakhona. Andifuni ukubeka ugxininiso lwam kunye nabo bonke ubomi bam amandla kuyo. Andifuni kuchitha iiyure ndihlutha iingqondo zam ngento enje kwaye ndifumana ukungakhathali kwilizwe leengcinga zomnye umntu, kuba andinanzuzo kulo, ngokuchaseneyo, ndiyazenzakalisa. kunqabile kakhulu ukusabela kuphela kwizimvo ezingalunganga, ngokuqhelekileyo xa umntu wam enqatshelwe ixesha elide kwaye ndiziva ngathi (okt 2-3 amaxesha ngonyaka). Ewe kusafuneka ndifunde ukujongana nayo ngokupheleleyo kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kuphumelela. Kubalulekile ukuba ngaxa lithile ungasawavumeli amandla amabi walo naluphi na uhlobo ukuba akuphembelele kwaye ungemi endleleni yoxolo lwakho lwengqondo nangayiphi na indlela. Oku kusebenza ukuba ubona kuphela okulungileyo kuyo yonke into, ukuba awusayi kubandakanyeka kumdlalo we-resonance. Ewe, kwezi ntsuku zimbalwa zidlulileyo umntu uye wahlekisa umxholo wam izihlandlo ezininzi kwaye wazigxeka iingcinga zam.

Emva kwexesha elide, ndaphinda ndabandakanyeka kumdlalo we-resonance kwaye emva koko ndahlalutya iziphumo zayo kunye nenkqubo iyonke ..!!

Ayikhange indikhathaze kwaphela (kuphela kancinci) kwaye ndiye ndacinga kum, okey, wamkelekile ukuba ucinge ngolo hlobo, komnye nomnye. Kodwa emva kokuba ezi zimvo zingayeki, ndiye ndaphinda ndabandakanyeka kumdlalo onjalo emva kwexesha elide ndaza ndawaphikisa. Ndacinga kakuhle, emva kwalo lonke eli xesha ndiza kusabela kwinto enje kwakhona kwaye ndibone okwenzekayo, indlela endiziva ngayo ngayo emva koko, kwenzeka ntoni kum kwaye, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ukuba ndiza kujongana njani nayo. Inkcazo yokugqibela kule yayisithi: "Ndinokuhleka kuphela ngenxa yokuba ungekho zingqondweni."

Uxolo lunokubakho kuphela xa sihlonipha ubume kunye nelizwe leengcinga zomnye umntu endaweni yokugxeka..!!

Ngesi sihlandlo yonke into iya kwahluka kwakhona. Ngesi sihlandlo ndiya kungena kuyo, ndizithethelela (nto leyo ekunganyanzelekanga ukuba ndiyenze) kwaye ndichaze ukuba kutheni izimo zengqondo ezinje ekugqibeleni zisenzakalisa nje abanye abantu. Kutheni kubaluleke ngakumbi ukubonisa imbeko nokuthanda abamelwane bakho kunokuba ubahleke. Ngentlonipho engqongqo kwintetho yethu yomntu ngamnye, sonke siyafana kwaye ndibhale uluvo lwam ngokusekwe kulo mgca wokucinga. Ngandlela ithile ndiye ndanomnqweno wokwabelana nawe ngezimvo kunye namagqabaza am. Andazi nokuba kutheni. Yenzekile ke ngoko ndayibhala yonke apha. Unaloo nto engqondweni, wonwabele ukufunda 🙂

Umyalezo

Othandekayo "Ms Unknown", ngoku ubhale izimvo ze-2 kwiintsuku ze-4 apho uhlekisa khona umntu wam kwaye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ulwazi lwam lobuqu! Kodwa kutheni? Kutheni ulungisa isimo sakho sengqondo kulento kwaye udekise umntu wam? Yini na ukuba uhlale uwugxeka umsebenzi wam, usuke wenze into engento kum? Ekugqibeleni, umntu ngamnye ngumdali wenyaniso yakhe kwaye udala ubomi bakhe esebenzisa intelekelelo yengqondo yakhe. Yonke into eyenzekileyo kum kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo ibumbe ubomi bam ngokusisiseko kwaye yandibeka kwindlela elungileyo, indenza umntu ongcono. Awundazi, awuzange utshintshe nelimdaka nam kwaye awuzange uzikhathaze ngenyani ngomsebenzi wam kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ubukho bam - kungenjalo ubungayi kubhala into enje. Endaweni yoko ubukele iividiyo zam ezimbalwa kwaye uzivumele ukuba wenze isigwebo esibi malunga nam ngokusekelwe kuloo nto. Undikhomba ngomnwe kwaye uveze izimvo zakho zobuqu njengenyani ngakumbi kwaye “zichanekile” kunezam.” Noko ke, oko kwakhona kububuxoki.

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, sonke sidala ezethu iinyani, iinyaniso zethu, iinkolelo, iinkolelo kunye neembono ngobomi..!!

Lo ngumba osenza abantu bahluke kwaye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, abantu ngabanye. Ewe wamkelekile ukuba ubenoluvo olwahlukileyo kolwam, kodwa kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ukukhomba abanye abantu ngomnwe nokubabonisa bengekho zingqondweni.

Ekugqibeleni awundazi, awubazi ubomi bam, indlela yam, zonke iingcinga zam, imeko yam yangoku yokuziva, ukulahla kwam ubomi kunye nendlela yam yobuqu endiyihambileyo kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo..!!

Umzekelo, ukuba bendinokubukela iividiyo zakho kwaye kukho into endingayithandiyo okanye engahambelani nezimvo zam, andisoze ndikubonise ungekho zingqondweni okanye ngenye indlela. Kwangala ndlela inye andizukuniveza ukuba nihlekise okanye nditsho neengcinga zam ngezikhundla zenu.

Iyaqhubeka...

Ndithetha ukuba ngubani ondinika ilungelo lokugxeka ubomi bakho kwaye ndibange ukuba ulwazi lwam luchanekile okanye lusondele kwinyani kuneyakho. Ndiyenzela ntoni lonto?andizuphuma nto kulonto,andizuphuma nto xa ndihlala ndigxila kwizinto ezi negative ndizame ngamandla am wonke ukunciphisa iingcinga zomntu zibencinci. Ekugqibeleni, thina bantu sinokukhetha ukuba ubomi sibujonga ngeliso elibi okanye elakhayo. Uyakwazi ukubukela iividiyo zam kwaye ujonge yonke into ukusuka kwimeko engalunganga yokuqonda, ungazixelela ukuba iimbono zam azilunganga kwaye kuyahlekisa ukwenza ifilosofi malunga "nobuvuvu" obunjalo. Okanye ujonge yonke into ngokwembono elungileyo kwaye ucinga ukuba kulungile ukuba abantu abaninzi banokuchonga umxholo wam kwaye bafumane amandla kuwo. Ewe, ekupheleni kosuku, indlela ohlangabezana ngayo nayo ixhomekeke kuwe kuphela. Okokugqibela, ndinokongeza kuphela ukuba andithethi ukukukhubekisa nangayiphi na indlela ngala mazwana. Ngokuchasene noko, ndingathanda ukukuxhawula kwaye ndikubonise ukuba sonke singabantu abafanele ukuba kukho omnye komnye. Sifanele sibathande abamelwane bethu kunokuba sibahleke, kungenjalo ihlabathi elinoxolo alinakuze livele.

Akunakubakho uxolo xa sikhomba abanye abantu ngomnwe sibancumele ukuba..!!

Le yinkalo ebalulekileyo esifanele sonke njengabantu siyithabathele entliziyweni. Kuphela xa sisebenza kunye, sizibone njengentsapho enye enkulu kwaye sihlonipha ihlabathi lokucinga labanye abantu, kuphela xa sifikelela omnye komnye kwakhona kwaye siqala ukuqonda okulungileyo kunye nokulungileyo komnye nomnye, kuya kuba nako ukudala ihlabathi apho...uthando, uxolo kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke ukuhloniphana. Ngale nto engqondweni, ndiyathemba ukuba kwixesha elizayo siya kuphathana ngoxolo kwaye sibonisane intlonipho yendlela esizibonakalisa ngayo, kuba ngaphandle kobuntu bethu, sonke siyafana. Imibuliso enobubele, Yannick 🙂

Isiphelo esincinci

Ewe, leyo yayiyimpendulo yam kuloo ngxelo. Andazi ukuba kutheni ndipapashe oku apha, mhlawumbi ukunibonisa nonke phandle ukuba kutheni izimvo ezinjalo zingavelisi nto ilungileyo, kutheni izimvo kunye neembono ezinjalo ekugqibeleni zime kuphela kwindlela yokuhlalisana ngoxolo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo umntu wam uyahlaselwa okanye uyagculelwa kwaye umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba ukuziqhelanisa okungafanelekanga okunjalo kwimeko yokwazi kwakhe akunagalelo kubomi obulungileyo kulo mhlaba. Ekupheleni kosuku, sonke singabantu kwaye kufuneka siziphathe ngolo hlobo. Ngokusisiseko, njengoko kukhankanyiwe kuluvo lwam, silusapho olukhulu kwaye kufuneka sakhe phezu koko. Akunantiyo, akunanjongo, namona, nokunyelisana; kodwa luthando, uxolo, imvisiswano, nokuhlonelana. Nantso into esiyidingayo kulomhlaba, abantu bancedisane kwaye bahloniphane. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.