Iinkolelo ubukhulu becala ziinkolelo zangaphakathi kunye neembono esicinga ukuba ziyinxalenye yenyani yethu okanye yinyani eqhelekileyo. Rhoqo ezi nkolelo zangaphakathi zigqiba ubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kwaye kulo mongo zinciphisa amandla eengqondo zethu. Kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zeenkolelo ezingalunganga ezisitha imeko yethu yokuqonda kwakhona kwaye kwakhona. Iinkolelo zangaphakathi ezisiphazamisayo ngendlela ethile, zisenza singakwazi ukwenza okuthile kwaye kwangaxeshanye siqhubele phambili ikhondo lobomi bethu kwicala elibi. Ngokuphathelele oko, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba iinkolelo zethu zibonakala kwinyani yethu kwaye zinefuthe elibi kubomi bethu. Kwinxalenye yesithathu yolu ngcelele (inxalenye yokuqala - Icandelo II) Ndingena kwinkolelo ekhethekileyo. Inkolelo ekhoyo kwi-subconscious yabantu abaninzi.

Abanye bangcono kunam - ubuxoki

Abantu abaninzi bahlala beqinisekile ngaphakathi ukuba babi okanye bangabalulekanga kunabanye abantu. Le nkohliso okanye inkolelo yokuzimela ihamba kunye nabantu abaninzi kubo bonke ubomi babo kwaye ithintela ukuphuhliswa kwamandla abo, ukuphuhliswa kwamandla kwimeko yabo yokuqonda. Ngokwethuku sicinga ukuba abanye abantu babhetele kunathi, siqinisekile ukuba abanye abantu banobuchule obungakumbi, banobomi obungcono okanye bakrelekrele ngakumbi kunathi. ihambelana neembono zethu, ubomi apho singajongeli phantsi izakhono zethu zokuyila kwaye siyaqonda ukuba akukho mntu ungcono okanye mbi ngaphezu kwethu.Ekugqibeleni, loo nto ibonakala ngathi. ubomi bakho, ngokuchaseneyo, bonke ubomi buxabiseke ngokulinganayo kwaye buyingqayizivele, nangona sihlala singayiboni le nto okanye sifuna ukuyivuma. Inene akakho umntu okrelekrele okanye osisibhanxa ukodlula wena kutheni kufuneka kube njalo? Ekugqibeleni, abantu abaninzi baxhomekeke kwi-quotient yabo yengqondo xa kuziwa kule nto.

Ngokuthathela ingqalelo ngokungqongqo intetho yethu yokuyila, sonke siyafana kumbindi wethu, sonke singabantu bomoya abazenzela obabo ubomi ngoncedo lokwazi kwabo..!!

Kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo, kutheni kufuneka wena, ewe, ofunda eli nqaku ngoku, ube krelekrele okanye ube sisidenge kunam, kutheni izakhono zakho zokuyila kufuneka ziphuhliswe kancinci / zisebenziseke kunezam, kutheni kufuneka amandla akho okuhlalutya ubomi bubi kunowam? Sonke sinomzimba wenyama, ingqondo, amehlo ama-2, iindlebe ezi-2, sinomzimba ongaphathekiyo, sinengqondo yethu, iingcamango zethu kwaye sidale ubomi bethu sisebenzisa ukucinga kwethu.

Amandla emeko yakho yokuqonda

Kulo mongo, wonke umntu unesiphiwo esimangalisayo sokubuza ubomi kunye nokubuhlengahlengisa rhoqo. Ngokubhekiselele kule nto, i-IQ ithetha kancinci malunga nokuqonda komntu ubomi, ngoko inqunyelwe ekusebenzeni kwengqondo yomntu, nto leyo ixhomekeke kwimeko yangoku yengqondo, enokuthi iguqulwe nangaliphi na ixesha ( course there are exceptions , umzekelo umntu okhubazeke ngengqondo, kodwa uqinisekisa umthetho). Ngaphandle koko, kusekho i-EQ, i-quotient yeemvakalelo. Oku ke kunxulumene nokukhula kokuziphatha kukabani, ukukhula kukabani ngokweemvakalelo, imo yakhe yengqondo kunye nokukwazi ukujonga ubomi ngokwembono yakhe. Kodwa kwanale quotient asiyonto sizalwa nayo kwaye inokutshintshwa. Ngokomzekelo, umntu owenza izinto ubukhulu becala ngenxa yeentshukumisa zokuzingca, oneenjongo ezimbi, obawayo, ongawukhathaleliyo umhlaba wezilwanyana, oziphatha ngendlela ephantsi okanye osasaza amandla angakhiyo—aveliswe ngengqondo yakhe yaye akanaluvelwano ngabantu abangoowabo; ngokulandelayo iba ne-quotient enye yeemvakalelo ephantsi. Akazange afunde ukuba ukulimaza abanye abantu kuphosakele, ukuba umgaqo osisiseko wendalo yonke usekelwe kwimvisiswano, uthando kunye nokulinganisela (UMthetho weHlabathi jikelele: UMgaqo weHarmony okanye iBalance). Nangona kunjalo, wonke umntu akanalo i-quotient esisigxina yeemvakalelo, kuba abantu bayakwazi ukwandisa ukuqonda kwabo kwaye banokutshintsha iimbono zabo zokuziphatha ngoncedo lwesi sixhobo esinamandla. Zombini izicaphulo zenza iquotient yomoya/yomoya.

Iinkolelo ezingalunganga zihlala zimi endleleni yokudala ubomi obulungileyo kunye nokunciphisa ukukhula kwengqondo yethu yokomoya ..!!

Le quotient yenziwe nge-EQ kunye ne-IQ, kodwa ayinalo ixabiso elimiselweyo; inokunyuswa nangaliphi na ixesha. Sifezekisa oku ngokuqonda uqhagamshelo olusisiseko lokomoya nolwengqondo kwakhona, ngokuqaphela amandla emeko yethu yokuqonda kunye nokulahla iinkolelo zethu ezingalunganga. Enye yazo ibiya kuba kukucinga ukuba abanye abantu babhetele, bakrelekrele ngakumbi, babaluleke ngakumbi okanye baxabiseke ngakumbi kunawe. Kodwa oku kububuxoki nje, inkolelo yokuzenzela enempembelelo embi kubomi bakho nokuziphatha kwakho. Njengaye nawuphi na omnye umntu, ungumdali wobomi bakho, umdali wenyani yakho.

Bonke ubomi bunexabiso, bunamandla kwaye bunokutshintsha / bandise imo edibeneyo yokuqonda ngoncedo lwengcinga yabo yengqondo kuphela ..!!

Le nyaniso iyodwa kufuneka ikwenze uqonde ukuba ungumntu onamandla kwaye okhethekileyo. Ke ngoko, ungaze uvumele nabani na ukuba akuxelele ukuba umbi okanye awunabuchule ngaphezu kwabo, kuba akunjalo. Okey, ngeli xesha kufuneka ndikhankanye ukuba usoloko uyiloo nto ucinga ngayo, into oqiniseke ngayo ngokupheleleyo. Iinkolelo zakho zibumba ubunyani bakho. Ukuba uqinisekile ukuba umbi kunabanye, ngoko, mhlawumbi kungekhona emehlweni abanye abantu, kodwa kwamehlo akho. Ihlabathi aliyiyo indlela eliyiyo, kodwa indlela oyiyo. Ngethamsanqa, unokuzikhethela ukuba yeyiphi imeko yokuqonda ojonga kuyo ubomi kunye nokuba uqinisekisa iinkolelo ezingalunganga okanye ezilungileyo kwingqondo yakho. Kuxhomekeke kuphela kuwe kunye nokusetyenziswa kwengqondo yakho. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.