Sonke singabantu sidala ubomi bethu, ubunyani bethu, sisebenzisa intelekelelo yethu yengqondo. Zonke izenzo zethu, iziganeko zobomi kunye neemeko ekugqibeleni ziyimveliso nje yeengcinga zethu, ezithi zona zidityaniswe ngokusondeleyo nokuqhelaniswa nemeko yethu yokuqonda. Kwangaxeshanye, ezethu iinkolelo kunye neenkolelo zingena ekudalweni/ekubunjweni kobunyani bethu. Into ocinga ngayo kunye novakalelwa ngayo kulo mba, into ehambelana neenkolelo zakho zangaphakathi, ihlala izibonakalisa njengenyaniso ebomini bakho. Nangona kunjalo, kukwakho neenkolelo ezingalunganga ezithi zikhokelele ekubeni sizibeke imiqobo kuthi. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ngoku ndiqalise ungcelele lwamanqaku apho ndithetha ngeenkolelo ezahlukeneyo ezithintelayo.
Umntu akanakukhanyiselwa ngokupheleleyo?!
Kumanqaku amathathu okuqala ndixubushe ngeenkolelo zemihla ngemihla kulo mongo: “Andimhle","Andinakuyenza loo nto","Abanye bangcono/babaluleke kakhulu kunam", kodwa kweli nqaku ndiza kujongana nenkolelo ecacileyo ngakumbi, yokuba umntu akanakukhanyiselwa ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuphathelele oku, kwixesha elithile elidluleyo ndafunda amagqabaza omntu owayeqiniseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba akanakuzikhanyisela ngokupheleleyo. Omnye umntu wacinga ukuba kwakungayi kubakho impumelelo kumjikelo wokuvela ngokutsha. Kodwa xa ndafunda la magqabaza, ngoko nangoko ndaqonda ukuba ezi yayiziinkolelo zakhe. Ekugqibeleni, awukwazi ukwenza izinto ngokubanzi kuba, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, thina bantu sidala ezethu iinyani kunye neenkolelo zethu ezihamba nazo. Into ebonakala ingenakwenzeka kumntu omnye yinto enokwenzeka komnye umntu. Awunakukwazi ukwenza izinto ngokubanzi kwaye uvelise eyakho into ozivalele yona kwabanye abantu, okanye awungekhe uveze izinto njengenyani echanekileyo / echanekileyo, kuba wonke umntu uzenzela eyakhe yokwenyani kwaye unezimvo zomntu ngamnye ebomini. Lo mgaqo ke ngoko unokugqithiselwa ngokugqibeleleyo kule nkolelo uzenzele yona. Ukuba umntu uqinisekile ukuba umntu akanakufumana ukhanyiselo olupheleleyo, ngoko loo mntu akanako ukulufikelela, ubuncinane kungekhona nje ukuba loo mntu uqinisekile ngayo.
Awungekhe udlulisele iinkolelo zakho kunye neenkolelo zakho kwabanye abantu kuba ziyimveliso yengqondo yakho EYAKHO ..!!
Kodwa leyo yenye nje inkalo yobunyani bakhe yaye ayisebenzi kwabanye abantu. Ngendlela, inyani yokuba oku akufuneki isebenze inxulumene kakhulu nenkolelo "Andinakuyenza loo nto" ixhunyiwe. Ewe, kodwa kutheni ungafanele ukwazi ukufumana ukhanyiselo olupheleleyo ngokwakho, kutheni kungenzeki ukuba woyise owakho umjikelo wokuphindukuzalwa.
Ukuzibekela imiqobo
Ekupheleni kosuku, yonke into inokwenzeka kwaye nokudalwa kweengcinga ezilungileyo ngokupheleleyo, ukufezekiswa kwemeko ecacileyo yokuqonda okanye ukoyisa ubukho bomntu ombini kunokwenzeka. Kakade ke, umntu ngamnye kufuneka azikhangelele ngokwakhe indlela oku kusebenza ngayo. Ngokomntu, ndifumene indlela yam kwaye ndiqinisekile ukuba ndifumene isisombululo, into enokwenzeka, esekelwe kuphela kwiinkolelo zam okanye iinkolelo zam. Ukuba ungathanda ukwazi ngakumbi malunga noku, ndingacebisa la manqaku alandelayo: Umjikelo wokuphindukuzalwa - Kwenzeka ntoni xa ukufa kwenzeka?, Inkqubo ekhanyayo yomzimba kunye nezigaba zayo - ukuqeqeshwa kobuThixo bakho, Unyanzeliso luyavusa-UkuFumana kwakhona kweZakhono zobugqi. Nangona kunjalo, xa kufikwa koku, sonke sihamba ngendlela yethu kwaye sinokukhetha indlela esinokufikelela ngayo kwizinto ezithile. Ngendlela, xa kuziwa ekuboniseni iinkolelo kwabanye abantu, umntu wandixelela ukuba abantu ababika amava okomoya kwaye bawenze umsebenzi wabo abanako ukuwoyisa umjikelo wabo wokuphindukuzalwa. Yayingamagqabaza awayenempembelelo enkulu kum ngelo xesha kwaye andenza ndathandabuza ubuchule bam. Kwada kwadlula ixesha elithile apho ndaqonda ukuba le yinkolelo yakhe kuphela kwaye ayinanto yakwenza nam.
Wonke umntu udala iinkolelo kunye neenkolelo zakhe, udala obakhe ubomi, obabo ubunyani kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, iimbono zomntu ngamnye ngobomi..!!
Ukuba ucinga ukuba oku kunjalo ebomini bakhe, ngoko kwimeko enjalo akayi kukwazi ukunqoba le nkqubo ngenxa yeenkolelo zakhe ezithintelayo. Ekugqibeleni, le yayiyinkolelo yakhe, ukuzivala kwakhe, angenakukwazi ukukudlulisela ebomini bam. Awukwazi ukuthetha ngabanye abantu kwaye ubaxelele ukuba into kufuneka ibe njani, oko akunakwenzeka kuba wonke umntu udala inyani yakhe, iinkolelo zakhe kunye neembono zakhe ebomini. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
