Wonke umntu unomphefumlo kwaye ngenxa yoko unentliziyo enobubele, enothando, enovelwano kunye “nemiba yokuphindaphinda” (nokuba oku kusenokungabonakali ngokucacileyo kuye wonke umntu, wonke umntu ophilayo usenomphefumlo, ewe, ngokusisiseko nayo yonke into ubukho "buphilayo"). Umphefumlo wethu unoxanduva lokuqinisekisa ukuba, okokuqala, sinokubonakalisa imeko yokuphila ehambelanayo noxolo (ngokudityaniswa nomoya wethu) kwaye, okwesibini, sinokubonisa uvelwano kwabanye abantu kunye nezinye izidalwa eziphilayo. Oku bekungeke kwenzeke ngaphandle komphefumlo, ngoko besiya abanazo izakhono zovelwano kwaye ke baya kuba ngabantu "abangenantliziyo".

Isicwangciso somphefumlo womntu

Nangona kunjalo, yonke into ephilayo inomphefumlo kwaye ngoko ke inonxibelelwano lomoya, oko kukuthi yonke into ephilayo inento ethile - nokuba i-conscious okanye i-subconscious - isazisi kunye nomphefumlo wayo (ongasoloko ubonakala, kodwa ngamaxesha athile ebomini ). Ngenxa yengqondo yethu engundoqo, wonke umntu unento ebizwa ngokuba yisicwangciso somphefumlo. Esi sicwangciso somphefumlo, esidale ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwethu kokuqala, sandiswa kwaye sihlaziywe ngokutsha kulo mongo phambi kokuzalwa okutsha. Kwesi sicwangciso somphefumlo, iinjongo ezingenakubalwa kunye neengcamango eziza kuphunyezwa zimiselwe ubomi obuzayo. Ezi ziquka, umzekelo:

• Iziganeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi
• intsebenziswano
• Ubuhlobo (ukudibana neminye imiphefumlo)
• Usapho lwethu, - usapho olufakwe emzimbeni
• ezahlukeneyo Iingxaki zobomi
• ubuquulwazi
• Abanye Izifo.

Isicwangciso somphefumlo sisicwangciso esizenzileyo apho ubomi obuzayo + ezinye iinkalo ezingenakubalwa esingathanda ukuzifumana zicwangciswe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, izicwangciso zomphefumlo nazo ziyahluka kwaye ayizizo zonke iimeko ezenzekayo 1: 1, kodwa inxalenye enkulu yeziganeko zobomi ezichazwe kwangaphambili zibonakala kwinyani yomntu. Ubudlelwane okanye ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu ababini / imiphefumlo ihlala icwangciswa kunye ngaphambi kokuzalwa okuzayo kwaye ke ayisosiphumo samathuba. Ngokubhekiselele koko, akukho ziganeko eziqhelekileyo. Yonke into isekwe ngakumbi kwi-causality, o.k. kwizizathu kunye neziphumo. Ubudlelwane bothando ke buhlala busebenzela uphuhliso lwethu lwengqondo nolweemvakalelo kwaye luhlala lusebenza njengesipili esibonisa imeko yethu yengqondo kwaye ihlala isibonisa eyethu imiqobo kunye nokungahambelani, kodwa kunye namathuba ethu ophuhliso lwangoku.

Lonke ubudlelwane esingena kubo nabanye abantu, nokuba sidibana nabanye abantu kunye nezilwanyana, sihlala sisenza ukuba siqaphele imeko yethu yengqondo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, akuveli ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kwesizathu..!!  

Ngendlela efanayo, intsapho yokuzalwa imiselwe kwangaphambili, oko kukuthi intsapho apho umntu azalelwa kuyo ixhomekeke kuye. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe apha ukuba umntu uqhelekile, uhlala ufana "iintsapho zomphefumlo“Uzalelwa kuyo.

Iinjongo zokuzalwa kunye neziganeko zobomi ezichazwe kwangaphambili

Ngaphandle koko, iingxaki zakho zobomi + nokuqonda nazo zichazwe kwangaphambili. Zombini ezi nkalo zibaluleke kakhulu isicwangciso somphefumlo womntu. Njengomthetho, ezi ziimeko zengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ukuba umphefumlo ungathanda ukufezekisa, ukuqonda kunye namava kubomi obuzayo. Kule nkalo, umntu uyaqhubeka nokuphuhlisa ukusuka enyameni ukuya ekuzalweni (ukusuka ebomini ukuya ebomini) kwaye ngokuzithoba uzama kwinqanaba elithile lophuhliso lokomoya. Iingxaki zobomi ke ngoko zihlala zijolise ekusenzeni ukuba sikuqonde okungafaniyo kwethu kwaye rhoqo kunye nemithwalo yekarmic, enokuthi ilandelelwe kubomi obudlulileyo, ukuze sikwazi ukusombulula lo mthwalo kwakhona. Ewe, asingabo bonke abantu abaphumelelayo koku kwaye abanye baphatha imithwalo yabo yengqondo kunye nabo kude kube yimini yabo yokugqibela (enokuthi ke ibe yinxalenye yesicwangciso somphefumlo). Kweli nqanaba kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba thina bantu sihlala sithatha iingxabano zethu zangaphakathi kubomi obuzayo. Ngokomzekelo, xa ikhoboka lotywala lisifa, litshintshela kubomi balo bexesha elizayo. Kolu kuzalwa lulandelayo, utyekelo lokukhotyokiswa butywala (okanye utywala kunye nezinye izinto ezikhobokisayo ngokubanzi) lunokucaciswa ngakumbi kwaye amathuba okuba likhoboka lotywala kwakhona anokuba phezulu.

Ubukho bomntu bubonke buqulathe amandla, athi wona angcangcazele ngamaza ahambelanayo. Ngenxa yoko, wonke umntu unesimo sokuphindaphinda ngokupheleleyo. Imeko yethu yokuphindaphinda, enokuthi ilandelelwe emva kwinqanaba lokukhula kwengqondo kunye neemvakalelo, ke ngoko idlala indima eqinisekileyo kwisehlo sokufa..!!

Yonke into ke yenzeka de ube woyisile owakho umlutha ngokuzibamba kunye nokucoca iingxabano zakho zangaphakathi (amandla awanyibiliki ngokwawo kwaye ahlala emva kokufa). Kwelinye icala, izigulo - njengeentlekele zobomi - ziyinxalenye yesicwangciso somphefumlo womntu. Izifo ngakumbi zinenzuzo efanayo kwaye zisenza sikuqonde ukungalingani kwethu kwengqondo.

Izigulo njengenxalenye yesicwangciso somphefumlo wethu

Ngesi sizathu, izigulo ekucingelwa ukuba zingenabungozi ngakumbi, njengosulelo olungephi njengomkhuhlane, ubuncinci lunokuthi lulandelelwe emva kongquzulwano lwengqondo lwexeshana (uxinzelelo olukhulu, ukungalingani kwengqondo kunye nokunye okungahambelani - impumlo ebalekayo = wonele). Uxinezelekile emsebenzini, uneengxaki neqabane lakho okanye uziva udiniwe ngokupheleleyo. Oku kungavisisani emva koko kuthwalisa ingqondo yethu, ethi yona idlulise oku kungcoliseka/kungangqinelani kumzimba wethu wenyama, ngaloo ndlela yenze buthathaka amajoni ethu omzimba. Izigulo ezimandundu zihlala zilandwa emva kokwenzakala kwasebuntwaneni kunye nezinye iingxaki zengqondo esele zihleli ixesha elide (iminyaka yokuphila ngendlela engeyoyamvelo, enokuthi iphinde ilandwe emva kwisiphithiphithi sengqondo, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yinto apha). Zizigulo ezisithintelayo ekuqhubeni ubomi bethu kwaye zisenza siqonde ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle/seluxolweni ixesha elide. Apha sithanda ukuthetha ngamanxeba avulekileyo engqondo afuna ukuvalwa ngokuqaphela kunye nokuyeka iingxabano zethu zangaphambili (umphefumlo wethu ngoko unokuvelisa ukubandezeleka, okanye ndingayibeka ngolu hlobo: "Umphefumlo ngeyona nto uyiyo awunakonakaliswa. Umphefumlo awusokoli, kunoko iqhekeza lomphefumlo linamava okwenene okubandezeleka kubukho bomzimba, kuba le kuphela kwendlela enokwenzeka ngayo la mava” – Umthombo: umphefumlo-ukuqonda.de). Kwangokunjalo, ezi zifo zinokuphinda zilandelelwe kubomi bangaphambili. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu ubulawa ngumhlaza, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthwala unobangela ongasonjululwanga weso sifo kubomi bakhe bexesha elizayo. Ngendlela efanayo, iimbono ezisezantsi zokuziphatha zinokugqithiselwa kubomi obuzayo kwaye emva koko zibonakale kwakhona (inqanaba lokukhula kwengqondo kunye nokomoya ngexesha lokufa lihlala ligqithiselwa ekuzalweni kwethu). Umntu, naye, obanda kakhulu kwaye anyathele emhlabeni wezilwanyana - mhlawumbi ubona izilwanyana njengezilwanyana eziphantsi - unokuphinda ahlakulele esi simo sengqondo kubomi obulandelayo, kwaye amathuba aya kuba phezulu kakhulu.

Ukuziphatha kwethu, oko kukuthi, iimbono zethu zokuziphatha zobomi, iinkolelo zethu, iinkolelo, iimbono zehlabathi kunye nazo zonke ezinye iimeko zomzimba + zengqondo zigeleza ekuzalweni kwethu okuzayo kwaye ngoko ke, ubuncinci njengomthetho, zithatha isigqibo malunga namava ethu okuza ..!!

Apha ke kuyimfuneko ukutshabalalisa i-karmic ballast yakhe kwaye oku kwenzeka ngokuphuhlisa ukuziphatha kunye nokufumana iinkolelo ezintsha, iinkolelo kunye neembono zobomi. Ekupheleni kosuku, eli ikwalithuba esilinikwa mihla le, kuba thina bantu siyakwazi ukuziphuhlisa rhoqo ngenxa yezakhono zethu zengqondo. Singabayili bekamva lethu. Ngale ndlela hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.

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