Ebudeni bobomi, thina bantu sifumana iintlobo ngeentlobo zeengqondo neemeko zokuphila. Ezinye zezi meko zizaliswe lulonwabo, ezinye kukungonwabi. Umzekelo, kukho amaxesha apho sivakalelwa kukuba yonke into iza kuthi ngokulula. Siziva silungile, sonwabile, sanelisekile, sizithemba, somelele kwaye siyawonwabela amanqanaba anjalo. Kwelinye icala, sikwaphila kumaxesha obumnyama. Amaxesha apho singaziva mnandi, singanelisekanga ngokweziqu zethu, sibe neemvakalelo ezidakumbisayo kwaye kwangaxeshanye sizive ngathi silandelwa ngamashwa. Kwizigaba ezinjalo sihlala sifikelela kwisigqibo sokuba ubomi abunabubele kuthi kwaye asikwazi ukuqonda ukuba kwenzeke njani oku, kutheni sidale imeko yokuqonda ehlala ihambelana nokuswela endaweni yobuninzi.

Yonke into ivela kuwe

Ngenxa yoko, ubani uye wangena kwisiphithiphithi sengqondo ekubonakala ukuba sikhula ngakumbi. Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, sihlala sityeshela inyani ebalulekileyo kwaye yinyani yokuba sinoxanduva lweemeko zethu. Ekupheleni kosuku, yonke into yenzeka ngaphakathi kwethu. Bonke ubomi ekugqibeleni yintelekelelo engabonakaliyo / yengqondo yesimo sethu sokwazi. Yonke into umntu ayibonayo, ayibonayo, ayivayo okanye ayivayo ngalo mba ayifumaneki ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphakathi kuye.Yonke into yenzeka ngaphakathi kuye, umntu ufumana yonke into ngaphakathi kuye kwaye yonke into iphuma kuye. Kule meko, ungumdali wobomi bakho kwaye akukho mntu wumbi. Wena ngokwakho unengqondo, iingcamango zakho kwaye udale eyakho inyaniso. Kwenzeka ntoni kuyo kunye noko kuvunyelwe kuxhomekeke kumntu ngamnye. Ngendlela efanayo, umntu ukwanoxanduva lweengcinga kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, iimvakalelo umntu azenza ngokusemthethweni kwingqondo yakhe.

Ungumdali wemeko yakho yokuqonda. Yonke into odibana nayo ebomini ihlala isenzeka engqondweni yakho..!!

Umzekelo, ukuba ungcatshwe ngumhlobo olungileyo, kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba uyivumele kangakanani loo nto ukuba ikwenze buhlungu. Ungangena kuyo kwaye uzikhathaze ngayo iiveki, ugxininise kuyo kwaye utsale i-negativity kuyo iiveki.

Uhlengahlengiso lwemeko yakho yokuqonda

Okanye uyijonga yonke loo nto kwakhona njengamava angenakuphepheka onokufumana kuwo izifundo ezibalulekileyo. Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, awukwazi ukugxeka abanye abantu ngeengxaki zakho kunye neemeko (nokuba kunjalo zihlala zilula). Uzibandakanya nezinto ngokwakho, vumela oololiwe bengcinga engqondweni yakho kwaye wenze isigqibo malunga neemeko ezithile zobomi. Yiloo ndlela kanye esebenza ngayo ngolonwabo kunye nokungonwabi. Akukho kuvela ngaphandle, akubhabheli nje kuthi, kodwa zombini zivela ngaphakathi kwethu. "Akukho ndlela yolonwabo, kuba ulonwabo yindlela"! Sihlala sinoxanduva lokuba ngaba sidala ulonwabo, uvuyo kunye nokuvisisana kwingqiqo yethu, okanye ukuba siqinisekisa ukungonwabi, usizi kunye nokunganeliseki kwingqondo yethu. Zombini zihlala zihambelana nokuqhelaniswa nemeko yolwazi lomntu. Ekugqibeleni, umntu uhlala etsalela kubomi bakhe into ehambelana ne-vibrational frequency yesimo sakhe sokwazi. Xa uziva umbi, unganelisekanga kwaye unokungalingani kwangaphakathi, ngoko ukuqonda kwakho ngokuzenzekelayo kuhambelana nezi zinto. Ngenxa yoko, akukho nto iya kutshintsha kwiimeko zakho, ngokuchaseneyo, uya kutsala kuphela iingcamango ezinjalo ebomini bakho. Iimeko zokuphila aziyi kuphucuka kwaye uya kuqhubeka nokubona ukuwohloka kwemeko yakho. Amandla ahlala etsala amandla okuqina okufanayo. Into oyicingayo kunye nozivayo, ehambelana neenkolelo zakho zangaphakathi kunye neenkolelo, iya itsaleka ngakumbi ebomini bakho.

Umntu uhlala ezoba izinto ebomini bakhe ezithi ekugqibeleni zingqinelane nokungcangcazela rhoqo kwimeko yokwazi kwakhe..!!

Umzekelo, umntu owonwabileyo, umxholo kunye nombulelo uya kutsala ngokuzenzekelayo ezi zinto ebomini bakhe. Imeko yomntu yokuqonda ngoko ihambelana nobuninzi kunye nokuvisisana. Ngenxa yoko, umntu uya kutsala kuphela kwaye afumane into efanayo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ukulungelelaniswa kwemeko yethu yokuqonda kubalulekile. Kuphela kuxa siyakwazi ukuhambelana nolonwabo kunye nemvisiswano kulo mxholo apho siya kuthi sibonakalise ngokusisigxina kwinyani yethu.

Ngokulungelelanisa ngokuqinisekileyo imeko yethu yokuqonda, siya kuqaqambisa ubomi bethu kwaye siya kutsala ngokuzenzekelayo iimeko ezintsha zobomi ezingqongwe lulonwabo..!!

Iingxaki azinakusonjululwa kwisimo sengqondo esibi. Kuphela xa sitshintsha i-spectrum yethu yengqondo kwakhona, silahla imikhwa emidala kwaye siqale ukujonga ubomi kwiimbono ezintsha, siya kukwazi ukuzisa ukuhlengahlengiswa kwemeko yethu yokuqonda. Kuxhomekeke kumntu ngamnye ngokwakhe. Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.