Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, abantu abaninzi bazabalazela ukuba nemeko yokuqonda emiselwa ngamandla abalulekileyo kunye neempembelelo zokuyila, endaweni yokuba nomoya otyhafileyo kunye neminqweno enganelisekanga. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufumana "ukuqhuba ubomi" kwakhona. Nangona kunjalo, ithuba elinamandla kakhulu lidla ngokungahoywa Nika ingqalelo kuphuhliso lwamandla ethu ngokwesondo.

Indlela amandla esondo achithwa ngayo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje

Kulo mxholo, amandla ethu okwabelana ngesondo ahlala elingana namandla ethu obomi. Amandla okwabelana ngesondo nawo ahlala enxulunyaniswa nomba obalulekileyo obaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yethu. Ngokusisiseko, ndingavumelana ngokupheleleyo noku kumava am kwaye ngoku ndibona amandla ezesondo njengento ebalulekileyo engenakukunceda nje ukuba ufunde ngakumbi ngawe, kodwa inokutyebisa ubomi bakho ngendlela emangalisayo. Apha asithethi kuphela malunga nokusetyenziswa okujoliswe kuyo kwamandla ethu ngokwesondo, kodwa kunye nokunyuka okufanayo. Ngokuphathelele oku, bambi abantu kwihlabathi lanamhlanje abakhathali ngamandla abo ngokwesini. Umzekelo, usoloko ukhangela adventures entsha ngokwesondo kwaye ukonwabela ukuba amaqabane ukutshintsha ngamaxesha amafutshane, okanye uwe lixhoba ukuvuselela ezingenakubalwa, nto leyo ekhoyo kuyo yonke indawo kwihlabathi lanamhlanje (sibona abafazi isiqingatha-ze kuzo zonke iikona) . kunye namadoda, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphandle kwephonografi - ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo - ekhoyo kakhulu kwaye inokufikelela ngokuthe ngqo phantse wonke umntu), imeko apho umntu azenzele "ukuzonwabisa" kwakhe imihla ngemihla.

Ukuncamathela okugxile kwi-Ego kuqheliselo lokomoya akuyongxaki kangako, njengomzekelo, ukubawela ukonwabela ngokwesondo ngokugqithisileyo. –Daisetz Teitaro Suzuki..!!

Kuyavunywa ukuba, ukuba umntu ufuna ukuba namaqabane aguqukayo rhoqo okanye azibandakanye nolonwabo lwakhe lwezesondo yonke imihla, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngaloo nto, ngakumbi kuba wonke umntu kuqala unamava akhe kwaye okwesibini unenkululeko yokuzikhethela kwaye unokuyilandela. ngokupheleleyo.

Ukunciphisa amandla ethu ngokwesondo

Ekugqibeleni, andifuni ukufumana oko konke konke, okanye kuphela kwinqanaba elilinganiselweyo, kodwa kunoko inqaku lelokuba ngokuziqhelanisa ngokugqithiseleyo nomnqweno wesini, umntu uyaziphanga amandla akhe obomi, njengento engenangqondo njengoko kunokuba kunjalo. umsindo kwabanye abantu. Kodwa ngaso sonke isenzo sesondo, nokuba kukuphulula amalungu esini okanye iqabane ngokwesondo (ingakumbi ukuba kwenzeka ngaphandle kothando, kodwa ngaphezulu koko kula macandelo alandelayo), okanye ukuyibeka ngokuchanekileyo, ngayo yonke i-orgasm, isixa esikhulu samandla obomi sikhutshwa. . Kwaye oku kukhululwa kwamandla obomi kudla ngokuchithwa kunokuba kusetyenziswe okanye kuqhutywe ngengqondo (ngokuqinisekileyo, esi siphumo sivakaliswa kakhulu kumadoda ngenxa ye-ejaculation). Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sichitha amandla ethu ngokwesondo, umzekelo ngokulalana kwemihla ngemihla (kaninzi - ukuba kwenziwa ngaphandle kothando), ngokuphulula amaphambili imihla ngemihla kwaye kwelinye icala, sinciphisa amandla ethu ngokwesondo ukuya kubuncinci (okuyiyo. akukho nto imbi nangayiphi na indlela, akukho bubi kwaye akukho kulunga). Abantu abathi, umzekelo, baphulula amaphambili imihla ngemihla, eyinxalenye yobomi babantu abaninzi kwihlabathi lanamhlanje ngenxa yokuvezwa ngokugqithisileyo kwiphonografi kunye nokwabelana ngesondo, bafumana kuphela i-orgasm ebuthathaka kakhulu ngokuhamba kwexesha (into eyaziwayo kakhulu. kwisini samadoda), o.k.t aba bantu bafumana kuphela amandla amancinci ngokwesondo ebomini babo, nto leyo eneengxaki ezithile. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kudla i-charisma yakho kwaye, kwelinye icala, ibeka uxinzelelo kumzimba wakho, kuba ukungabikho kwamandla okubonakalayo kukhuthaza ukubonakaliswa kwezifo ezahlukeneyo (oko akuthethi ukuba uya kugula emva kwexesha elifutshane). Ukuyibeka ngokuthe ngqo, olu qheliselo luyakwenza ube buthuntu ngandlel’ ithile kwaye lukuhlutha awakho amandla okwabelana ngesondo. Ukuba uyeka ixesha elide, oku kunokuzisa ukomelela okukhulu, oko kukuthi, uziva unamandla ngakumbi, uphaphe ngakumbi, ugxile kakhulu kwaye, ngenxa yoko, unokufumana i-charisma engcono kakhulu, ewe, ndiyakwazi yenza oko ngokwawam amava ndithi oku kuzikhwebula kunokusebenza imimangaliso yokwenyani ekucingeni komntu (ngoku kukho iingxelo ezingenakubalwa ezivela kubantu abavakalelwa ngendlela efanayo - ngaphandle kwento yokuba ukwandisa amandla akho esini ngokuzikhwebula kwiimfundiso ezininzi "i-yogis" kunye ne-cooted).

Kweli nqanaba kufuneka kwakhona kuthiwe oku kuyekwa akunanto yakwenza neemfundiso zonqulo, kodwa kunoko kumalunga nokuzeyisa, ukwandisa amandla omntu ngokwesondo kunye nokukhula ngokomoya. Amandla okwabelana ngesondo nawo kufuneka ahambe, yingakho kubalulekile ukuba unganyusi nje la mandla, kodwa uwakhulule. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba siziva sincinci samandla ezesondo ngaphakathi kwethu kwaye asinayo nayiphi na idrayivu yangaphakathi yokuphila, umzekelo ngenxa yokuba sisebenza kakhulu ngokwesondo, into engenzekiyo ngothando kodwa ngenxa yethuku, iyakwazi. Kuyakhuthaza kakhulu ukuziva ukuziqhelanisa nokuziyeka kangangexesha elithile. Ubudlelwane apho, umzekelo, umdla wokwabelana ngesondo uye waphela ngokupheleleyo okanye umntu akasafumani iqabane linomtsalane ngokwesondo ngenxa yokuba sele lingumkhwa, lizuza kakhulu ekuzikhwebuleni kwiiveki ezimbalwa..!!

Ekugqibeleni, oku kuthetha ukuba unamandla angakumbi esondo kwaye ungasebenzisa la mandla ukuze uzuze. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokuqhelekileyo unamandla obomi kunye nokuqhubela phambili, oku kuthetha ukuba unokufeza ngokuphawulekayo ngakumbi ebomini, kwaye kwelinye icala, usebenzisa la mandla ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo okanye "ukwaneliseka" okujoliswe kuyo ukuphumeza iiprojekthi ezihambelanayo. Abantu bayakuthanda ukuthetha ngomlingo wesondo apha.

Ukubanakho okumangalisayo kwamandla akho ngokwesondo

Oku kuthetha ukuba wongeza amandla akho esondo ngexesha elide kwaye usebenzise ukukhululwa kwamandla okulandela, okunamandla kakhulu ngenxa yokuyeka, ukuzalisekisa umnqweno. Asikokuphulula amalungu esini ngendlela eqhelekileyo, kodwa yinkqubo yesithethe, ekujoliswe kuyo ekusebenziseni amandla kabani. Awuyi kuza ngokuthe ngqo ngexesha "lokwaneliseka", kodwa uya kuvumela amandla akho ukuba anyuke aye phezulu, nangexesha lokuziqhelanisa. Ugxininisa kumnqweno ohambelanayo, okanye nakwindawo echaphazelekayo ngokwasemzimbeni, okanye kwinto eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo. Ulawula amandla akho avaliweyo ngeengcinga zakho. Endaweni yokuza nje kwaye ukonwabele imvakalelo, ukhokelela la mandla akhutshiweyo kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo okanye ekubonakaliseni umnqweno, okanye ukuya kwelinye lee-chakras ezisixhenxe eziphambili (ekwayimvakalelo entle kakhulu). Kuba imvakalelo igqabhuka kakhulu ngenxa yokuzila ixesha elide, isiphumo sikwanamandla ngamaxesha amaninzi. Emva koko uhlawuliswe ngamandla kwaye unokuweva amandla akho esondo equkuqela kuyo yonke iseli emzimbeni wakho. Ekugqibeleni, ungasebenzisa le ndlela kunye neqabane, elisebenza ngakumbi. Akunjalo nje ngesondo, ngokuyinhloko malunga nokuqokelela amandla ukuze ukwazi ukuqalisa ukuphilisa ngokusebenzisa amandla anamandla ezesondo. Abantu bayakuthanda ukuthetha ngesondo somoya apha. Endaweni yokwenza isondo ngaphandle kwethuku okanye ngaphandle kombono wokufuna ukuvelisa kwakhona, kugxilwe kumanyano. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kufuna uthando olunzulu nolusondeleyo, ngaphandle koko lo mkhuba awunakwenzeka, kuba uthando olunzulu lusisiseko apha.

Ukucinga sisiseko sayo yonke into. Kubalulekile ukuba sisondele kwingcinga zethu nganye ngeliso lengqondo. – Thich Nhat Hanh..!!

Ekupheleni kosuku, lo mkhuba awunakufaniswa nantoni na. Ukwabelana ngesondo kokomoya, oko kukuthi, xa abantu ababini bethandana ngeentliziyo zabo zonke, bangena ngononophelo kulo manyano kwaye abanalo ulwaneliseko olunyulu lwethuku engqondweni, kodwa kunoko ukukhula kokomoya, amava olona vuyo luphezulu, imvakalelo yothando olunzulu kunye nokusetyenziswa. yamandla okwabelana ngesondo, ivuselela iimvakalelo ezingenakuchazwa kwaye inokuphilisa kumzimba wonke. Unokwenza oku ngeeyure, kuba eyona nto igxininiswayo ayikho kwi-orgasm, ngokuchaseneyo, ngakumbi malunga nokuziva uxhulumaniso olunzulu kunye nokufumana ukwanda kwamandla esondo. Ukuba i-orgasm inokuthi yenzeke kwakhona, mhlawumbi i-orgasm ekwabelwana ngayo, oku kuya kuba kukugqabhuka okukhulu kwamandla okungenalo isiphumo esidliwayo, kodwa endaweni yokutshaja. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka kuthiwe ngeli xesha ukuba amava esondo achaseneyo nawo aneenzuzo zawo kwaye amele inxalenye yenkqubo yethu yophuhliso (njengoko kudla ngokukhankanywa, amava achaseneyo abalulekile).

Umntu unokubhala iincwadi ezipheleleyo ngalo mbandela. Ngendlela efanayo, isihloko samandla ezesondo sinokujongwa kwiimbono ezahlukeneyo. Kukho neengxelo ezingenakubalwa ezinomdla, iindlela kunye nomxholo obonisa iimbono ezintsha ngokupheleleyo, yiyo loo nto ndingacebisa isihloko kunye nophando oluhambelanayo kunye nesicelo kuye wonke umntu ..!!

Njengoko benditshilo, thina bantu sonke sinamava ethu, kodwa kuyakhuthaza kakhulu ukuba umntu akhule ngokomoya nangokwengqondo ukuba umntu ufikelela kweli nqanaba aze afumane umanyano oluhambelanayo (okanye umlingo ngokwesondo, ukuzikhwebula kunye nokwanda kwamandla akhe ngokwesondo). Ukwabelana ngesondo kunokuba yinto ekhethekileyo kakhulu, ewe, yinto engcwele enokusivumela ukuba sibe namava amanqanaba amatsha okuba ngokwemigaqo yokuqonda. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo. 🙂

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