Kukho izinto ebomini ezidingwa ngumntu wonke. Izinto ezingenakubuyiselwa + ezixabisekileyo kwaye zibalulekile kwimpilo yethu yengqondo / yokomoya. Kwelinye icala, yimvisiswano esiyilangazelelayo thina bantu. Ngendlela efanayo, luthando, ulonwabo, uxolo lwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka okunika ubomi bethu buqaqambe ngokukhethekileyo. Zonke ezi zinto zidibene nenkalo ebaluleke kakhulu, into efunwa ngumntu wonke ukuze azalisekise ubomi obonwabisayo kwaye leyo yinkululeko. Kule nkalo, sizama izinto ezininzi ukuze sikwazi ukuphila ubomi benkululeko epheleleyo. Kodwa yintoni kanye kanye inkululeko epheleleyo kwaye uyifumana njani? Ngoku ekubeni wonke umntu engumdali wenyaniso yakhe kwaye enezimvo zakhe zobomi, edala iinkolelo neenkolelo zakhe, wonke umntu ukwachaza inkululeko ngendlela yakhe.

Inkululeko-Imeko yokuba nengqondo

Nangona kunjalo, wonke umntu unengcamango ecacileyo yenkululeko, into ethile kulo mba, angathanda ukuyiqonda ebomini bakhe. Kodwa ukuphumeza njani oku kwaye yintoni kanye kanye inkululeko? Ngokwenene, inkululeko yimeko, ukuchaneka imeko yokuqonda, apho ukuzimela kunye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ubomi obukhululekile bunokuvela. Ubomi esinenkululeko epheleleyo yokwenza, musa ukuvumela inkululeko yethu ibekelwe umda nangayiphi na indlela kwaye senze okuhambelana neengcamango zethu, siqonde into ekhoyo kwi-subconscious yethu iminyaka engenakubalwa ngendlela yamaphupha kunye neengcamango malunga nobomi. . Ngokuphathelele oku, sihlala sizama ngamandla ethu onke ukufezekisa la maphupha kwaye sifumane uxolo kuphela xa la maphupha efezekile ( ngokuqinisekileyo kubalulekile ukugxila ekuzalisekeni kwamaphupha akho - kodwa kubalulekile ukuba oku kubonakaliswa kusebenze. Ukuhambelana nobuninzi kunye nokuhlawulisa iingcamango zakhe malunga nephupha ngeemvakalelo ezintle, esi simo sengqondo sigcinwa kwi-subconscious.Xa umntu ngoko esebenzayo ebumbe ubomi bakhe kwaye ahlambe phambi kobukho bangoku, ngokuzenzekelayo udonsa ukuqonda kwakhe ngokutsho ixesha ebomini bakho). Nangona kunjalo, oku kudla ngokuvala indlela eyongezelelweyo yobomi bethu.

Amaphupha akanakufezekiswa ukuba iinzame zokufezekiswa zivela kukungabikho zingqondweni..!!

Ukuba siyakwenza oku, sisukela kuphela amaphupha ethu kwimeko yokusilela kwaye asinakukwazi ukugxila kulo mzuzu wangoku, ke sihlala sizihlutha inxalenye encinci yenkululeko yethu. Asifumani kuphumla, asisaphili ubomi obulungeleleneyo size ngaloo ndlela sithintele amandla eengqondo zethu.

Izithintelo, iibhloko kunye nokuxhomekeka

Ngesi sizathu, inkululeko ikwaxhomekeke kwimeko yethu yangoku yokuqonda okanye nasekuziqhelaniseni nemeko yethu yokuqonda. Kulo mongo, wonke umntu unemiqobo eyahlukahlukeneyo yengqondo, imithwalo azenzele yona, ethi ekupheleni kosuku ime endleleni yoxolo lwethu lwangaphakathi kwaye ikhuthaze ukungazinzi / ukungalungelelani. Umzekelo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba uzilele i-ex-intombi / isoka kwaye awukwazi ukujongana nale meko, okanye abantu obathandayo abaswelekileyo, abangena ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwingqondo yethu yemihla ngemihla ngendlela yeengcinga kwaye bavuse imvakalelo yokudakumba. thina. Ngaphandle koko, kukho izinto ezininzi (icuba, ikofu, utywala, ukutya okuxineneyo, njl.njl.) apho sixhomekeke kuyo okanye nakwimiqobo yokuzimela (kufuneka ndenze oku, andinakuphila ngaphandle koku, ndifuna oku, njl. Zonke ezi ndlela zizenzele ngokwazo zisihlutha inkululeko encinci kwaye zisithintela ekuphuhliseni amandla ethu okuqonda. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, inkululeko yimeko yokuqonda, ukuchaneka kwimeko ephezulu kakhulu yokuqonda, apho inyani ivela apho sivuya ngokupheleleyo kwaye sinelisekile ngento esinayo.

Imida kunye nezithintelo zivela kuphela kwiingcinga zethu, kwingqondo yethu. Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba utshintshe eyakho indlela yengqondo ukuze ukwazi ukusebenza ngokukhutheleyo ekucimezeni iibhlohlo zakho kwakhona..!! 

Imeko yokuqonda apho singasaxhomekeki kwimida kunye neengxaki esizibekele zona kwaye sikhululekile kuzo naziphi na iingcinga ezimbi kunye nemiqobo. Ewe, ubuncinci le yimbono yam yobuqu yenkululeko. Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe, wonke umntu uchaza inkululeko yakhe kwaye wonke umntu unombono wakhe wobomi. Nangona kunjalo, inye into eqinisekileyo, inkululeko yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye, ngaphezu kwayo yonke, into efunwa ngumntu wonke ophilayo ukuze akwazi ukuphuhlisa ngokupheleleyo amandla aso kwakhona. Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.