Iinkolelo lukholo lwangaphakathi oluzinze ngokunzulu kwi-subconscious yethu kwaye ngaloo ndlela zinempembelelo enkulu kwinyani yethu kunye nekhondo eliqhubekayo lobomi bethu. Kulo mongo, kukho iinkolelo ezilungileyo ezinceda ukukhula kwethu ngokwasemoyeni kwaye kukho iinkolelo ezingalunganga ezithi zibe nefuthe elithintelayo kwingqondo yethu. Ekugqibeleni, iinkolelo ezingakhiyo ezinje ngo "Andimhle" zinciphisa ukungcangcazela rhoqo. Zenzakalisa i-psyche yethu kwaye zithintele ukufezekiswa kokwenyani, into eyinyani engasekelwanga kwisiseko somphefumlo wethu kodwa kwisiseko sengqondo yethu ye-egoistic. Kwinxalenye yesibini yolu chungechunge ndiya kungena kwinkolelo eqhelekileyo, ethi "andinakuyenza" okanye "Awunakuyenza".

Andinakuyenza loo nto

Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantu abaninzi baziva bengazithembi. Kwiimeko ezininzi kakhulu sijongela phantsi amandla ethu engqondo, sizibambe, kwaye ngokwethuku sicingela ukuba asinakukwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile, ukuba asinakukwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile. Kodwa kutheni singakwazi ukwenza into ethile, kutheni simele sizenze bancinci size sicinge ukuba asinakukwazi ukwenza izinto ezithile? Ekugqibeleni yonke into inokwenzeka. Yonke ingcinga iyafezekiswa, nokuba ingcamango ehambelanayo ibonakala ingekho kuthi ngokupheleleyo. Thina bantu ngokwesiseko singabantu abanamandla kakhulu kwaye sinokusebenzisa ingqondo yethu ukwenza into eyinyani ehambelana ngokugqibeleleyo nokucinga kwethu.

Yonke into eyenzeka kubo bonke ubukho yayiyimveliso yengcinga, imveliso yengqondo..!!

Nantso ke into ekhethekileyo ngathi bantu. Bonke ubomi ekugqibeleni yimveliso nje yeengcamango zethu, intelekelelo yethu yengqondo. Ngoncedo lweengcinga zethu siyadala kwaye sitshintshe ubomi bethu. Yonke into eyakha yenzeka kwiplanethi yethu, zonke izenzo zomntu, sonke isiganeko, yonke into eyiliweyo yaphumla kuqala kumbono wengqondo yomntu.

Nje ukuba siyithandabuze into ethile kwaye siqinisekile ukuba asinakuyenza, nathi asiyi kuyenza. Ingakumbi ekubeni eyethu imeko yokuqonda ke iphinda iphinde iphinde iphinde iphinde icinge nokucinga ukuba singayenzi, nto leyo eyenza ukuba oku kube yinyani ..!!

 Nangona kunjalo, siyathanda ukulawulwa ziinkolelo zethu, sithandabuze amandla ethu angaphakathi kwaye sithintele amandla ethu engqondo. Izivakalisi ezinje: "Andinakuyenza", "andinakuyenza loo nto", "andisoze ndiyilawule loo nto" qinisekisa ukuba asikwazi ukwenza izinto ezihambelanayo.

Umzekelo onomdla

Umzekelo, kufuneka udale into osele uyicingela ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuba awukwazi ukuyenza. Kulo mongo, sikwathanda ukuzivumela ukuba siphenjelelwe ngabanye abantu kwaye ngaloo ndlela sivumele ukuzithemba ngokusemthethweni ezingqondweni zethu. Kwakhona ndiye ndazivumela ukuba ndiphenjelelwe ngabanye abantu kule nkalo izihlandlo eziliqela kwixa elidluleyo. Ngokomzekelo, kwicala lam, omnye umfana wathi kwakungayi kwenzeka ukuba abantu abadlulisela ulwazi lwabo lokomoya bawoyise umjikelo wabo wokuvela ngokutsha. Andikhumbuli kanye ukuba kwakutheni ukuze acinge oko, kodwa ekuqaleni ndayivumela ukuba indikhokele. Kangangexesha elifutshane ndandicinga ukuba lo mntu wayechanile yaye ndandingenakuwoyisa owam umjikelo wokuvela ngokutsha kobu bomi. Kodwa kutheni ndingakwazi ukuyenza lento kwaye kutheni lo mntu kufuneka elungile. Kwadlula iinyanga emva koko ndaqonda ukuba le nkolelo yayilinqaku nje lokholo kuye. Yayiyinkolelo yakhe azenzele yona awayeqiniseke ngayo ngokunzulu. Inkolelo engalunganga eyathi ke yaba yinxalenye yenyani yam. Kodwa ekugqibeleni olu loyiko yayilulweyiseko lwakhe lobuqu, inkqubo yakhe yenkolelo yobuqu. Ngoko ke yayingamava abalulekileyo endathi ndakwazi ukufunda okuninzi kuwo. Yiyo loo nto ndingathetha into enye kuphela kwezi ntsuku, kwaye yile yokuba ungaze uvumele nabani na ukuba akuqinisekise ukuba akukho nto unokuyenza. Ukuba ke ngoko umntu kufuneka abe nenkolelo enjalo engafanelekanga, ngokuqinisekileyo uvumelekile ukuba enze njalo, kodwa umntu akufanele avumele ukuba kube nefuthe kuye. Sonke sidala ezethu iinyani, iinkolelo zethu kwaye akufuneki siphenjelelwe ziinkolelo zabanye abantu.

Wonke umntu ngumdali wenyani yakhe kwaye unokuzikhethela ukuba zeziphi iingcinga aziqondayo, ukuba uphila ubomi obunjani..!!

Thina singabadali, singabadali benyani yethu kwaye kufuneka sisebenzise amandla ethu engqondo ukwenza iinkolelo ezilungileyo. Kwesi siseko ke sidala ubunyani apho yonke into inokwenzeka kuthi. Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.