Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, sihlala sithandabuza ubomi bethu. Sicinga ukuba izinto ezithile ebomini bethu bekufanele ukuba zahlukile, ukuba sinokuthi siphoswe ngamathuba amahle kwaye akufuneki kube yile ndlela iyiyo ngoku. Sixakekisa iingqondo zethu ngayo, sizive sibi ngenxa yoko kwaye sizigcine sivaleleke kulwakhiwo lwengqondo olwenziwayo. Ke sizigcina sivaleleke kumjikelezo ombi yonke imihla kwaye sitsala ukubandezeleka okuninzi, mhlawumbi neemvakalelo zokuziva sinetyala, kwixesha lethu elidlulileyo. siziva sinetyala Sicinga ukuba sibekek’ ityala ngale ntsizi kwaye bekufanele ukuba sithathe enye indlela ebomini bethu. Thina ke asinakuyamkela le meko okanye eyethu imeko kwaye singayiqondi ukuba inokwenzeka njani na le ngxaki yobomi.

Yonke into ebomini bakho kufuneka ibe njengoko injalo

Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba yonke into eyenzekileyo ebomini bakho, ukuba yonke into njengoko injalo ngoku, yindlela efanele ukuba ngayo. Njengoko bekusoloko kukhankanywa kwizicatshulwa zam, ixesha eladlulayo nelexesha elizayo zizinto nje ezakha ingqondo. Into esizifumana sikuyo yonke imihla yile yangoku. Izinto ezenzeka kwixesha elidluleyo zenzekile ngoku neziza kwenzeka kwixesha elizayo nazo ziya kwenzeka ngoku. Asinakuphinda sikuguqule okwenzeka kwixesha lethu elidlulileyo. Zonke izigqibo esakhe sazenza, zonke iziganeko zobomi, kufuneka zenzeke kanye njengoko zenzeke kulo mxholo. Akukho nto, akukho nto, ebomini bakho yayinokuvela ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kuba kungenjalo bekuya kuba ngenye indlela. Emva koko ubuya kuziqonda iingcamango ezahluke ngokupheleleyo, ngewuthathe ikhondo elahlukileyo ebomini, ubuya kwenza izigqibo ezahlukeneyo, ngewukhethe inqanaba elahluke ngokupheleleyo lobomi. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, yonke into ebomini bakho kufuneka ibe kanye njengoko isenzeka ngoku. Ayikho enye imeko onokuthi uyiqonde, kungenjalo ngewuyibonile kwaye emva koko ube nemeko eyahlukileyo. Ngesi sizathu, kukwabalulekile ukuba wamkele ngaphandle kwemiqathango imeko ophila kuyo ngoku. Yamkele impilo yakho yangoku, yamkele into oyiyo ngoku, nazo zonke iingxaki zayo, amahla ndinyuka. Kubalulekile ukuba siyeke ukuhamba ngokwengqondo yethu yangaphambili kwaye sijonge phambili kwakhona, ukuba sithathe uxanduva lwezenzo zethu kwakhona kwaye ngoku sidale ubomi obuhambelana ngokupheleleyo nemibono yethu.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba sinikezele kwilishwa, kodwa sinokuzithathela ezandleni zethu ikamva lethu, singazikhethela ngokwethu ukuba ikamva lethu liyakuba yintoni na..!!

Sinikwa ithuba lokwenza oku yonke imihla, nanini na, nakweyiphi na indawo. Ukuba imeko yakho yokuphila ngoku iyakukhathaza, yitshintshe, ikamva alikaqiniseki. Kuxhomekeke kuphela kuwe ukuba ubumba njani ubomi bakho bexesha elizayo, zeziphi iingcamango oziqondayo kunye nokuba luhlobo luni lobomi owenzayo. Unokukhetha ngokukhululekileyo, unokuhlala usebenza ngokuzimeleyo. Nantoni na ekugqibeleni ogqiba ukuyenza yile nto kanye ekufuneka yenzeke.

Akukho nto eyenzekayo, ngokuchaseneyo, yonke into ekhoyo iyimveliso yolwazi kunye neengcamango ezinxulumene nayo. Iingcinga zona zimele unobangela wazo zonke iziphumo ezinokubakho..!!

Ngenxa yesi sizathu akukho nto iyenzekayo. Thina bantu sisoloko sicinga ukuba ubomi bethu bonke bazivelela ngamabona-ndenzile. Kodwa akunjalo. Yonke into isekelwe kumgaqo wesizathu kunye nesiphumo. Unobangela wezigaba zobomi bakho, izenzo zakho kunye namava, zazihlala ziingcinga zakho, ezidala umphumo ohambelanayo. Ubomi bakho bangoku ke ngoko busekelwe kulo mgaqo kuphela, obangela ukuba udale kwaye iziphumo ziziphi ozivayo ngoku / onamava / uphila. Ke ngoko, ukwanawo amandla okudala ubomi obulungileyo kwaye oku kwenzeka ngohlengahlengiso lwengqondo yakho, imeko yengqondo ethi idale izizathu ezilungileyo ezikhokelela kwiziphumo ezilungileyo. Unale nto engqondweni, hlala usempilweni, wonwabe kwaye uphile ubomi obuvisisanayo.