Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantu abaninzi bakhathazwa zizigulo ezahlukahlukeneyo. Oku akubhekiseli kwizigulo zomzimba kuphela, kodwa ikakhulu kwizigulo zengqondo. Inkqubo ekhoyo ngoku ye-sham yenzelwe ngendlela ekhuthaza ukuphuhliswa kwezifo ezahlukeneyo. Kakade ke, ekupheleni kosuku thina bantu sinoxanduva loko sijamelana nako kunye namashwa amahle okanye amabi, uvuyo okanye usizi luzalwa ezingqondweni zethu. Inkqubo ixhasa kuphela-umzekelo ngokusasaza uloyiko, ukuvalelwa kwintsebenzo ejolise ekusebenzeni kwaye kuyingozi. inkqubo yomsebenzi okanye ngokuqulatha ulwazi olubalulekileyo ("i-disinformation-scattering" system), inkqubo yokuzitshabalalisa (inkcazo yengqondo yethu ye-EGO).

Ukubeka ityala kunye nokuzihlaziya

Nangona kunjalo, umntu akanakugxeka inkqubo okanye abanye abantu ngokubandezeleka kwakhe (ewe, kukho iimeko, umzekelo, umntwana okhulela kwindawo yemfazwe - kodwa andibhekiseli kuloo nto ngesi sicatshulwa), kuba thina bantu sizenzele. uxanduva ngemeko zabo. Siyindalo ngokwayo (umthombo, ingqondo enengqondo engapheliyo) kwaye imele indawo apho yonke into eyenzekayo (yonke into iyimveliso yengqondo yethu). Ngenxa yoko, nathi bantu sinoxanduva lokubandezeleka kwethu. Nokuba ngumhlaza (ngokuqinisekileyo kukho iimeko ezinxaxhileyo apha ngokunjalo, umzekelo ukuba ukunyibilika okungundoqo kwenzeka kwindawo ekufuphi yamandla enyukliya kwaye ungcoliseke kakhulu - ngokuqinisekileyo amava ale meko anokuba yimveliso eyeyakho. ingqondo - kodwa imvelaphi iya kuba yahluke ngokupheleleyo), okanye izimo zengqondo ezonakalisayo, iinkolelo kunye neenkolelo, yonke into ivela kwingqondo yethu kwaye sinoxanduva lwempilo yethu. Ityala ke ngoko aliyindawo ngokupheleleyo. Ekuqaleni kokuziphilisa kukabani, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba abanye abanakubekwa tyala ngentlungu yakhe. Ukuba, umzekelo, sizifumana sikwintsebenziswano enesiphene kakhulu kwaye sifumana ukubandezeleka okukhulu kuyo, ngoko kuya kuthi ukuba siyazikhulula kuyo okanye akunjalo (ngokuqinisekileyo oku akusoloko kulula, kodwa usenokunceda. iqabane lakho, ubomi okanye ungamsoli umntu ekucingelwa ukuba unguThixo ngemeko ehlala ihleli). Ukubeka ityala akusiqhubeli phambili kwaye kuthintela ukuziphilisa okusebenzayo.

Ukunyanga izigulo zikabani akwenzeki ngokujongela phantsi amandla ethu okudala size sibeke ityala kwabanye abantu. Ekupheleni kosuku, sicinezela nje amandla ethu. Asikwazi ukucinga ngobomi bethu kwaye siyicinezele into yokuba thina ngokwethu singunobangela wokubandezeleka..!!

"Simele" ngoko siqaphele ekuqaleni ukuba thina ngokwethu sinoxanduva lokubandezeleka kwethu, ukuba ukubandezeleka kwethu kubangelwa zonke izigqibo zethu kwaye kuye kwaba yinyani ngenxa yengcinga eyonakalisayo. Imbono ke ngoko kufuneka ingasajoliswa ngaphandle (ekhomba abanye ngeminwe) kodwa ngaphakathi. Kuyimfuneko ke ngoko ukuthatha amanyathelo anokutshintsha indlela esiphila ngayo.

Kubaluleke kakhulu - ukutshintsha ulungelelwaniso lwemeko yakho yokuqonda

Ekubeni zonke iingxabano zethu zangaphakathi zimele imiba yobunyani bethu kwaye ngenxa yoko zavela ezingqondweni zethu, akubalulekanga nje ukuqonda ezi ngxabano, kodwa nokuguqula iimeko zethu ebomini ukuze sibonakalise ulonwabo ebomini. Ngokubhekiselele koku, akukho fomula ngokubanzi esinokuphinda sityhile ulonwabo lwethu ebomini kwakhona, kodwa kuya kufuneka uzifumanele ngokwakho oko. Akukho mntu ukwazi ngaphezu kwakho.Ngenxa yesi sizathu, thina bantu kuphela esaziyo ukuba kutheni sibandezeleka (ubuncinci ngokuqhelekileyo - iingxabano ezicinezelekileyo esingaziqondiyo zihlukile, yiyo loo nto ingalunganga, uncedo oluvela ngaphandle umntu, - umzekelo a IiNyango zomphefumlo, ukufumana. Ngale ndlela, ukubandezeleka komntu kunokuphononongwa kunye. Ngendlela efanayo, sikwayayazi eyona nto isilungeleyo kwaye yintoni emi endleleni yolonwabo lwethu ebomini. Ukusebenza ngaphakathi kwezakhiwo zangoku ke ligama eliphambili. Ubomi bomntu bunokutshintshwa kuphela apha kwaye ngoku, kungekhona ngomso okanye emva kwangomso, kodwa ngoku (okwenzekayo ngomso kuya kwenzeka ngoku), ngexesha elilodwa elihlala likho, elikhoyo kwaye liya kunika. . Kulo mongo, uhlengahlengiso lwengqondo yomntu lunokubaluleka ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Kufuneka utshintshe ukucinga kwakho kwaye oko kwenzeka ngokuqala ukutshintsha iimeko ezincinci. Umzekelo, ukuba ucinezelekile kwaye awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na, kufuneka uqale uqalise utshintsho oluncinci. Kuba ukuba ulinda nje ungenzi nto, uya kuhlala ukwimo yengqondo efanayo yonke imihla. Nokuba kunzima ukuzitsalela ndawonye, ​​inyathelo lokuqala linokusebenza imimangaliso.

Nokuba ubomi bakho bunokubonakala bubi kangakanani na, kufuneka uqonde ukuba bunokuzala ulonwabo nolonwabo. Nokuba kunokuba nzima ekuqaleni, kodwa umzekelo, utshintsho oluncinci oluqalayo lunokukhokelela kwimeko entsha ngokupheleleyo ebomini..!!

Umzekelo, ukuba ndikwinqanaba elinje kwaye ndiqonde ukuba kukho into endifuna ukuyitshintsha ngokukhawuleza, ndiye ndiqalise ukubaleka, umzekelo. Ewe, ukubaleka kokuqala kuyadinisa kakhulu kwaye andifiki kude kakhulu. Kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto. Ekugqibeleni, la mava amatsha, eli nyathelo lokuqala, litshintsha eyam indlela yokucinga kwaye emva koko ujonge izinto ukusuka kwimeko eyahlukileyo yokuqonda.

Yakha iziseko ngokuzoyisa ngokwakho

Umntu ke uzingca ngokuzoyisa kwakhe. Yile ndlela kanye umntu avakalelwa ngayo ukunyuka kwamandla akhe kwaye ngokukhawuleza atsale amandla obomi obutsha. Kum, isiphumo sikhulu kwaye emva koko ndonwabe kakhulu kunangaphambili. Ngokuqinisekileyo, zininzi iindlela ongakhetha kuzo onokuzisebenzisa. Ke ungatya ngcono kancinci okanye uye kwindalo. Kuya kufuneka wenze nje into oyaziyo ukuba iya kuncedakala emzimbeni nasengqondweni, oko kukuthi, into elawula ingqondo yakho. Kufanele ukuba ibe yinto oyaziyo ukuba ilungile kuwe, kodwa kunzima ukuyiphumeza, into efuna ukuzeyisa. Isenokuvakala ngathi iyaphambana, kodwa inyathelo elinjalo linokukhokelela ubomi bakho kwicala elitsha ngokupheleleyo. Ubomi obutsha ngokupheleleyo, obonwabileyo bebunokuvela kumava ahambelanayo ngonyaka. Kakade ke, wonke umntu unezakhe iingcamango neendlela ezinokunceda. Ngendlela efanayo, into endisebenzelayo ayizukusebenzela wonke umntu, kuba sonke sineengxabano zangaphakathi ezahlukeneyo kunye nemibono eyahlukileyo malunga nokuba yintoni inzuzo kuthi. Umntu oye waxhatshazwa njengomntwana kwaye ngenxa yoko unokubandezeleka okukhulu kwengqondo kamva ebomini ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kufuneka aqhubeke ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Kulungile ke, kungenjalo umntu ngokuqinisekileyo - nokuba kunzima ukulawula - aqalise utshintsho olukhulu kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu unongquzulwano olukhulu lwangaphakathi ngenxa yomsebenzi onzima yaye uyabandezeleka ngenxa yawo, ufanele acinge ngokuwuyeka loo msebenzi. Ewe, oku kwenziwa nzima kakhulu kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kwaye uloyiko olukhoyo luya kuvela ngokuthe ngqo (ndiza kuyihlawula njani irenti yam, ndiza kuyondla njani intsapho yam, ndiza kwenza ntoni ngaphandle komsebenzi wam). Kodwa ukuba thina ngokwethu siyabandezeleka kwaye sitshabalale ngenxa yoko, ngoko akukho ndlela yimbi, ke le meko engathandekiyo kufuneka ilungiswe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi indleko. Kungenjalo ekugqibeleni besiya kutshabalala kuyo.

Ukuchasana kwangaphakathi kuyakusihlukanisa nabanye abantu, kuwe, kwihlabathi elikungqongileyo. Yandisa ingqiqo yokwahlula apho ukusinda kwe-ego kuxhomekeke kuyo. Okona ukomelela kwakho imvakalelo yokwahlula, kokukhona unamathela ngakumbi kumboniso, kwihlabathi lemo. -Eckhart Tolle..!!

Ukuba kuyimfuneko, unokwandula ke wenze ucwangciso uze ucinge kusengaphambili ngendlela izinto eziya kuqhubeka ngayo okanye indlela enokuthatyathelwa phambili ngayo ubomi. Nangona kunjalo, eli nyathelo kufuneka lithathwe, ubuncinci kumzekelo okhankanywe. Ekugqibeleni, oko kuya kusizuzisa kakhulu xa sicinga ngasemva, kwaye sinokuzihlaziya ngokupheleleyo iingqondo zethu emva kwalo lonke eli xesha. Kungenjalo, zininzi ezinye iindlela esinokucombulula ngazo iingxabano zethu zangaphakathi. Umzekelo, ngokujonga ngakumbi emva kweziganeko zobomi kunye nokuvuma ukuba singabantu abajongene nokuhlukana. Siziva sinqanyulwe kwindalo ngokubandezeleka kwethu kwaye asisaziva sinxibelelana nayo yonke into ekhoyo. Nangona kunjalo, umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba thina njengabantu bomoya asixhunyiwe kuphela kuyo yonke into ekhoyo, kodwa sisebenzisana nayo yonke into ekusebenzisaneni rhoqo.

Ukuba uyasokola kungenxa yakho, ukuba wonwabile kungenxa yakho, ukuba uziva wonwabile kungenxa yakho. Akukho mntu unoxanduva ngendlela oziva ngayo ngaphandle kwakho, nguwe wedwa. Usisihogo nezulu ngaxeshanye. – Ewe..!!

Ukubandezeleka kwethu ke ngoko kufuneka kuqondwe nje ngokuba "ukudibanisa" okwethutyana kokukhanya kwethu kwangaphakathi, ubuThixo bethu kunye nokungafani kwethu. Asizizo izidalwa ezingabalulekanga, kodwa iindalo ezikhethekileyo nezinomdla ezinokuthi zibe nempembelelo enkulu kwimo edibeneyo yokuqonda kunye nokuhlamba ekukhanyeni komhlaba wokuqala. Oko kukhanya kunokubuyela kuloo nto, nanini na, naphi na. Iyabanjwa kwaye ibonakaliswe nguMoya wethu onguMdali (ngokuguqula ubomi bethu). Ngoko ke, uthando yimeko yokuqonda, amaxesha amaninzi esinokuthi sivakalelwe ngawo. Nabani na okwaziyo ukuguqula ngokupheleleyo imbono yakhe yehlabathi, ophinde afumane ulwazi oluphangaleleyo malunga nobomi bakhe aze afumane nombono omtsha ngobomi, unokukuqonda ukubandezeleka kwakhe okanye akucoce.

Awusoze uzise utshintsho ngokulwa nemeko ekhoyo. Ukuze utshintshe into, udala izinto ezintsha okanye uthathe ezinye iindlela ezenza izinto ezindala zingabikho. -Richard Buckminster Fuller..!!

Zininzi iindlela onokuzinceda ngazo. Kodwa yeyiphi eyona isebenzayo, kufuneka sizifumanele ngokwethu. Ekupheleni kosuku, kukho indlela ekhokelela ekuhlanjululweni kokubandezeleka kwethu kwaye eyethu. "Kufuneka" sifunde ukuqonda nokuqonda ubomi bethu, iingxabano zethu, inyaniso yethu yobuqu kunye nezisombululo zethu. Kulungile ke, kwinxalenye yesibini yolu ngcelele ndiza kungena kwizisombululo ezingaphezulu kwaye ndibonise izinto ezisixhenxe ezinokuthi zixhase inkqubo yethu yokuphilisa. Ndiza kuvavanya zonke ezi zinto zinokwenzeka, njengokutya kwethu, ngokweenkcukacha ezinkulu. Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.

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