Wonke umntu uzama ukufumana uthando, uvuyo, ulonwabo kunye nemvisiswano ebomini babo. Umntu ngamnye uhamba ngendlela yakhe ukuze afezekise le njongo. Sisoloko siyamkela imiqobo emininzi ukuze sikwazi ukuyila into eyakhayo nevuyisayo kwakhona. Siqabela ezona ntaba ziphakamileyo, sidade kwezona lwandle zinzulu kwaye sinqumla kwezona ndawo ziyingozi ukuze singcamle le ncindi yobomi. Oku kukuqhuba kwangaphakathi okusinika intsingiselo, amandla okuqhuba abambelele nzulu emphefumlweni wakhe wonke umntu.
Ekufuneni olo lonwabo
Sonke sihlala sijonge olu lonwabo kwaye sithatha ezona ndlela zahlukeneyo zokufumana uthando ebomini bethu. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka kuthiwe wonke umntu uyazichaza le njongo ngendlela yakhe. Kwabanye abantu, impilo yeyona nto iphambili, kwabanye, intsingiselo yobomi kubudlelwane obonwabileyo, ekuqaliseni intsapho apho inhlalakahle yeqabane kunye nabantwana ikhuthaza ubomi bomntu. Omnye usenokubona olona lonwabo lukhulu alunokufumaneka ngokufumana imali eninzi. Xa ndandimncinci, ukusuka kwi-18-22, leyo yayiyi-inner drive yam. Ndandisoloko ndicinga ukuba imali yeyona nto ilungileyo kwisijikelezi-langa sethu nokuba yimali kuphela enokuzisa uxolo lwangaphakathi. Ndithe phithi ngulo buxoki. Ndibeka le ntswelo ngaphezu kosapho lwam, ngaphezu kwempilo yam, kwaye ngeli xesha ndandilandela injongo eyathi ekugqibeleni yandihlukanisa ngokwasengqondweni, injongo eyandenza ndabanda, yavala intliziyo yam kwaye ekugqibeleni yandizisela usizi, ukubandezeleka kunye nokunganeliseki. Noko ke, ekuhambeni kweminyaka, indlela endiyijonga ngayo iye yatshintsha. Ndaqala ukujongana nemithombo yokomoya kunye nemfihlakalo kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, ndafumanisa ukuba imali iyindlela eluncedo yokuphelisa kuluntu lwanamhlanje, kodwa ayizizalisekisi. Ndisebenzisana nomoya wam, ngokwam ukuqonda kwaye ndaqonda ukuba luthando oluhlala kwindawo yonke olwenza wonke umntu abe yinyani. Kukuthanda ubomi, ukuthanda abanye abantu, kuzo zonke izidalwa ezikulo mhlaba, ukuthanda isiqu sakho nendalo obuzalisekisa ngokupheleleyo ubomi bukabani.
Indlela entsha yobomi
Iinjongo zam zatshintsha kwaye indlela yam yobomi yathatha iindlela ezintsha. Ndajonga ngaphakathi kwam kwaye emva kwexesha ndaqonda ukuba ukukhanya komphefumlo wam kunokukhanya kwakhona xa ndizifumana, xa ndiqaphela ukunyaniseka kwam ngaphakathi kwaye ndiqale ukudala into ephilileyo, enokuthula kwakhona. Olu lwazi, luleleyo kwisiseko sobukho bonke, lwandise ukuqonda kwam lwaza lwandinika amandla amatsha ebomini. Ukusukela ngoko yayiyinjongo yam ukwabelana ngolwazi lwam nabanye abantu, yayiyimfuno enzulu kum ukuba ndisondeze uthando ebantwini kwakhona ukuze ndikwazi ukudala ilizwe apho uluntu luziqondayo izigwebo zalo, luzilahla. kwaye iqala kunye nabo kwakhona ukudala imeko yeplanethi apho uthando olungenamiqathango luhlala lukhona, imeko engalawulwa ngumsindo, inzondo, ukubawa kunye nezinye izinto ezisisiseko. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ndiye ndaqonda ukuba olu lwazi malunga nokungafezeki kobomi lukhokelela kwimeko edibeneyo yokuqonda eyandayo kwaye inyuse kakhulu inqanaba lokungcangcazela kweplanethi. Umntu unamandla kakhulu, ubuninzi bomntu ngenxa yengqondo yakhe engaphelelwa lixesha kunye neengcinga eziphuma kuyo. Sonke singabadali bezethu iinyani kwaye sidala nangaliphi na ixesha, nakweyiphi na indawo, umhlaba othi ekugqibeleni ube yintelekelelo yengqondo yengqondo yethu. Iinqobo ezisemgangathweni ozenza ngokusemthethweni emoyeni wakho zenziwa emhlabeni. Umntu onomsindo uya kulijonga ihlabathi ngokwale mbono kwaye umntu obonakalisa uthando ngokwenyani yakhe uya kulijonga ihlabathi emehlweni alo Mthombo unamandla.
Ukufumana kwakhona ukuzithanda
Ngokuhamba kwexesha ndiye ndaqonda ukuba iimvakalelo zangaphakathi zisisipili sehlabathi langaphandle kwaye ngokuphambeneyo (Umgaqo we-hermetic wembalelwano). Ndaqonda ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uzifumanele uthando lwakho kwakhona. Ukuzithanda akunanto yakwenza ne-egoism okanye ikratshi, ngokuchaseneyo! Ukuzithanda kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukubonisa uthando kunye nezinye iimpawu ezintle kwihlabathi langaphandle kwakhona. Umzekelo, kunzima ukuthanda ihlabathi langaphandle, abanye abantu, izilwanyana okanye indalo ukuba awuzithandi, ungazamkeli okanye uzixabisile. Kuphela ukuba uzithanda wena, ukuba unebhalansi yangaphakathi, kunokwenzeka ukudlulisela le mvakalelo kwakhona kwihlabathi langaphandle. Xa uqala ukuqinisa ukuzithanda entliziyweni yakho kwakhona, olu thando lunamandla lwangaphakathi lukhokelela ekujongeni iimeko zangaphandle kule mvakalelo emihle. La mandla angaphakathi ke ekugqibeleni akhokelela kubomi bazo zonke izidalwa eziphefumlelweyo ngothando lomntu, kunye nezakhono zobuntu bakhe. Kakade ke inde indlela ukukwazi neengcambu le self-uthando kwinyani yakho kwakhona, into enjalo akwenzeki nje kuwe. Kuthatha kakhulu ukulahla zonke iimpawu eziphantsi zomntu, ukuba ukwazi ukwamkela ngokupheleleyo / ukutshabalalisa ingqondo yomntu ye-egoistic, esekelwe ngokunzulu kwingqondo yakhe. Kodwa yimvakalelo emnandi xa ungumnikazi wayo xinene ngamandla Ziqaphele kwaye uziphelise iimpawu zokuziphatha kwaye ubeke endaweni yazo ngamabhongo alungileyo. Ngokuchanekileyo olu tshintsho lunamandla, olu kuvuselelwa kokuzithanda kwenzeka ngoku kuwo onke amanqanaba obukho kubo bonke. Ihlabathi liyatshintsha, uluntu lufumana ukwanda okumangalisayo kwizakhono zabo ezibuthathaka kwaye luqala ukudala iimeko ezidityanisiweyo apho ukungafani kobomi bonke kuqatshelwe kwaye kuxatyiswe kwakhona.
Ukudalwa kwehlabathi elitsha
Azisekho izigwebo esizibekele zona esisoloko sizijongela phantsi kwaye sizigxeka ezinye izinto eziphilayo. Azisekho zonke iibhongo ezisisiseko ezikhokelele ekubeni sidale ukukhutshelwa ngaphandle okwamkelekileyo ngaphakathi kubantu abacinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Azisekho izibhengezo ezikhokelele ekubeni abantu bangazinanzeleli isimilo somntu ngokwesondo, ukholo kunye nokwahluka kwakhe. Sikwinkqubo yokudala kunye namava ehlabathi apho uxolo nothando luya kuphinda lubekho kwaye sinethamsanqa elikhulu lokuba singanamava ngokusondeleyo kula maxesha. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi bokubulela kakhulu.
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