Ukudibana nomphefumlo wewele kunokuvela ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo imeko yokudibana komphefumlo wewele ihamba kunye namandla amangalisayo okutsala. Kungenzeka ukuba ekuqaleni imiphefumlo engamawele ivakalelwa ngokugqithisileyo yothando. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba inxalenye enye igutyungelwe ngokupheleleyo yimvakalelo yakhe (ngokuqhelekileyo umntu wentliziyo), ngelixa umntu onengqondo echasa uthando lwakhe lomphefumlo kwaye akaqapheli. Nangona kunjalo, ukudibana kuyingozi kwaye ukuhlangana kunye kuya kuqaliswa ngaphandle kweemeko ezahlukeneyo. Xa udibana nomphefumlo wamawele kubomi bokwenyani, ubona eyakho imbonakalo phambi kwakho, ujongana nezakho iinxalenye zeemvakalelo ezilahlekileyo kwaye uqonde imiba kwenye oziphosileyo. Umzekelo, umntu onengqondo ujongene namandla akhe obufazi alahlekileyo, ukufumanisa kunzima ukutyhila iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye kubonakala ngathi kubanda / ukude, ngelixa umntu wentliziyo ephila ngokuphandle iimvakalelo zakhe, unika uthando kodwa kwangaxeshanye ujongene nayo. amandla akhe obudoda alahlekileyo. Uvuleleke kwiimvakalelo zakhe, uyaziphila, kodwa kwelinye icala akanako ukuzibamba kwaye ke ngokufuthi ubonakala ebuthathaka kwaye esengozini kakhulu. Imiphefumlo emibini ayidibani kubomi obunye kuphela. Ukudibana kwemiphefumlo emibini idla ngokuthatha indawo eninzi yokuzalwa. Ngenxa yomtsalane womphefumlo wamawele, umntu udibana newele lomphefumlo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, aphinde azane kwakhona, ahlangane xa kuyimfuneko kwaye aqhubeke nokuphuhlisa ngokwengqondo / ngokweemvakalelo. Kuphela kumzimba wokugqibela apho ukuhlanganiswa kwawo onke amalungu engqondo kwenzeka. Inkqubo yokuphilisa imiphefumlo engamawele igqityiwe kwaye umdlalo wezinto ezimbini zoyiswa. Ubudlelwane bomphefumlo womphefumlo buhlala buhamba kunye nokubandezeleka okukhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka emva kwexesha elifutshane ukuba imiphefumlo yomibini ijongene necala layo elimnyama.

Ukudityaniswa kwamalungu omphefumlo wamadoda nabasetyhini..!!

Ziindawo zengqondo ezithwalwa ngumntu wonke ngaphakathi kuzo. Iinkalo esiye sazicinezela kwindlela yobomi ukuze sizikhusele. Ngokubhekiselele kumalungu abesilisa nabasetyhini, kufuneka kuthiwe kwihlabathi lethu elinobumbini kubalulekile ukuzisa zombini iindawo kwindawo elinganayo (yin / yang). Kuphela kuxa sikwazi ukudibanisa omabini amalungu kuthi kwakhona apho siya kuthi sikwazi ukoyisa ubumbini. Kumakroza emiphefumlo emibini ke ngoko kuhlala kunjalo ukuba umphefumlo omnye usebenza ngokuyintloko ngaphandle kwamandla amabhinqa kwaye omnye umphefumlo ikakhulu uhlala kumandla obudoda. Ukuze ugqibelele, nangona kunjalo, kunyanzelekile ukuba uwadibanise ngokupheleleyo omabini amalungu ubuyele kuwe.

Inkqubo yomphefumlo wamawele kunye nomlingo wayo!

Ngesi sizathu, inkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini yinkqubo yomlingo ekugqibeleni enoxanduva lokuphiliswa kokomoya kunye nokuba uphelele. Inkqubo yemiphefumlo emibini ilandela i-dynamics ekhethekileyo yayo, ehlala iquka iipateni ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Kulo mongo, kubonakala ngathi kwi-soulmate ubudlelwane kukho umntu onentliziyo ehlala ngokupheleleyo kumandla amabhinqa (ubukhulu becala abafazi), oko kukuthi, unokusingatha uthando kunye neemvakalelo ngokumangalisayo, ngelixa elinye iqabane lihlala kumandla wesilisa (uninzi lwamadoda) basebenza kakhulu ezingqondweni zabo kodwa abakho kakuhle kakhulu ekulawuleni iimvakalelo zabo. Umntu wentliziyo uhlala enika umphefumlo wakhe iwele uthando lwakhe, ukhona kuye kakhulu, uyamkhathalela, umnike ingqalelo kwaye uhlala elangazelela uthando lwakhe. Noko ke, ngokwenza oko, umntu wentliziyo ujongela phantsi amalungu akhe obudoda yaye akaqiniseki. Udla ngokuzithoba kumntu okrelekrele aze azivumele ukuba alawulwe nguye ngokweemvakalelo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ibhalansi yamandla kukuba umntu wentliziyo uhlala enxibelelana nemeko ephantsi kakhulu. Indoda enengqiqo, nayo, isoloko isilwa namalungu ayo omfazi. Akafane aveze iimvakalelo zakhe, uyazicingela, uthanda ukuhlala elawula iqabane lakhe lomphefumlo kwaye ukhetha ukuhlala kwindawo yakhe ekhuselekileyo, enengqondo. Kwakhona ngokuqhelekileyo uhlalutya kakhulu kwaye uthatha uthando lweqabane lomphefumlo wakhe njengento elula. Uhlala engaluxabisi uthando lomlingane wakhe kwaye uhlala esenza izinto ezigxekayo. Ufumana kunzima ukuvula iimvakalelo zakhe ngenxa yokulimala kwangaphambili kunye nokubanjwa kwekarmic, kwaye njengoko ubudlelwane buqhubeka, ubonakala ekude kwaye ebanda. Le meko ikhokelela ekubeni umntu oyingqondi uya kubaleka kwaye atyhale umphefumlo wakhe wewele ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Wenza oku ukuze ahlale elawula, kungekhona ukuba abe sesichengeni. Ekubeni phantse angaze ajamelane neemvakalelo zakhe kwaye ekhetha ukuhlala kwindawo yakhe yokuthuthuzela, engaze ajongane neemvakalelo zakhe, ngokuqhelekileyo iba ngumntu wentliziyo oqalayo ukunyathela indlela yokuchacha. Umntu onentliziyo ufuna kuphela ukuphila uthando oluhle lomphefumlo wakhe wewele, kodwa uyazivumela ukuba ahlukunyezwe ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngumntu onengqondo kwaye ngaloo ndlela ufumana imvakalelo yobulolo. Uhlala esazi ukuba ngaphakathi entliziyweni yakhe iqabane lomphefumlo lithanda ngaphezu kwayo nantoni na, kodwa uya ethandabuza ukuba uya kuze abonise. Yonke ke le meko isiya isiba mbi de umntu wentliziyo aqonde ukuba izinto azinakuqhubeka ngolu hlobo kwaye inye kuphela into anokuyenza ukuze aphelise oku kubandezeleka yaye kukuyeka.

Umntu wentliziyo udla ngokuqalisa impumelelo kwinkqubo yomphefumlo wamawele..!!

Akasafuni ukulinda uthando lomlingane wakhe, akasakwazi ukwamkela ukugatywa rhoqo kunye nokulimala komphefumlo wakhe. Emva koko uyaqonda ukuba akazange aphile amalungu akhe endoda kwaye ngoku uqala ukudibanisa la malungu abuyele kuye. Ekugqibeleni, umntu onentliziyo uqala ukuzithanda, uzithemba ngakumbi aze afunde ukuzifundisa ukuba angazithengisi ngexabiso eliphantsi. Ngoku uyayazi eyona nto imfaneleyo kwaye ngoku unokuthi hayi kwizinto ezingezizo ezona zinto zibalulekileyo kuye aze ngaloo ndlela aqalise ukuguqula amandla. Olu tshintsho lwangaphakathi lukhokelela ekubeni umntu wentliziyo akakwazi ukuqhubeka ngolu hlobo kwaye amshiye umntu onengqondo, ukwahlukana kuyaqalwa. Eli nyathelo libaluleke kakhulu kwaye linyusa inkqubo ye-soulmate ukuya kwinqanaba elitsha.

Ukuphumelela kwinkqubo yomphefumlo wamawele

Ngokukhawuleza ukuba intliziyo yomntu ishiya umntu onengqiqo, ingena ekuzithandeni kwaye ingasayi kumhlawula nayiphi na ingqalelo, ingasayi kumnika nayiphi na amandla, umntu onengqondo uyavuka kwaye ekugqibeleni kufuneka abhekane neemvakalelo zakhe. Uvele aqonde ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumntu ebemthanda ngentliziyo yakhe yonke. Ngeyona ndlela ibuhlungu, ngoku uyaqonda ukuba ukutyhalele kude le nto ebesoloko eyilangazelela, kwaye ngoku uzama ngamandla akhe onke ukuphumelela umphefumlo wakhe. Ukuba intliziyo yomntu onengqondo iphumelele ngenxa yesizathu sakhe, ngoku ujongene neemvakalelo zakhe kwaye udibanisa iinxalenye zakhe zesetyhini ngenxa yokuhlukana, ngoko oku kukhokelela ekuphumeleleni kwinkqubo yomphefumlo wamawele. Abantu abaninzi bahlala bekholelwa ukuba inkqubo yomphefumlo wewele iphelile xa bobabini beqaphela umphefumlo wabo wewele baze baphile ngolu thando olunzulu kwintsebenziswano. Kodwa bubuxoki obukhulu obo. Inkqubo yomphefumlo wewele iphelile xa yomibini imiphefumlo ingena ngokupheleleyo ekuzithandeni kwaye ikhule ngaphaya kwayo ngenxa yamava anzulu kakhulu. Emva koko xa bobabini bephinda badibanisa iindawo zabo zengqondo ezilahlekileyo ngaphambili kwaye ngaloo ndlela baphelise inkqubo yangaphakathi yokuphilisa. Ekuqaleni, la mava amatsha anokuba buhlungu kakhulu. Ngokukodwa umntu onengqondo wenza kakubi kakhulu emva kokuhlukana okanye xa intliziyo yomntu iyancipha ngamandla. Akuzange kufuneke ajamelane neemvakalelo zakhe, akazange ajamelane noloyiko lwakhe lokulahlekelwa yaye ngaloo ndlela udliwa bubuthongo obunzulu ngephanyazo nje elinye. Umntu wentliziyo oye wafunda ngoku ukukhulula uhlala eyinxalenye ehamba phambili ekuphiliseni. Ngenxa yokulimala okuqhubekayo, kwakungekho enye into enokuyenza ngaphandle kokungena kwinkqubo yokuphilisa kuqala. Ungowokuqala ukufumana utshintsho lwangaphakathi kwaye ngenxa yale meko unokujongana nokwahlukana ngcono kakhulu.

Ixesha elibuhlungu liyaqala..!!

Ngoku uziva ekhululekile kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba uye waba namandla kangakanani kwaye, ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, ubomi obuninzi obudlule kuye ngenxa yobudlelwane obunzima. Kwingqondi kuthetha ukuhlala womelele. Uninzi lwexesha, emva kokuhlukana, ugxininise ngokupheleleyo kumphefumlo wewele kwaye ngokwemvelo ucinga ukuba lo nguye kuphela iqabane elinokwenzeka, ukuba akukho mntu ungomnye onokungena naye kubudlelwane. Ngenxa yoku, eli xesha libuhlungu kakhulu kwaye liqhuba umntu onengqondo ukuba aphelelwe lithemba. Ukudandatheka okunzulu kunokuba ngumphumo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akayi kuphinda aliqonde ihlabathi. Kodwa ngoku lixesha lokuba womelele.

Ixesha emva kunye nenyaniso enkulu

Eli xesha libi kakhulu kumntu onengqondo kwaye kaninzi abaninzi banikezela apha. Abanye abantu banamathele kwiipatheni zabo kangangokuba bathatha ubomi babo ngenxa yokuba banemvakalelo yokuba abanakuze baphume kule nkqubo yokubandezeleka ngenxa yokuba bacinga ukuba kuphela iqabane lomphefumlo liqabane elinokubakho kuphela. Kwelinye icala, kukho abantu ababambelele ekubandezelekeni kwabo kangangamashumi eminyaka yaye abanakuze baluphelise olu lwalamano. Zihlala kwiipateni zazo ezingalunganga kwaye ziphonswa emva kwakhona kwaye kwakhona. Intliziyo yakho ihlala yaphukile ngonaphakade, amandla e-chakra yentliziyo ahlala evaliwe ngokusisigxina kwaye isifo senhliziyo sinokuvela kule ngxabano engasonjululwanga. Sinye kuphela isisombululo apha kwaye kukuyeka uhambe uye kuzithanda wena. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ingqondo enengqondo ihambe kwaye itshintshe isimo sabo sengqondo ngakumntu wabo womphefumlo. Akuncedi nto ukuzivumela ukuba utyiwe zimvakalelo zokuziva unetyala okanye ezinye izinto ezinje, akuncedi nto nje ukuncamathela kumphefumlo wewele, uvele uncame ukuqhubela phambili ebomini kwaye uzithintele ubomi bakho. Xa ukwazi ukuyeka kwaye ubone ubudlelwane bomphefumlo wangaphambili njengamava okufunda, xa uqhubela phambili kwaye uqale ukuphila ubomi obupheleleyo kwakhona, uya kuba ne-100% umvuzo wobomi obuya kuzaliswa ngolonwabo nothando. Kubalulekile ukuyeka, kuba le kuphela kwendlela yokubuyisela ngokupheleleyo uthando lwakho. Yiloo nto ekugqibeleni inkqubo yomphefumlo ombini imalunga nayo. Ayikokuhlala ngokuhlalisana, imalunga nokubuyela ngokupheleleyo ekuzithandeni. Emva kwexesha awusayi kujonga uthando ngaphandle, kodwa uze kuwe kwaye ukwazi ukuzithanda ngokupheleleyo kwakhona. Ukuzithanda ke ngoko yinto ebalulekileyo. Ndithetha ukuthi xa uzithanda kwaye uzixabisa ngokupheleleyo, awuva ubunzima bokwahlukana, ujonge phambili kwaye uqhubele phambili ebomini ngaphandle kwengxaki. Umntu ebengaziva elilolo aze atshone ziingqaqambo mihla le, kodwa ebenokonwaba aze anandiphe ubomi ngenxa yokuzithanda. Xa ufikelela kwesi simo, umntu uya kuphinda eze ebomini bakho, lowo uya kumthanda ngentliziyo yakho yonke. Ikhono lokuphuhlisa olu thando kwakhona luya kuphinda lubuyiselwe kuyo nayiphi na imeko, kwaye ngokusekelwe kumava angaphambili, umntu ngoku ulungele ubudlelwane bokwenene. Ulwalamano olulandelayo luya kukhatshwa luthando olungenakulinganiswa. Ngoku umntu uxhobele ubudlelwane bokwenyani kwaye uya kuluxabisa ngokupheleleyo uthando olo lwalamano.