Wonke umntu ungumdali onomtsalane wobunyani bakhe, umyili wobomi bakhe, onokuthi enze ukuzimisela ngoncedo lweengcinga zakhe kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, ubumba ikamva lakhe. Ngesi sizathu, akufuneki sixhomekeke kulo naliphi na ikamva elicingelwayo okanye "into eyenzeka ngengozi", ngokuchaseneyo, kuba yonke into eyenzekayo ngeenxa zonke kuthi, zonke izenzo zethu kunye namava ethu ayimveliso yomoya wethu wokudala.Ekugqibeleni, ke, sinokuzikhethela ngokwethu ukuba sijonga ubomi okanye izinto ezenzeka ebomini bethu ukusuka kwimeko entle okanye engalunganga yokuqonda (singazikhethela ngokwethu ukuba sineengcinga ezilungileyo / amandla okukhanya okanye iingcinga ezingalunganga / sisemthethweni /ukuvelisa amandla anzima engqondweni yomntu).

Inkqubo ezinzileyo/ezizenzekelayo

Noko ke, kule nkalo, abantu abaninzi batyekele ekujongeni izinto ezithile ebomini babo ngeliso elibi. Kwelinye icala, le nto inokuthi ilandelelwe emva kwenkqubo engalunganga / i-automatisms, ethi yona ibambelele kwi-subconscious yethu kwaye iqhutyelwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwi-mini-consciousness yethu ngamaxesha athile ebomini bethu. Ukususela ekuqaleni ebomini bethu siqeqeshelwe ukujonga izinto ezininzi ngeliso elibi. Ngokuyinxenye siye safunda ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo, umzekelo, ukugweba ubomi babanye abantu, ukuba sizijongele phantsi okanye sizikhabe ngokuthe ngqo izinto ezibonakala zingaqhelekanga ngokupheleleyo kuthi kwaye azihambelani nembono yethu yehlabathi enemeko. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, sihlala sihlala siqwalasela imiba engalunganga yesiganeko. Sihlala sibona ububi kwizinto ezininzi kwaye silahlekelwe amandla okuqwalasela iinkalo ezintle zento ethile. Umzekelo, ndakha ndenza ividiyo kwindawo enkulu yangaphandle, apho ndenza ifilosofi malunga nezihloko ezahlukeneyo. Ngokusisiseko, imbonakalo-mhlaba eyayindingqongile yayintle, kuphela isibonda sombane esikhulu esasihombise ngasemva. Uninzi lwabantu ababebukele ividiyo yam babeyithanda indalo kwaye batsho nendlela entle ngayo. Aba bantu babona nje imeko-bume ukusuka kwimeko entle yokuqonda. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwakukho abantu abangenakugxila kubuhle bendalo kwaye endaweni yoko bagxininise kwi-pole yamandla kwaye ngenxa yoko babona izinto ezimbi kumfanekiso opheleleyo.

Ihlala ixhomekeke kumntu ngamnye ngokwakhe ukuba ujonga into ethile kwingqondo engalunganga okanye kwingqondo eyakhayo..!!

Ekugqibeleni, kukho intaphane yemizekelo enjalo. Umzekelo, ukuba ufunda inqaku ongalithandiyo okanye ubukele ividiyo ongayithandiyo kwaphela, unokujonga yonke into ngokwembono engalunganga kwaye ugxile kuyo yonke into ongayithandiyo. + ngokwakho ungene kuyo, okanye ujonge yonke into ngokwembono elungileyo kwaye uzixelele ukuba awuyithandi le vidiyo ngokwakho, kodwa isazisa uvuyo kwabanye abantu.

Ukuqaphela kunye nokuphelisa i-orientation yakho engalunganga

Ekupheleni kosuku konke kuxhomekeke kukulungelelaniswa kwemeko yethu yengqondo. Ukongeza, imiba engathandekiyo umntu ayibona ngoko nangoko kwezinye izinto/kwiimeko nje (ubuncinane xa le mbono imbi ikwanxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo ezinamandla) ibonisa ubume bomntu obungaphakathi. Iimbono ezinjalo zinokubonisa ukunganeliseki kukabani okanye ezinye iinkalo ezingathandekiyo. Oku kunokulandwa kwakhona kumgaqo wembalelwano (umthetho jikelele). Ihlabathi elingaphandle liyimbonakaliso nje yemo yomntu yangaphakathi yaye ngokuphambeneyo. Kule nkalo, ndandidla ngokutyekela ekujongeni izinto ezithile ngeliso elibi. Ngokukodwa, ndiqaphele oku kwixesha elidlulileyo ngexesha leentsuku ze-portal. Iintsuku zePortal, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, iintsuku ezaxelwa kwangaphambili ngamaMaya xa ukwanda kwemitha yendalo yonke kufikelele kuthi bantu, nto leyo enokuthi ivuselele iipatheni zokucinga ezivaliweyo, ungquzulwano lwangaphakathi kunye nezinye iinkqubo kuthi. Ngesi sizathu, bendihlala ndijonge kwezi ntsuku kwimbono engalunganga kwaye ndicinge kwangaphambili ukuba ezi ntsuku ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kuba zizidubedube kwaye zigxeke indalo. Noko ke, okwangoku ndiye ndaphawula ukucinga kwam okutshabalalisayo kulo mbandela. Ndiye ndazibuza ukuba kutheni ndihlala ndijonge le mihla ukusuka kwimeko engalunganga yokuqonda kwaye ndicinge kwangaphambili ukuba kunokubakho iingxabano kule mihla, umzekelo. Ngenxa yoko, ndatshintsha indlela yam yokucinga malunga nezo ntsuku kwaye ndikhangele phambili kwiiNtsuku zePortal (nokuba zizivunguvungu kwindalo) ukususela ngoko. Ngoku ndicinga kum ukuba ezi ntsuku ziya kuqalisa uphuhliso olukhulu ngokwemeko edibeneyo yokuqonda kwaye ziluncedo kakhulu kwimpumelelo yethu yengqondo + yokomoya. Yiloo ndlela kanye endicinga ngayo kum ukuba ezi ntsuku akusafuneki ukuba zibe zendalo enzulu kwaye zikwazi ukulawulwa, nokuba ezi ntsuku zibalulekile, sihlala sinenzuzo elungileyo esilungele.

Ubugcisa ebomini kukubona eyakho ingqondo elungelelaniswe kakubi ukuze ukwazi ukuqalisa ukuchithwa/uhlengahlengiso lwengqondo yakho..!!

Ngaphandle koko, into ethile ekhethekileyo iye yabonakala iphuma kuyo, eyile yokuba eyam impixano yengqondo malunga neentsuku ze-portal yasonjululwa ngale ndlela intsha yokuyijonga. Ngesi sizathu, ndinokunicebisa nonke ukuba nisoloko ninikela ingqalelo kumgangatho weengcinga zenu. Ukuba ujonga into ngembono engalunganga, ngokuqinisekileyo oko kulungile, kodwa iqhinga kukuqonda ngezihlandlo ezinje ukuba ujonge into ethile ngokwembono engalunganga kwaye uzibuze ukuba kutheni ucinga nje loo nto. indlela kwaye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into onokuthi uyitshintshe kwakhona (yeyiphi imiba eboniswa kum ngoku). Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.

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