Isenokuvakala ngathi iyaphambana, kodwa ubomi bakho bumalunga nawe, malunga nokukhula kwakho ngokwasengqondweni nangokweemvakalelo. Oku akufuneki kubhidaniswe ne-narcissism, ikratshi okanye i-egoism, Ngokuchaseneyo, lo mba unxibelelene ngakumbi nentetho yakho yobuThixo, ubuchule bakho bokuyila kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, imeko yakho yokuqonda ehambelanayo - apho ubunyani bakho bangoku buvela khona . Ngenxa yesi sizathu, uhlala uziva ngathi ihlabathi likujikelezile. Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni na ngosuku, ekupheleni kosuku ubuyele kweyakho ebhedini, ephulukene nezakhe iingcinga nokuziva le mvakalelo ingaqhelekanga, ngokungathi obakhe ubomi busembindini wendalo iphela.
Ukutyhilwa kwentliziyo yakho yobuThixo
Ngelixesha uhleli nawe, uphila ubomi bakho endaweni yokuba ubambeke emizimbeni yabanye abantu uzibuze ukuba kutheni kunje. Nokuba unexhala ngobomi babanye abantu ngamaxesha anje, kusekuwe kunye nobudlelwane bakho nabantu ekuthethwa ngabo. Sihlala sijongela phantsi le mvakalelo, ngokwethuku sicinga ukuba bekuya kuba yinto ephosakeleyo ukucinga ngolu hlobo, ukuba oku kukuzingca, ukuba thina ngokwethu asiyonto ikhethekileyo kwaye singabantu nje abalula abaphila ubomi obungenantsingiselo. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Umntu ngamnye ungumntu oyingqayizivele kwaye onomdla, umdali okhethekileyo weemeko zakhe, othi emva koko abe nempembelelo enkulu kwimeko ehlangeneyo yokuqonda. Kodwa ubomi bethu abukho malunga nokugxila kwintlalontle yethu, ehlala ebhekisa kowethu "mna". Kungaphezulu malunga nokuphuhlisa isiseko sethu sobuthixo kwakhona, nto leyo ekhokelela ekubeni siqinisekise imvakalelo ethi "SI" emoyeni wethu, sibe novelwano kwakhona kwaye sithande abanye abantu, indalo kunye nehlabathi lezilwanyana ngaphandle kwemiqathango.
Obethu ubomi abukho ngathi ukuze sizikhathalele kuphela ngenxa yokuzalwa kwabantu abaninzi, kodwa ukuze ngaxa lithile sidale imeko yokuqonda apho impilo-ntle yendalo yonke igxile ngokusisigxina. Imeko yokuqonda ngokulungeleleneyo ekungasayi kubakho kungavani kwakhona..!!
Le ikwayinkqubo ethatha ixesha elithile; enyanisweni, yinkqubo eyenzeka ngaphezu kokuzalwa kwabantu abaninzi kwaye ifikelela esiphelweni kukwenziwa komntu wokugqibela.
Ukuphuhliswa kwesakhono sakho sokubonakaliswa
Kulo mongo, le nkqubo ke ikhokelela kuthi bantu siphinde sifumane unxibelelwano olupheleleyo noBUNTU bethu. Le nkalo sele ingaphakathi kuthi, kanye njengokuba indalo iphela iyinxalenye yethu. Lonke ulwazi, onke amalungu, nokuba sisithunzi/negative okanye ukukhanya/positive, yonke into ingaphakathi kuthi, kodwa asingawo onke amalungu asebenzayo ngaxeshanye. Ngendlela efanayo, kukho inceba, uthando olungagungqiyo, olunovelwano kunye nokungagwebeli icala kumntu wonke, kodwa lihlala lifihliwe kwithunzi leengqondo zethu ze-egoistic. Licala lethu lokungcangcazela okuphezulu ngokupheleleyo/elilungileyo elithi, xa livela, lithetha ukuba thina bantu siphinda sikhatshwa ngokupheleleyo/sibunjwe bubulumko, uthando nemvisiswano. Ngesi sizathu, olu phuhliso alunanto yakwenza ne-egoism okanye i-narcissism, eneneni okwahlukileyo kunjalo, kuba ukuchonga ngeyakho imiba yobuThixo / enothando olungenamiqathango kuzuzisa umhlaba wonke. Ngenxa yoko, ubeka bucala iinxalenye zakho ze-EGO kwaye, ngendlela ethile, unakekele abantu bakho, indalo kunye nehlabathi lezilwanyana. Awusanyatheli kuwo onke la mazwe ahlukeneyo, ulahle zonke izigwebo zakho kwaye uqaphela ubuThixo kuyo yonke enye into (yonke into ekhoyo yimbonakaliso kaThixo). Uba ngumbukeli othuleyo wento eyenzekayo, awusaziva isidingo sokulungisa abanye abantu, ukuba nesimo sengqondo esibi okanye nokuba ushiye eyakho "imo yokungcangcazela kwengqondo ephezulu". Emva koko uyavumelana ngakumbi nendawo okungqongileyo, kunye nendalo kunye nayo yonke imiba yayo. Ekugqibeleni, oku kuthetha ukuba sinempembelelo entle kakhulu kwisimo esihlangeneyo sokuqonda.
Zonke iingcinga zethu zemihla ngemihla + iimvakalelo zingena kwaye zitshintshe imeko yokuqonda. Ngesi sizathu, nathi bantu sinefuthe elikhulu kubomi babanye abantu..!!
Kulo mba, zonke iingcamango zethu, iimvakalelo, iinkolelo, iinkolelo kunye neenjongo zigeleza kwisimo esihlangeneyo sokuqonda kwaye sitshintshe. Xa abantu abaninzi becinga okufanayo, ngokukhawuleza le ngcamango izibonakalisa kwinyani edibeneyo. Okukhona abantu besiba nesimo sengqondo esingafanelekanga yaye, ngokomzekelo, becinga “ngezenzo ezisekelwe kokungekho sikweni,” kokukhona oku kungabikho kokusesikweni kubonakala ngokukhawuleza ehlabathini. Kwelinye icala, kukwabonakala ngathi okukhona uziqondayo, kokukhona usazi ngakumbi amandla akho okubonakaliswa, kokukhona umntu ohambelanayo ephembelela imeko edibeneyo yokuqonda.
Kwiminyaka ezayo, ukuvuka kokomoya okukhoyo ngoku kunye notshintsho lweplanethi oluhambelana nalo luya kuqina, lubangele imeko edibeneyo yokuqonda yenze imitsi enkulu..!!
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, noYesu Kristu wakwazi ukuzisa imbonakaliso enamandla ngexesha lakhe nangamaxesha apho kwakukho ubumnyama obupheleleyo. Wabonakalisa umgaqo wobuthixo wothando olungagungqiyo kwaye ngaloo ndlela watshintsha yonke imeko yeplanethi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, inkunkuma eninzi yenziwe ngale nto kwaye ngenxa yengqondo ehlangeneyo ehlangeneyo, ihlabathi laqhubeka lihlala ebumnyameni (ukubanda kwentliziyo, ubukhoboka, njl.). Ewe, ngenxa yeXesha elitsha langoku le-Aquarius, imeko edibeneyo yokuqonda ifumana uphuhliso olukhulu kwaye abantu abaninzi ngakumbi bafumana unxibelelwano olunamandla kumthombo wabo ongcwele. Ngenxa yoko, oku kukhokelela ekubeni abantu abaninzi babe novelwano ngakumbi kwaye basebenzise impembelelo entle ngakumbi kumoya ohlangeneyo. Ke ngoko ngumcimbi wexesha ngaphambi kokuba kuqaliswe ukusabela okukhulu kwekhonkco, okuya kuthi kuthi kusikhokelela thina bantu “kwihlabathi elisekelwe kubulungisa nemvisiswano”. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
