Ngaphakathi komyinge ogqwesileyo wokutsibela ekuvukeni, wonke umntu udlula kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo, oko kukuthi, thina ngokwethu siye samkela ulwazi olwahlukeneyo (Ulwazi lukude kwimbono yehlabathi yangaphambili) kwaye ngenxa yoko, ngokusuka entliziyweni ngakumbi nangakumbi ekhululekile, evulekileyo, engenamkhethe kwaye kwelinye icala sifumana ukubonakaliswa kwemifanekiso emitsha yobuqu ngokuqhubekayo. Kulo mxholo, siphinda sidlule kwezona mpawu zihlukeneyo (Singabantu abanengqondo, izidalwa zomoya kuphela, abadali, abadali abasebenzisana nabo, uThixo, uMthombo njl.njl.-umoya osulungekileyo ozigqumayo kwimifanekiso emitsha, imifanekiso eshukumayo ephezulu-apho kubonakaliswa inyaniso ephezulu/elula/ebaluleke ngakumbi.) kwaye ngaloo ndlela ulahle imifanekiso yakudala kunye nezakhiwo zangaphakathi ezisekelwe kuxinzelelo kunye neengqondo ezincinci.

Amandla amakhulu

Le yindlela esiphuhlisa ngayo ngakumbi nangaphezulu kule nkqubo, ngeyona njongo iphambili (nokuba uyayazi okanye awuyazi), ukuqonda ukuzalwa komntu, oko kukuthi umdlalo ukusuka ekuxininiseni ukuya ekukhanyeni, apho singena khona kwakhona kwimeko yethu yangaphambili. Kwaye eli lizwe liphambili lihamba kunye noluhlu olupheleleyo lwezakhono ezingaqhelekanga. Ngenxa yeMerkaba eqeqeshiweyo (umzimba okhanyayo) kunye nokukhanya okuphezulu kakhulu okanye ukuphindaphindeka, okusisiphumo esithe ngqo sokunyuka komntu ngokupheleleyo, intsimi yethu iye yakhaphukhaphu/ikhaphukhaphu kangangokuba ukubuyiswa kobuchule bomlingo obuphezulu kwenzeka. Ukuhambisa izinto ngamandla okucinga, ukuzithumela kwenye indawo, ukwenza izinto ngesandla sakho, ukuphilisa ngokupheleleyo abanye abantu ngamandla okucinga okanye ukungafi komzimba kunye nemeko ephiliswe ngokusisigxina/evuselelwe, konke oku kunye nokunye okuninzi kumela. Kwimeko yokuba yinkosi, YONKE into inokwenzeka ngokwenene. Imida okanye imida ezibekelwe yona engqondweni yomntu ayisekho, ingqondo ikhululeke ngokupheleleyo. Ngoku, ngelixa similiselwe kweli lizwe, kukho omnye umgangatho okhethekileyo wamandla kwaye ngumgangatho webhalansi ephezulu. Kulo mongo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sonwabe kwaye saneliseke kwakhona ukuze silawule ukuzalwa kwethu kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ukudala imeko elungeleleneyo ngokusisigxina. Ekuqaleni, oku kunokuvakala kulula kakhulu, kodwa eneneni kuyinyani eyi-100%. Lelinye lawona manqanaba aphakamileyo obuchule obuzinze ngokusisigxina kumbindi womntu ongaphakathi, ekhatshwa yimvakalelo yolonwabo, ngaphandle kokukrazulwa kwimeko yethu yolonwabo lungquzulwano lwangaphakathi okanye izakhiwo ezisekelwe kuxinano.

Imeko yemvisiswano

Kunjalo Imeko yenfezeko ephezulu, imfezeko kunye noxolo oluquka konke olulangazelelwa ngumntu wonke entliziyweni. Ngubani ongathanda ukutyhubela ukubandezeleka ngokuphindaphindiweyo okanye imeko yokungalingani kwangaphakathi, intlungu kunye noloyiko olunzulu? Ewe kunjalo, la mazwe aluncedo kwinkqubo yethu yophuhliso, kodwa ngokubanzi luxolo lwangaphakathi, imvisiswano kunye novuyo oluphilisa eyethu intsimi. Kule nkalo, nathi sinempembelelo esisigxina kumzimba wethu. Okukhona sifika kwiziko lethu elingaphakathi, kokukhona iiseli zethu zondliwa yimvakalelo yemvisiswano, okuthetha ukuba indawo esingqongileyo yeeseli iyaphilisa. Kwelinye icala, yingqondo esekelwe eluxolweni kuphela enokutsala ihlabathi elisekelwe kuxolo lwangaphakathi. Kodwa kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ubugcisa obukhulu kukuvumela imeko yemvisiswano esisigxina iphile. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo sivumela indawo yethu izaliswe yinkcazelo ebeka ityala, ngokuphindaphindiweyo silathisa iingqondo zethu kwimifanekiso yokubandezeleka. Ngokufanayo, sityekele ekuphulukaneni nokuzola ngokukhawuleza okukhulu, okanye siba nomsindo ngokukhawuleza, sizivumele ukuba sibe ngabagxekayo size sigwebe okanye sivale iintliziyo zethu. Kwimidiya yoluntu, umzekelo, oku kunganeliseki kuyabonakala kakhulu (Kumacandelo ezimvo, umzekelo, oku kunokubonwa ngokulula, o.t. ukuba umntu uzivumela kangakanani ukubanjwa kukungavisisani.).

INkululeko Enkulu-Esona Sidanga siphezulu soBugcisa

Kule nkalo, sakhuliswa ngendlela echaseneyo noxolo lwangaphakathi. Akukho mntu usifundise indlela yokumiswa ngokusisigxina kwimeko yoxolo lwangaphakathi. Kunokuba siphile ubomi obukhululekileyo ngokomoya, safundiswa ukuba sisebenze ngokugqithiseleyo kwiingqondo zethu zokuzingca. Ukubonakaliswa kwemvisiswano ehlala ixesha elide, uvuyo kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into eyonwabileyo yiyona nto inkulu ngaphakathi kwenkqubo yokuvusa ngokomoya. Kwaye ngokuchanekileyo le meko sifuna ukuphikiswa, yingakho umoya wethu ujongene ngokuphindaphindiweyo nolwazi olumnyama olungaphandle. Kuba xa sele sigxininiswe ngokusisigxina kwimeko yoxolo lwangaphakathi, sibeke isiseko sehlabathi elisekwe kwimpiliso yokwenyani (njengangaphakathi, nangaphandle). Kwaye ngeli xesha langoku lokuvuka, siyabizwa ngokupheleleyo ukuba sicoce zonke iingxabano zethu zangaphakathi ezisithwalisa umthwalo. Umgangatho wamandla uwonke uphezulu kangangokuba iisistim zethu zigungxulwe ngokupheleleyo. Zonke iingxabano, iingcamango, kunye neengcinga ezibangela ukuba sibandezeleke ngokuphindaphindiweyo (ngendlela – kubuhlungu kum Usizi - kubuhlungu kum) okanye ndikhalaze (ukuhlawula ngobunzima - Khalaza), ufuna ukukhululwa. Kule meko, sibandezeleka kuphela ngenxa yethu.Sikuphela kwesizathu sokuba sisoloko sizivumela ukuba sisuswe kwimeko yokulungelelanisa. Njengabadali ngokwethu, nangona kunjalo, sinoxanduva ikakhulu kwiimbono esingena kuzo yonke imihla. Ngoko ke kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuba sifunde ukulawula okanye ukuyeka intsimi yethu yengqondo. Esikhundleni sokulahleka kwiingcamango ezinomthwalo, siqala ukuhlala ngoku kwaye siyeke zonke iingcamango ezinomthwalo. Kwaye emva kwawo wonke amasimi amnyama okanye anzima, imeko yokwenene yeparadesi ibonakalisiwe. Ngoko ke kuxhomekeke kuthi ukuvuselela i-master state okanye ukumisa esi sidanga singcwele kwakhona inyathelo ngenyathelo. Endaweni yokukhalaza, ukucaphuka, ukuzibeka kwimeko yokungavisisani, kubalulekile ekuphilisweni kwentsimi yethu ukufunda kwakhona indlela yokuba seluxolweni ngokungaguqukiyo. Yaye ngamnye wethu unelungelo lokwenjenjalo. Ngendlela efanayo, wonke umntu unamandla asisiseko okuziva onwabile ngalo lonke ixesha. Ke masiphinde siwavuse loo mandla kwaye sizikhulule ngokupheleleyo ezethu iingqondo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo. 🙂