Kangangeenkulungwane ezingenakubalwa abantu bebezibuza ukuba umntu unokuyiguqula njani inkqubo yokwaluphala kwakhe, okanye nokuba oku bekunokwenzeka na. Kusetyenziswe iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, izenzo ezithi, njengomthetho, azize zikhokele kwiziphumo ezifunwayo. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaninzi bayaqhubeka nokusebenzisa iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kwaye bazame zonke iintlobo zamayeza ukuze bakwazi ukuthothisa inkqubo yabo yokwaluphala. Amaxesha amaninzi, ukwalwela imbonakalo ethile yobuhle, imbonakalo entle esithengiselwa yona luluntu + kumajelo eendaba njengobuhle obucingelwayo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, iintlobo ezininzi zeekhrimu, iipilisi kunye nezinye iimveliso zipapashwa ngamandla abo onke, ukuze inzuzo yenziwe kwiingxaki ezicingelwayo esizivumela ukuba zihanjiswe kwiintloko zethu. Ekugqibeleni, abanye abantu baphetha bechitha imali ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiimveliso ezingenanzuzo kubo.
Amandla angenamkhawulo wemeko yakho yokuqonda
Yonke into iya kuba lula kakhulu. Iimpendulo zokunciphisa inkqubo yakho yokuguga, iimpendulo kwimpilo egqibeleleyo kunye nobuhle azikwazi ukufunyanwa ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphakathi kwethu. Kulo mongo, unokucothisa inkqubo yakho yokuguga, njengoko unokunyanga nasiphi na isifo. Iprojekthi enjalo ayisebenzi kunye neetafile okanye iikhrimu ekucingelwa ukuba zisenza sibonakale sibancinci, kodwa yonke into yenzeka ngeendlela ezimbini. Ngakolunye uhlangothi malunga neengcinga zethu kwaye kwelinye icala malunga nokutya okubangelwayo. Njengoko bendihlala ndikhankanya kumanqaku am, yonke into ekhoyo yimbonakalo yengqondo / yokomoya kuphela. Ubomi bethu bonke, zonke iimeko esiphila phantsi kwazo kwakunye nemo yethu yangoku, ziyimveliso nje yengqondo yethu. Zonke iingcinga + neemvakalelo esakhe sazenza ngokusemthethweni ezingqondweni zethu, zonke izenzo esakhe sazenza ebomini bethu kunye nayo yonke into esakhe sazondla ngayo songeza kwimali enoxanduva lokubonakalisa kwethu ukuyila ngoku. Thina bantu sisimbuku sazo zonke iingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye nezenzo zethu. Kulo mongo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba iingcamango zethu zinempembelelo enkulu kumzimba wethu + umgaqo-siseko wethu womzimba. Iingcinga ezilungileyo zalo naluphi na uhlobo, umzekelo iingcinga ezisekelwe kwimvisiswano, uxolo kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, uthando, ukonyusa umvandedwa wethu wokungcangcazela, kusenza silingane kwaye sikhuthaze ukuphuculwa kwempilo yethu.
Zonke iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zethu zigeleza emzimbeni wethu kwaye ziphembelele impilo yethu + eyethu inkangeleko yangaphandle ..!!
Iingcinga ezingalunganga zalo naluphi na uhlobo, umzekelo, uxinzelelo olwahlukeneyo, uloyiko okanye iingcinga zomsindo, zinciphisa umvandedwa wokungcangcazela, zinciphise izakhono zethu zengqondo, ziqinisekise ukuba siba yingozi ngakumbi xa sisonke kwaye oku kube nefuthe elinamandla kwimpilo yethu. ezenyama kunye nomgaqo-siseko wengqondo. Okukhona sinoxinzelelo olungakumbi, uloyiko kunye neengcinga ezingalunganga xa sisonke malunga noku, kokukhona sisehlisa isantya sokungcangcazela kwaye sisonakalisa impilo yethu, sivala imeko yethu yengqondo kwaye sikhawulezisa eyethu inkqubo yokuguga.
Inkqubo yethu yokwaluphala inxulunyaniswe kakhulu nolwethu lwengqondo. Okukhona iingqondo zethu zinethemba kulo mba, kokukhona oku kuya kuba nethemba ngakumbi kwinkqubo yethu yokuguga..!!
Olwethu i-charisma ke luthwaxwa kakhulu kukungakhathali kwethu, onokukubona emntwini okanye unokusiva nje. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, ukwaluphala kwethu kusekelwe kwiingcamango zethu. Okukhona sizenza zibe semthethweni iingcinga ezakhayo ezingqondweni zethu, kokukhona oku kukhuthaza inkangeleko yethu yangaphandle kwaye kusenza sibonakale sibatsha.
Iingqondo zethu azinakuguga
Enye inkalo yokunciphisa ukwaluphala ibiya kuba kukulungelelanisa iinkolelo neenkolelo zethu. Oku kukwanxulunyaniswa nolwazi lwengqondo yethu, ulwazi lokuba iingcamango zethu kunye nokwaluphala kwethu nako kunokuthothisa okanye kude kuyibuyise umva. Ukuba siqinisekile ukuba sikhula minyaka yonke, ngoko oku kwenzeka, kuba le nkolelo, eyimveliso yengqondo yethu kuphela, igcina inkqubo yethu yokuguga iphila. Kwelinye icala, iinkolelo ezingezizo zikwayikhawulezisa eyethu inkqubo yokuguga, njengoko zinciphisa ngokusisigxina ezethu ukungcangcazela rhoqo kwaye zisenze bonakalise ngakumbi. Ngaphandle koko, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ekupheleni kosuku ingqondo yethu ayinayo iminyaka ehambelana nayo. Ukwazi kwethu akunakukhula kwaye akukho phantsi kwexesha lesithuba okanye ubunye. Kufana neengcinga zethu, apho, njengoko sisazi, akukho xesha-ndawo likhoyo, yiyo loo nto unokuthelekelela nantoni na oyifunayo ngaphandle kokusikelwa umda kwintelekelelo yakho. Unokuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wemeko onokuthi wandise ngayo ngonaphakade ngaphandle kokuba ube phantsi kwemida yesithuba okanye ixesha. Inkqubo yethu yokuguga yimveliso nje yemeko yethu "yokungagugi" kwaye igcinwa kuphela okanye ikhawuleziswe yile meko (ngeengcamango ezingalunganga, iinkolelo kunye nokutya okuxineneyo). Apha siza kwinqaku lethu elilandelayo, elikukutya kwethu. Ngaphandle kweengqondo zethu, izigulo, ukosuleleka ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ukuguga okukhawulezileyo nako kunokulandwa emva ekutyeni kwethu.
Ukutya kwethu ngokuyinxenye yimbopheleleko yokwaluphala kwethu. Okukhona sisitya ngokungekho ngokwemvelo kulo mongo, kokukhona ikhawulezisa eyethu inkqubo yokuguga!!
Ukutya okuxineneyo ngamandla okanye ukutya okunesantya esisezantsi sokungcangcazela kukhawulezisa inkqubo yethu yokuguga kwaye kukhawulezise ukwehla komzimba. Iityhefu zemihla ngemihla esizityayo zisenza sigule, sixhomekeke, sinciphise amaxesha ethu okungcangcazela kwaye sikhuthaze ukukhula kwezifo. Ekugqibeleni, bawenza buthathaka ngokusisigxina amajoni ethu omzimba kwaye wonakalise indawo yethu yeeseli, njengoko "umzimba wethu onamandla / womoya" emva koko udlulisela ukungcola kwawo kumzimba wenyama, othi ke usebenze nzima ngakumbi ukuhlawulela obu kungcola kuzenzele bona. . Ngokuphathelele ukutya kwabo, kukho, umzekelo, imizekelo engenakubalwa yabasetyhini abaye bahlala ngokupheleleyo kwishukela ecocekileyo + iilekese njl. kwaye emva koko bajongeka bebancinci ngeminyaka engama-70 xa bebadala, umzekelo kuma-25. Imfihlo yakho, isondlo sendalo + isiphumo / ukuchazwa ngakumbi kokwazi umzimba + ngakumbi iingcinga ezintle
Ngokutya kwendalo / kwe-alkali awukwazi ukuguqula inkqubo yakho yokuguga kuphela, kodwa uphilisa zonke izifo .. !!
Ngendlela efanayo, zonke iziyobisi zithintela inkqubo yethu yokuguga, kuba lonke umlutha, nokuba kuxhomekeke ekutyeni, kwiziyobisi okanye kwezinye izinto eziluthayo, okanye nakumaqabane obomi / iimeko zokuphila, zilawula iingqondo zethu kwaye emva koko kudala uxinzelelo olunamandla / oluphantsi. iifrikhwensi. Kuphela kuxa sinokwanelisa iziyobisi zethu apho siye sibe nemvakalelo yokuzola de umdlalo wokulutha uqalise kwakhona. Kulo mongo, nekofu yasekuseni imele umlutha onokucothisa inkqubo yokuguga, njengoko yinto ekhobokisayo engenakwenza ngaphandle kwayo, isenzo esilawula ingqondo yethu imihla ngemihla.
Iziyobisi kunye nokuxhomekeka kwazo zonke iintlobo zilawula iingqondo zethu, zinciphisa ezethu ukungcangcazela rhoqo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, sikhawulezisa eyethu inkqubo yokuguga..!!
Ukuba uvuka ekuseni kwaye awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwekofu, ukuba oku kubangela ukuziva ungaphumli kuwe kwaye ngenxa yoko uziva uhlaziyekile xa ufumana ikofu, ngoko uyazi ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha inokulandelwa kwiingcamango. ezilawula ingqondo yakho. Awuyinkosi yeengcinga zakho kwaye kufuneka unikezele kuzo. Ngokusisiseko, ezi zikwangamanqaku abalulekileyo athoba isantya senkqubo yakho yokuguga: “Iingcinga ezingalunganga / amaza aphantsi, zonke izilutha / ukuxhomekeka, iinkolelo ezingalunganga / ukukholelwa, ukunqongophala kolwazi malunga nenkqubo yakho yokwaluphala / ingqondo yakho + into engeyiyo yendalo / amandla. Ubuninzi Isondlo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.
