Iinkolelo ezininzi eziziintlobo ngeentlobo zimiliselwe kwingqondo yomntu ngamnye. Nganye kwezi nkolelo inemvelaphi eyahlukileyo. Kwelinye icala, ezo nkolelo okanye iinkolelo/iinyaniso zangaphakathi zivela ngokukhuliswa kwaye kwelinye icala ngamava ahlukeneyo esiwaqokelela ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, iinkolelo zethu zinempembelelo enkulu kumaxesha ethu okungcangcazela, kuba iinkolelo ziyinxalenye yenyani yethu. Iingcinga ezithunyelwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwingqondo yethu yemihla ngemihla kwaye ziphila ngathi. Nangona kunjalo, iinkolelo ezingalunganga ekugqibeleni zithintela ukukhula kolonwabo lwethu. Baqinisekisa ukuba sihlala sijonga izinto ezithile kwimbono engalunganga kwaye oku kunciphisa ubuninzi bethu bokungcangcazela. Kulo mongo, kukho iinkolelo ezingakhiyo ezilawula ubomi babantu abaninzi. Ngoko ke ndiza kukwazisa ngenkolelo efanayo kweli candelo lilandelayo.
Andimhle
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, inani elikhulu kakhulu labantu lithwaxwa zii-inferiority complexes. Yiloo nto kanye abantu abaninzi abangaziva bahle. Aba bantu badla ngokuba nomfanekiso othile ofanelekileyo engqondweni, umfanekiso ofanelekileyo umntu afanele afane nawo ngendlela ethile. Uluntu kunye nemidiya yethu yeendaba zihlala zisicebisa umfanekiso othile ofanelekileyo, umfanekiso ofanele uhambelana nawo abasetyhini kunye namadoda. Ezi zizathu kunye nezinye ekugqibeleni zikhokelela ekubeni abantu abaninzi kwihlabathi lanamhlanje bangaziboni bebahle, banganeliseki kwiziqu zabo yaye ngenxa yoko bathwaxwa zizigulo zengqondo. Ngapha koko, olu luxinzelelo olukhulu kwingqondo yomntu kunye nemeko yakhe yengqondo.
Okukhona ujonge ulonwabo, uthando kunye nenkangeleko entle yangaphandle ngaphandle, kokukhona uziqhelanisa nomthombo wakho wangaphakathi wolonwabo..!!
Abantu abangacingi ukuba bahle bahlala bejongene nokungoneliseki kwabo kulo mba kwaye babandezeleka ngenxa yoko ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kodwa ekugqibeleni akufuneki sihambelane nawo nawuphi na umfanekiso ofanelekileyo omiselwe kwangaphambili, kodwa siqale siphuhlise owethu ubuhle kwakhona.
Thanda kwaye wamkele ubukho bakho
Kule nkalo, ubuhle bomntu buvela ngaphakathi kwaye emva koko bubonakalise ngaphandle, ukubonakala komzimba. Iinkolelo zakho zibalulekile kwi-charisma yakho. Umzekelo, ukuba uqinisekile ukuba awumhle, awuyiyo loo nto, okanye ezantsi ezantsi sele unjalo, kodwa ukuba uqinisekile ngaphakathi ukuba awumhle, ke usasaza oku ngaphandle. Abanye abantu baya kuva le nkolelo yangaphakathi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abayi kukwazi ukubona ubuhle bakho ngenxa yokuba ujongela phantsi ubuhle bakho. Ngokusisiseko, wonke umntu mhle kwaye wonke umntu unokuphuhlisa ubuhle bakhe bangaphakathi. Kule nkalo, kubalulekile ukuba siqale ukuzamkela kwaye sizithande kwakhona. Ngokomzekelo, umntu ozithandayo kwaye waneliseke ngokupheleleyo ngokwabo unomdla othakazelisayo. Ngaphandle koko, sihlala sitsala kubomi bethu into esiqiniseke ngayo ngokupheleleyo, into ehambelana neengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zethu.
Uya kutsala umdla ohambelana neenkolelo zakho zangaphakathi kunye neenkolelo kubomi bakho .. !!
Umzekelo, ukuba uhlala uqinisekile ukuba awumhle, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kutsala iimeko ebomini bakho apho ujongene nokunganeliseki kwakho kwangaphakathi. Umthetho we-resonance, into oyikhuphayo, uyatsala ebomini bakho. Amandla atsala amandla okungcangcazela okufanayo.
Ubomi bufana nesipili. Izimo zakho zangaphakathi zihlala zibonakaliswa kwihlabathi langaphandle. Ilizwe aliyiyo indlela eliyiyo, kodwa yindlela oyiyo..!!
Ukuba awunelisekanga ngokubonakala kwakho kwaye mhlawumbi ude ugatye umzimba wakho, ngoko kubalulekile ukuyeka ukuzivumela ukuba uphuphuthekiswe yimimiselo yentlalo, izivumelwano kunye nemilinganiselo. Yima ecaleni kwesimilo sakho, umzimba wakho, ubuntu bakho. Ngoba kutheni? Kutheni kufuneka ube mbi, umbi okanye ube sisidenge kunabanye abantu? Sonke sinomzimba, sinokuqonda, sidale eyethu inyaniso kwaye sonke singumfanekiso womthombo ongabonakaliyo, ongcwele. Ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukuyeka ukuzithelekisa nabanye abantu, ngokukhawuleza ukuba uqale ukuzamkela kwakhona, emva kwexesha elifutshane uya kuba ne-charisma eya kuthimba abanye abantu. Konke kuxhomekeke kuwe kuphela, kwiinkolelo zakho zangaphakathi, iinkolelo, iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
