Ukucocwa komoya kabani kuthetha ukucocwa ngamandla kokuqonda komntu ukuze aphinde acacelwe ngokupheleleyo ukuze abuyisele isiseko sakhe samandla sibuyele esilinganisweni. Ngokusisiseko kuthetha ukukhululwa komzimba, ingqondo nomphefumlo kumandla amnyama, anomthwalo, abangela izifo abambelele ngokunzulu kwiqokobhe lethu lezinto eziphathekayo. La mandla avala ukuhamba kwethu kwangaphakathi kwaye abangele ukuba ubuyena bethu bangaphakathi bukhutshelwe ngaphandle, amandla agubungela kakhulu umoya wethu.
Zenziwa njani ezi zinto zingcolileyo?
Nakuphi na ukungcoliseka kwengqondo kabani kusoloko kuvela kuqala engqondweni nakwiinkqubo zokucinga. Zonke kwi Ubukho buvela kwiingcamango, yonke into umntu ahlangabezana nayo ebomini, yonke into eyenziwayo kunye nesiganeko ngasinye esifunyenweyo sisiphumo kuphela sezakhiwo zethu zengqondo. Ngesi sizathu, ukwazi kunye neengcinga zikwamela amagunya aphezulu akhoyo. Kuphela ngoncedo lokuqonda kwethu siyakwazi ukufumana izinto kunye nokukwazi ukuziva iimvakalelo. Siyakwazi ukubumba ubomi ngokweminqweno yethu ngokuqonda kwethu (singabadali benyani yethu). Ebomini bomntu wonke, iingcaphephe zeengcinga ezingenakubalwa ziye zaveliswa, ezithi zona zihlaziywe ngeemvakalelo ezakhayo okanye ezingalunganga, zenziwa zibe nokumila. Iingcamango zikwaquka amazwe anamandla anesakhono esikhethekileyo, oko kukuthi, angakwazi ukujiya okanye anciphise. Uxinzelelo olunamandla lubhekisa kuko konke ukungakhathali okusemthethweni kwingqondo yomntu, ngokuchaseneyo, ukususwa koxinaniso ngamandla kubhekiselele kubunyani bomntu (imvisiswano, uxolo, uthando, njl.njl.). Ingqondo ye-egoic inoxanduva lokuvelisa ubuninzi obunamandla kwaye ingqondo yengqondo inoxanduva lokuvelisa ukukhanya okunamandla. Thina bantu sisebenza ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukusuka kwelinye lamazwe okuqonda kwaye sitshintshe inqanaba lethu lokungcangcazela kwakhona kwaye kwakhona. Ngenxa yoko, sizigcina sivaleleke kwiipatheni ezimbini, sahlula izinto zibe zilungileyo nezimbi kwaye zixhomekeke kutshintsho oluqhubekayo lweendlela zokuziphatha ezihambelanayo / ezilungileyo kunye nezingalunganga / ezimbi ezimisela ubomi bethu. Ukungcola okunamandla kuvela ikakhulu ngokudala iingcinga ezingalunganga engqondweni yomntu.
Okukhona siphila ngayo, siyenza ibe semthethweni, kokukhona ithwalisa eyethu inyani, isiphumo yingqondo egqunywe lilifu ehlala ijongene noloyiko, izigulo kunye nezinye izinto ezingalunganga. Ngenxa ye umthetho we-resonance Oku kudala i-spiral eyehlayo kuba amandla ahlala etsala amandla alinganayo kwaye anyuke ngamandla. Ukuba ingqondo yakho ihambelana nenzondo, kuvela intiyo engaphezulu kwaye ngokuphambeneyo, esi sicwangciso sinokunxulumana nazo zonke iimvakalelo. Kolu qeqesho lubi lwengcinga, ikhondo lesenzo liyavela elidala ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezimbi. Ukuba negative ngokubanzi kuyakwenza buthuntu iimvakalelo zakho kwaye kutsale ukugxeka okungaphezulu. Oku akubhekiseli kuphela ekunyukeni, okubi, kwimeko yangaphakathi, kodwa yonke into idluliselwa ngamandla kwihlabathi langaphandle. La mandla athwalisa eyakho ingqondo kwaye akwenze uqhwalele, umphumo ube "yingqondo ethotyiweyo". Uba buvila kwaye usenokungabi nawo amabhongo okwenza imidlalo, nto leyo eyenza kube nzima ukutya ngendlela esempilweni. Usenokungaboni nto kuyo kwaye uvumele obakho ubomi butyibilike. Yonke into inokulandelwa kuphela kumgangatho weengcinga zakho, kuba ukutya okungcolisekileyo ngamandla kusetyenziswa kuphela ngenxa yeengcamango ezihambelanayo malunga nayo. Uxhomekeke kwimikhwa yakho kwaye awunawo amandla / inkuthazo yokuyiphelisa. Ukuba ukwimo enjalo ixesha elide, ulahlekelwa ngakumbi nangakumbi kwimbono ecacileyo yobomi kwaye oko kukuphosa ngokuthe ngcembe.
Zinokususwa njani ezi zinto zingcolisayo?
Ukuze kususwe olu ngcoliseko lunamandla, izinto ezininzi ziyafuneka. Kwelinye icala, kubalulekile ukuba uqale utshintshe isiseko sakho sengqondo. Kuya kufuneka ulawule ukutshintsha eyakho imeko yengqondo kuba awukwazi ukusombulula iingxaki ukusuka kwimeko yokwazi apho uvaleleke khona yonke imihla. Kufuneka utshintshe indlela ojonga ngayo izinto kwaye uzame ukuphinda ugxininise kwizinto ezintle zamava akho angoku. Ukwamkelwa ligama eliphambili apha. Okokuqala, kufuneka wamkele i-negativity oyifumanayo kwaye uqonde ukuba yenzelwe ukuba ibe yile ndlela iyiyo ngalo mzuzu. Kulo mzuzu ukhethekileyo, owandisiweyo ngonaphakade osoloko ukho, ukhoyo kwaye uya kuba njalo, yonke into igqibelele njengoko injalo kwaye ayinakuba ngenye indlela ngoku, kungenjalo iya kwahluka, kungenjalo ubuya kuba namava ento eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. ngoku. Kodwa akunjalo, kufuneka ube nombulelo kuba unokufumana oku kubandezeleka okanye oku kungcoliseka okukuthwalisa nzima. Kufuneka ukwamkele oku kwaye uqonde ukuba la mava abalulekile ukuze ufunde kuwo, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ufumana ithuba lokuphuma ebumnyameni (Ezona zifundo zibalulekileyo ebomini zifundwa ngeentlungu). Emva koko, umntu kufuneka aqonde kwaye aqonde ukuba kufuneka anqobe le mithwalo ebekwe yedwa ngokusebenzisa Ukucwangcisa kwakhona i-subconscious yakho inokunyibilika. I-subconscious yeyona inkulu kwaye kwangaxeshanye eyona nxalenye ifihliweyo yenyani yethu apho zonke iipatheni zokuziphatha ezinemeko kunye neenkqubo zokucinga zimiliselwe/zicwangcisiwe. Aba loliwe bacwangcisiweyo bokucinga bayinxalenye yobomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kwaye sizama ukubaphila kwakhona kwaye kwakhona. Ngenxa yoku, ezi ngcinga zihambelanayo zifika engqondweni yethu kwakhona kwaye kwakhona imini yonke kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi zifunxwa yingqondo yethu. Ngesi sizathu kunyanzelekile ukunyibilika/ukutshintsha ezi ngcinga kwaye ukuphumeza oku kukho izinto ezininzi ezinokwenzeka. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba iingcamango ezinjalo zivela, umntu kufuneka agxininise ngokuthe ngqo kwinkalo eyakhayo kubo. Umzekelo, ingcinga ivela yonke imihla yokuba unokufumana umhlaza kwakamsinyane, kuba zixelele kwangoko ukuba le nto ayinakwenzeka, ukuba usempilweni kwaye wenza konke onako ukukuthintela ukuba kungenzeki.
Uloyiko lwekamva luza kwaye uzixelele ukuba into embi inokwenzeka kungekudala, emva koko ugxininise kwangoku kwaye uzixelele ukuba akunjalo, ukuba yonke into ilungile okwangoku kwaye yeyakho ungayilungisa ikamva. ngokwakho ngendlela eyakhayo, ukuba uthathe ikamva lakho ezandleni zakho kwaye uya kwenza ubomi bakho obungcono. Kukwasebenza okufanayo nasekutshayeni. Into ekhohlisayo malunga nokutshaya nguloliwe oqhelekileyo wengcinga oqhubeka ungena kwingqondo yakho. Ukuba ingcinga yecuba ivela xa uyeka, nto leyo eya kwenzeka rhoqo ekuqaleni, kufuneka uqondise ingqondo yakho kwenye into. Unokuthi ekugqibeleni uyekile kuyo kwaye impilo yakho iphucuka kakhulu. Kodwa kamsinya nje wakuba uzivumela ukuba ucinge ngecuba, okukhona ucinga ngalo, kokukhona usiba namandla umnqweno wakho, kuba njengoko benditshilo, iingcinga ogxile kuzo ekwandeni, yonke into yenzeka de udlulele kuleyo ihambelanayo. iingcinga ngokwenyani yakho usenza isenzo esibonakaliswa kwinqwelomoya ebonakalayo. Ewe, yonke into ifuna amandla amaninzi, kodwa into entle ngayo kukuba amandla akho okuzimisela anamandla okukhula ngokukhawuleza okukhulu kwaye achume kwaye akhule emva kwexesha elifutshane kakhulu. Emva kweveki nje enye, amandla akho omelela omelezwa kakhulu kwaye kulula kakhulu ukujongana nawo, ingqondo yakho iye ilungelelane ngakumbi.
Ziziphi iingenelo zokucoca ingqondo kabani?
Okukhona ubani ecoca ingqondo yakhe, kokukhona ezikhululayo kumandla anzima nangumthwalo, kokukhona ezuza ukucaca ngakumbi. Kuhlala kucingelwa ukuba ukuyeka, umzekelo, kubiza amandla amaninzi kwaye awufumani nzuzo ingako. Kucingelwa ukuba, ngaphandle kokuphucula impilo, awuyi kuzuza ekulahlekeni kwaye uya kuphulukana nomgangatho wobomi obuninzi ekuhambeni kwexesha, kodwa akunjalo, ngokuchaseneyo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha uye ucace ngakumbi kwaye ucace ngakumbi kwaye uve ukuba umzimba, ingqondo kunye nomphefumlo ziya zihambelana njani. Uziva unamandla ngakumbi, unamandla ngakumbi, ukomelela okuthe kratya kukunika amandla angaphakathi, ulungelelana ngakumbi, unokujongana neemeko, iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga ngcono kwaye ufumana amandla okuphila ngakumbi ngoku. Awusabambeki kwikamva elibi okanye iipateni ezidlulileyo kwaye unokwenza okungakumbi ukusuka ngoku. Isakhono somntu sokuyila sinokuphuhliswa ngakumbi kwaye umntu uqala ukuyila inyaniso ekhulayo nevumelanayo. Noko ke, eyona nzuzo inkulu ubani ayizuzayo kukufumana ukucaca kwengqondo. Akukho mvakalelo ingcono kunokuba nje ucace engqondweni. Ukuba uyazi ngakumbi kwaye uziva ukuba ubomi bakho bungena njani na, ufumana iimvakalelo ezingaphaya kokuqonda kwakho, ngamanye amaxesha unokufumana ukonyuswa kokwenyani kolonwabo oluphefumlela umoya wakho. Ngokuthe ngcembe ukhulula isiseko sakho samandla kwaye oko kukukhokelela ekubeni wonwabe ngakumbi, ukuba ume ngakumbi nangakumbi ebomini kwaye unokuziva ngakumbi uvuyo, uthando kunye nolonwabo.
Nokuba ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala ngathi imeko enjalo ikude, ndinokuniqinisekisa ndithi kukugalela nje kwelitye kwenye indawo. Iveki nje enye yokulahlwa ngokupheleleyo, ukucocwa ngokupheleleyo okunamandla kwanele ukuba kucace ngakumbi kwaye kuvisisane ngakumbi. Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
Ndiyavuya ngayo nayiphi na inkxaso ❤
