Kweli xesha liphezulu, abantu abaninzi ngakumbi badibana namaqabane abo omphefumlo okanye baqaphele amaqabane abo omphefumlo, abathe badibana nabo ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngenxa yokuzalwa okungenakubalwa. Kwelinye icala, abantu baphinda badibane nomphefumlo wabo kabini, inkqubo entsonkothileyo edla ngokunxulunyaniswa nokubandezeleka okukhulu, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ke badibana nomphefumlo wabo wewele. Ndichaza umahluko phakathi konxibelelwano lwemiphefumlo emibini ngokweenkcukacha kweli nqaku: “Kutheni imiphefumlo emibini kunye nemiphefumlo engamawele ayifani (inkqubo yomphefumlo wesibini - iqabane lomphefumlo wenyaniso)". Nangona kunjalo, yinkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini ebangela usizi olukhulu kubantu abaninzi kwaye ihlala isikhokelela ekubeni sihambe kwisigaba sobomi boxinzelelo olunzulu kunye nentliziyo ebuhlungu.
Konke malunga nenkqubo yakho yangaphakathi yokuphilisa
Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba inkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini yinkqubo ekugqibeleni enoxanduva lokudibana neqabane lomphefumlo ohamba nalo ngezona zihlandlo ziqaqambileyo + ezimnyama ukuze ukwazi ukuba nolwalamano olumiselwe ukuhlala lusekelwe kula mava. Kodwa eneneni, izinto zihlala zikhangeleka zahluke ngokupheleleyo ngomphefumlo ombini. Inkqubo yomphefumlo ombini akukho ndlela malunga nokuchitha ubomi bakho bonke kunye nomntu ohambelanayo, nokuba kunzima ukuyiqonda, ngakumbi emva kokwahlukana. Ekugqibeleni, le nkqubo imalunga nenkqubo yakho yangaphakathi yokuphilisa. Kumalunga nokukwazi ukubuyisela ukulungelelana kwengqondo, imvakalelo kunye nomzimba, ukufumanisa uthando lwakho kwakhona kwaye uzuze ukukhula ngokomoya. Ukudityaniswa okupheleleyo kwamalungu angamadoda nabasetyhini okona kubaluleke kakhulu ekugqibeleni kwimpiliso yethu yangaphakathi. Kuphela ukuba ungayenza kwakhona kulo mxholo ukukhululaUkuba uyakwazi ukuphila ubomi ngaphandle komphefumlo ombini, ukuba uyayilawula inkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini kwaye wonwabe ngokupheleleyo kwakhona, utsala imiba yobomi bakho obumiselwe yona ekupheleni kosuku.
Inkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini ayikho malunga nentsebenziswano ekufuneka igcinwe de kube sekupheleni kobomi, kodwa kunoko ngakumbi malunga nokufumana uthando lwakho, ukubuyisela amandla omoya ngokusekelwe kumava amaninzi kunye nokwenza inkqubela kwinkqubo yakho yokuvuthwa ngokomoya. .!!
Iimeko/iimeko zobomi ezihambelana nemeko yakho yengqondo esandula ukuyifumana, zivela kwintlungu yakho. Ukudibana nomphefumlo ombini ke ngoko kufanele kujongwe njengoluhlobo lwamava olwaluyimfuneko ngokuyintloko ekukhuleni kwakhe ngokwasengqondweni nangokomoya. Intsebenziswano yomphefumlo okanye iqabane lomphefumlo elalisebenza njengomfundisi-ntsapho. Isibuko esakubonisa onke amanxeba akho engqondo. Ukuba ungathanda ukufumana ingqiqo eneenkcukacha ngakumbi kwisihloko semiphefumlo emibini, ndingacebisa kuphela ividiyo kaMartin Uhlemann edityaniswe ngezantsi. Apho uchaza ngokuthe ngqo ukuba kutheni inkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini imalunga nokungazithandi kwakho kwaye kutheni ukuphiliswa, ngakumbi emva kokwahlukana, kungenzeki ngeqabane "elilahlekileyo", kodwa kuphela ngawe. wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi Ukuphila imvisiswano. 🙂
Uyafuna ukusixhasa? Emva koko cofa APHA
